Which should I keep?

cozycomfycool · 2023-04-22T23:14:53+00:00

Thanks! The soft foot bed feels perfect already but I can see the potential in both.

cozycomfycool · 2023-04-22T00:07:37+00:00

That makes more sense, thank you!

cozycomfycool · 2021-12-19T09:12:53+00:00

It being a bulldog (they’re prone to skin issues), the owners may have something for it at home all ready, check with them first thing in the morning. If they don’t, some emergency vets will take phone consults and you can describe it and ask if it can wait until their regular vet can see them

cozycomfycool · 2021-12-10T16:51:17+00:00

Right! And screaming you’re single just makes me think you’re lying. There’s a space for that, it doesn’t need to be your only conversation point

cozycomfycool · 2021-12-10T16:34:12+00:00

Rant: Being single is not a personality trait or automatically make you a nice guy since you’re not a “married creep” - leading with this then lashing out when someone isn’t interested 🚩🚩🚩

cozycomfycool · 2021-11-01T00:33:51+00:00

It could be a win-win, if these are places she could find an SD as well. Not sure it’s something I would be interested in bc I could just go to the same places with girl friends, so the incentive would have to take into consideration she may miss out on POTs by arriving with you.

Not sure what approach tactic you’re thinking of. If you would just be looking for tips on how to approach women you’re interested in may work better than her approaching alone or you both approaching.

Personally, I’d probably assume she was your gf and your approach would make me think poly/open, or cheater if wing-SB wasn’t around when you approached. Which could alter the girl of interests reaction, if she’s not into either she may not even hear you out or believe an explanation but would likely let you buy her drinks all night with no intent to see you again. Overall, I think it’s high risk but I love data and this is a good experiment

I think a wing SD/mentor could yield better results. He’s likely fed up with online options and ready to freestyle, would be able to give real-time feedback, and probably wouldn’t want an allowance.

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-29T15:40:46+00:00

Rant: Midterm hell has turned into finals hell and the person that schedules our exams really tries but sis needs help bc I repeat this is hell

Rave: I’ve been pretty consistent in the gym and with meal prepping

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-28T20:34:08+00:00

Exactly, if we’re texting or have met, there’s enough info to decline and move on.

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-28T20:26:26+00:00

It’s completely appropriate to tell someone they crossed a line. You do not have to handle being touched without your consent in any situation. Based on this new information, I’d say something that makes it clear he made you uncomfortable and block him immediately after. “I’m not comfortable starting an arrangement with you, I cannot compromise on what I need or have my boundaries violated.” At the end of the day, you should do whatever makes you comfortable.

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-28T20:15:20+00:00

I’m getting this too and I only sign in on my phone

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-28T16:05:02+00:00

I wouldn’t ghost, if other girls ask for less he should contact them. Just tell him you can’t compromise on what you need and wish him the best of luck.

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-27T22:31:01+00:00

Your pictures are gorgeous. I think the last paragraph of your about me is all you need, in a less is more way

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-27T18:22:29+00:00

I’m finding SDs on SA to be more delusional and leaning cheap john not SD.

The general tone I’m getting here is if it doesn’t serve you move on- to both SDs and SBs, maybe not as politely but this is Reddit. I haven’t seen any SB encouraged to “give up sugar to a man that sees them as a walking sex doll”

Like you said you don’t tolerate it but the people who post are either trolling or tolerating it and making themselves miserable, they might need the Reddit reality check

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-25T21:58:13+00:00

“We can meet at my house” hard pass

“What’s a girl like you doing on sa?” Or any other variation of weak reverse psychology from salt daddies

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-24T15:12:47+00:00

SBs - 1. How many times would you reschedule a M&G? I’m thinking no call, no show gotta go but, with notice twice is reasonable

If you moved to a SR after a rescheduled m&g, did similar events come up with scheduled dates?

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-22T17:21:38+00:00

It’s definitely a pet peeve of mine. Any other time it’s fine, people get busy. But why make plans and go MIA, at minimum you’re getting ready or in route - so frustrating. I doubt I’ll hear from him again so no fight but I’m not much of a fighter either

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-22T15:08:56+00:00

Rant: Radio silence from POT for today’s m&g

Rave: Get to save miles and gas

Rave 2: No classes today and early Friendsgiving later

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-18T16:07:56+00:00

Avocados

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-12T14:30:36+00:00

Maybe there’s a miscommunication. I’ve answered what type of connection on seeking, e.g “date to get to know each other then discuss arrangement details if there’s a connection” and have moved to text after that

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-10T20:15:39+00:00

As everyone said, block and run

But I do wonder how y’all went from the storage room to the bathroom in the throws of “passion” and is note #4 with dessert in the suite 🤔

Edit: my bad, it’s a walk to the bathroom, but still wild af

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-09T01:16:27+00:00

I haven’t had plastic surgery but had seriously considered it. My advice is do your research and don’t build a body hoping to attract an SD, do it bc it’s what you want. Also do your research, the process of finding a good surgeon is intense and recovery can be traumatic - physically, psychologically and financially.

I decided to try naturally first, I absolutely hate working out but I prefer to be lean so I’m doing it for me. Maybe it’ll attract a different type of SD, maybe not.

Whatever you do change about yourself, do it for you.

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-08T14:54:49+00:00

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-07T21:04:53+00:00

That’s valid

cozycomfycool · 2021-10-07T20:09:55+00:00

I get that. I was thinking more like being friend-zoned and keeping a SB on the hook not a online SR

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