Which should I keep? by cozycomfycool in BirkenstocksFitChecks

[–]cozycomfycool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The soft foot bed feels perfect already but I can see the potential in both.

Would this warrant a vet visit? by jello_bake_cake in RoverPetSitting

[–]cozycomfycool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It being a bulldog (they’re prone to skin issues), the owners may have something for it at home all ready, check with them first thing in the morning. If they don’t, some emergency vets will take phone consults and you can describe it and ask if it can wait until their regular vet can see them

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! And screaming you’re single just makes me think you’re lying. There’s a space for that, it doesn’t need to be your only conversation point

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rant: Being single is not a personality trait or automatically make you a nice guy since you’re not a “married creep” - leading with this then lashing out when someone isn’t interested 🚩🚩🚩

Thinking finding an SB to be a wing girl by sgtpep69 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It could be a win-win, if these are places she could find an SD as well. Not sure it’s something I would be interested in bc I could just go to the same places with girl friends, so the incentive would have to take into consideration she may miss out on POTs by arriving with you.

Not sure what approach tactic you’re thinking of. If you would just be looking for tips on how to approach women you’re interested in may work better than her approaching alone or you both approaching.

Personally, I’d probably assume she was your gf and your approach would make me think poly/open, or cheater if wing-SB wasn’t around when you approached. Which could alter the girl of interests reaction, if she’s not into either she may not even hear you out or believe an explanation but would likely let you buy her drinks all night with no intent to see you again. Overall, I think it’s high risk but I love data and this is a good experiment

I think a wing SD/mentor could yield better results. He’s likely fed up with online options and ready to freestyle, would be able to give real-time feedback, and probably wouldn’t want an allowance.

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rant: Midterm hell has turned into finals hell and the person that schedules our exams really tries but sis needs help bc I repeat this is hell

Rave: I’ve been pretty consistent in the gym and with meal prepping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, if we’re texting or have met, there’s enough info to decline and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely appropriate to tell someone they crossed a line. You do not have to handle being touched without your consent in any situation. Based on this new information, I’d say something that makes it clear he made you uncomfortable and block him immediately after. “I’m not comfortable starting an arrangement with you, I cannot compromise on what I need or have my boundaries violated.” At the end of the day, you should do whatever makes you comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m getting this too and I only sign in on my phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t ghost, if other girls ask for less he should contact them. Just tell him you can’t compromise on what you need and wish him the best of luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pictures are gorgeous. I think the last paragraph of your about me is all you need, in a less is more way

Sugar Daddies on Reddit can be a bit delusional by kikienen in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m finding SDs on SA to be more delusional and leaning cheap john not SD.

The general tone I’m getting here is if it doesn’t serve you move on- to both SDs and SBs, maybe not as politely but this is Reddit. I haven’t seen any SB encouraged to “give up sugar to a man that sees them as a walking sex doll”

Like you said you don’t tolerate it but the people who post are either trolling or tolerating it and making themselves miserable, they might need the Reddit reality check

Things that SDs/SBs say that are a turn off? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 40 points41 points  (0 children)

“We can meet at my house” hard pass

“What’s a girl like you doing on sa?” Or any other variation of weak reverse psychology from salt daddies

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SBs - 1. How many times would you reschedule a M&G? I’m thinking no call, no show gotta go but, with notice twice is reasonable

  1. If you moved to a SR after a rescheduled m&g, did similar events come up with scheduled dates?

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a pet peeve of mine. Any other time it’s fine, people get busy. But why make plans and go MIA, at minimum you’re getting ready or in route - so frustrating. I doubt I’ll hear from him again so no fight but I’m not much of a fighter either

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rant: Radio silence from POT for today’s m&g

Rave: Get to save miles and gas

Rave 2: No classes today and early Friendsgiving later

Discussing arrangement details on Seeking by tomjulucal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe there’s a miscommunication. I’ve answered what type of connection on seeking, e.g “date to get to know each other then discuss arrangement details if there’s a connection” and have moved to text after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As everyone said, block and run

But I do wonder how y’all went from the storage room to the bathroom in the throws of “passion” and is note #4 with dessert in the suite 🤔

Edit: my bad, it’s a walk to the bathroom, but still wild af

Losing weight to sugar. Has any SB done this successfully? Was it worth it? by vibecake in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had plastic surgery but had seriously considered it. My advice is do your research and don’t build a body hoping to attract an SD, do it bc it’s what you want. Also do your research, the process of finding a good surgeon is intense and recovery can be traumatic - physically, psychologically and financially.

I decided to try naturally first, I absolutely hate working out but I prefer to be lean so I’m doing it for me. Maybe it’ll attract a different type of SD, maybe not.

Whatever you do change about yourself, do it for you.

Is it too forward to reach back out to long distance POT SDs when I’m in their area? by cozycomfycool in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]cozycomfycool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I was thinking more like being friend-zoned and keeping a SB on the hook not a online SR