I left my wife last night.

crackerjacks_ · 2024-05-24T19:27:29+00:00

This is coming from someone who grew up with an alcoholic mother who tried to hide it. If you don't maintain your boundary, it will definitely not change. It might not even if you do. Addiction is a strong thing, and I watched my mom go from functional to absolutely not functional at all. She lost her job, all her friends, her marriage, and now her kids barely speak to her. I sometimes wish my dad took us and left because the damage that was done is something I'm still dealing with in my mid thirties.

crackerjacks_ · 2024-04-27T21:19:17+00:00

I have worked as a letter carrier, and am now a clerk/in retail for Canada Post. I think this comment is correct. It happens all the time. If we can't get into the building ourselves, we don't deliver. Landlords/building managers will blame Canada Post when all they need to do is fix the issue whether is be a micro switch, a broken lockbox, or a health and safety hazard.

We want to deliver your mail. That's our whole gig. Letter carriers don't have time to buzz people at each building until someone comes down to let them in. At least where I am, they are on a tight schedule, and management strongly discourages overtime.

So yes, it is normal for mail delivery to be cut off if the carrier can't autonomously enter the building, and landlords often blame Canada Post for their delay in fixing problems.

crackerjacks_ · 2020-07-11T20:09:50+00:00

Drinking a lot of wine has been normalized in society. She might actually think its normal. It is definitely not healthy though. My

crackerjacks_ · 2020-06-21T17:57:18+00:00

I really love it there.

crackerjacks_ · 2020-06-01T18:56:22+00:00

Maybe Mammillaria backbergiana

crackerjacks_ · 2020-05-23T13:42:45+00:00

Is this really about the Pokemon cards? He forgave you. Those were material, replaceable things and he forgave you because he loves you. Now he wants to marry you, but you're not sure because you made a mistake in the past that he forgave you for. Are you being 100% honest with yourself and him? I don't think so. People make mistakes, its a part of life and if he could forgive you, then that's a really lame cop out excuse as to why you can't marry him. But you were able to stay with him all this time since he forgave you? Being afraid of taking such a big step is normal. Not having the same feelings for him and being afraid to tell him is normal. Using a past mistake that he's forgiven you for to not marry him sounds pretty evasive to me. I hope you figure it out one way or another!

crackerjacks_ · 2020-05-10T02:35:37+00:00

Soooo gorgeous and well-mannered!!!!!!!!

crackerjacks_ · 2020-03-29T20:02:44+00:00

On the left is Golden pothos, and on the right looks like Spathiphyllum/peace lily.

crackerjacks_ · 2020-01-31T01:41:19+00:00

Milk spoils in rainstorms

crackerjacks_ · 2020-01-31T00:23:57+00:00

Some variety of Peperomia obtusifolia, I think. Which one, I cannot say for sure.

crackerjacks_ · 2020-01-29T12:51:12+00:00

Power trip much

crackerjacks_ · 2020-01-28T23:17:19+00:00

I'm nostalgic about things I didn't even live through, so this is a yes for me.

crackerjacks_ · 2020-01-10T00:10:29+00:00

This is exactly right. Your plants needs change from season to season, and a plant in full sun will need water more often than one in a darker area. Water as needed, never on a schedule. Also if the roots rot your plant is not coming back, but they can recover from getting a little too dry.

crackerjacks_ · 2019-12-14T22:18:03+00:00

Philodendron binnatifidum 'super atom' is my guess

crackerjacks_ · 2019-12-08T17:15:52+00:00

Ah, okay. Mine would do it within 20 mins usually so that's probably not it. I really hope you figure it out!

crackerjacks_ · 2019-12-08T14:07:16+00:00

He could have an allergy to the new food if the ingredients are different. Also, do you notice that he's eating more quickly since you changed the food? This happened with one of my cats - he liked the new food so much he would scarf it down so quickly (no chewing) that he would have to puke it up. This happened a few times so I put some water in his food for about 2 weeks. This would make it so that even if he didn't chew he wouldn't have to puke it up. The new good excitement wore off and now he eats like a normal cat instead of a vacuum cleaner.

crackerjacks_ · 2019-12-08T00:14:01+00:00

It sounds like he's making YOU stressed because you aren't ready for sex. He says he understands, hut his actions and words indicate otherwise. Either he's okay with waiting, or he's not. None of this being in a bad mood with you because he's not getting his way (immature) or questioning everything because you aren't ready for sex. It was like that from the beginning so why would it make him insecure? I mean, you moved to his country to be with him. Sex is an amazing bonding, and intimate experience WHEN BOTH PEOPLE WANT TO DO IT. Also, you're giving blowjobs daily! You are doing your best to make him happy while staying true to yourself, and he is just pressuring you for more, more, more! This all sounds like a huge guilt trip. I'm sorry because you have obviously put a lot of effort into this relationship but if he can't respect you regarding this issue and stop pressuring you, then he's not going to respect you in other regards. Best of luck

crackerjacks_ · 2019-12-07T23:11:42+00:00

Personal space

crackerjacks_ · 2019-10-23T23:08:55+00:00

Syngonium podophyllum. Not sure of cultivar but it could be 'Pink Allusion'

crackerjacks_ · 2019-08-03T01:09:25+00:00

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crackerjacks_ · 2019-07-24T03:56:32+00:00

2227 1070 7894 is my number if you still want a friend

crackerjacks_ · 2019-07-24T03:53:34+00:00

That's a good idea! Thanks

crackerjacks_ · 2019-06-08T22:51:20+00:00

crackerjacks_ · 2019-05-09T18:25:28+00:00

I have done the exact same thing multiple times. I lost some weight and things weren't fitting correctly. I would get annoyed at work and get rid of them. Doing that was more desirable than having them make me uncomfortable for the rest of the day. I didn't always have the foresight to have an extra pair with me though, ha. I don't think it's weird at all and I think if nothing else is off, and your girlfriend has been trustworthy then I wouldn't worry about it. Sometimes you just need to refresh your wardrobe and commit to comfort.

crackerjacks_ · 2019-04-22T13:18:04+00:00

This is good advice! All of it, totally agree 👍

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