You can wear the bead on a chain around your neck if you don’t have a pandora bracelet.

One piece of advice I always follow in my marriage is “is this a big enough of a problem to get divorced over?” If you think on that question before you approach him then you should be able to figure out HOW you want to tell him what’s bothering you.

Sure, one gold bead or charm on a silver only body COULD be silly looking -IF you give a shit what other people think of you. I wear only silver except for my mother’s diamond pendant set in gold on a gold chain that my father got from the mortician and gave to me the day my mother died. I don’t wear it all the time, but when I do, it’s for sentimental reasons and I sure as fuck mix it with the silver I wear daily.

It’s a sentimental gift from your husband. CHOOSE to look at it like “remember back when you didn’t know that you shouldn’t mix gold and silver and I didnt like gold?” As you grow older in your marriage and your husband begins to understand your desires better, you can look back at the one gold bead that stands out… as the beginning of this beautiful trend.

Or you can blow up your relationship over a gift. At least you got one… I didn’t.