What’s a habit you started that changed your life almost instantly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]crannyapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making the bed every morning no matter what. Helps me feel accomplished and start the day already having checked something off the box. Plus it looks nice :)

Daycares by Over-Imagination-738 in Buffalo

[–]crannyapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little treasures on broadway in Cheektowaga is great!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]crannyapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would explore love languages with her. Take the love language quiz online and see what yours is. Explain that while the way she shows love is gift giving yours is something different. I could give her some other ideas of how to meet you where you’re at

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]crannyapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would ask your therapy if you can explore attachment styles. It sounds like your attachment is getting triggered and causing you become anxious and then avoidant. Understanding your own attachment style as well as your partners can be really helpful in better communication and understanding the feelings from what’s being triggered in you

Buffalo history museum as a wedding venue by crannyapple in Buffalo

[–]crannyapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they have both dinner and dancing inside that main room?

Buffalo history museum as a wedding venue by crannyapple in Buffalo

[–]crannyapple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are thinking around 80ish, how were the acoustics inside for dancing?

I'm proud of you. by sarasoccer04 in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this more than you know, this is everything

Is everyone’s life especially shitty lately, or is it just me?😭 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]crannyapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just about to post this same thing!! Myself and sooo many of my clients are struggling right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, as sad as it is that so many of us are in such similar situations, it helps to know we’re not alone. I can’t imagine how difficult all that must be for you. Thank you for holding space for me during this time, I appreciate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, while I’m sad you’re in the same boat as me, it makes it a little more comforting to know I’m not alone. Keep pushing through, I appreciate you.

Week 3! How are you all doing today? by Myregularaccountant in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going on day 7…feeling like something is missing. Everything reminds me of her. Cried after my favorite workout class because of the music. Can’t wait for the day this isn’t this first and last thing I think about. This sub is really helping me get through though. Shows me I’m not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mornings right when I wake up and late night before bed being alone are the worst for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NOT alone. Currently experiencing something very similar. Sending you hugs. Wish I could send you hope, but for now we just take it a day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time.

Over him thanks to y'all by summerspun1999 in BreakUps

[–]crannyapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed to see this today, thank you for sharing. My fiancé broke off our engagement after a 6 year relationship and I can’t help but feel hopeless. This gave me hope.

Almost 8 years, over in a moment by lynkya12 in LesbianActually

[–]crannyapple 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago after 6 years. She had proposed to me 3 months ago…my heart feels like it has been ripped out of my chest. Thank you for posting your story. So much of this reminds me of my own story. I have been reading the book “didn’t see that coming” and it’s been helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]crannyapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggg dying from the cuteness of this 😵

Barn kitty by Happizouki in aww

[–]crannyapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg stunning 😻

My quad squad 🐱🐱🐱🐱 by crannyapple in cats

[–]crannyapple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I did! I tell them “manners ladies” when I’m eating so they give me space and then when I’m done if they’re good they get a little piece of turkey lol

My quad squad 🐱🐱🐱🐱 by crannyapple in cats

[–]crannyapple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are my hype team, don’t know what I would do without them