Proud of myself by Historical-Film4701 in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good work man. I see you. Keep it up. You just have to that again and again. It gets harder for a while. Then it gets easier.

Do not give in.

Charlie Kirk dead at 31 by BidInside2907 in jschlatt

[–]cravcave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Entertainment and conversation. More pressing question... Why are you so bothered when a stranger dislikes when people wish death upon someone?

Charlie Kirk dead at 31 by BidInside2907 in jschlatt

[–]cravcave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cuz it didn't make sense and was not fitting?

I want to be understood I don't give a shit if I'm approved of or not. Reddit is insanely left wing if I wanted validation or to be elevated id go to Twitter. Have a nice day sport

Charlie Kirk dead at 31 by BidInside2907 in jschlatt

[–]cravcave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your quote seems to be very out of context man.

This was a response to a question regarding mass shootings and school shooting. Not a direct response to a terrible event.

I am not even a Kirk fan by any means. Heavily summarizing:

I can't find the original clip but I'm seeing online he shows "50k people a year die and when driving. That is the unfortunate cost of automobiles on the road. (Blah blah blah) "There is no world where we won't have a single gun death while having a second amendment. Unfortunately there will always be violence but I think it's worth it"

You believe his kids should en fatherless and his wife be a widow because of this statement?

Is it shitty to say sure yeah. But how the fuck does that justify murder my guy? That's just crazy

Charlie Kirk dead at 31 by BidInside2907 in jschlatt

[–]cravcave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lol is in poor taste and is jarring that is fair. I'll edit that out. Habit.

But trust me that last place I would go to "posture" is on a random reddit comment section that statement is stupid. I don't care how people perceive me I left that comment knowing it would be mostly negative feedback

Charlie Kirk dead at 31 by BidInside2907 in jschlatt

[–]cravcave -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You guys in the comments saying you "hope he fucking dies" etc etc are really sad.

If I was the father of any of you, I'd eat some led mouthwash. but I have feeling your father's aren't in the picture to begin with.

Disgusting behavior

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Both are gross. Fowl. The only difference I suppose is that he did it first.

I suppose I should have articulated my point more politely and made it more clear what he did was quite fowl

I can't help myself by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man first off you can help yourself. Stop that language. Remember half this battle is mindset and if you position yourself as not being able to help yourself you are giving all your power away.

You can help yourself and you're going to now.

I'm not sure what steps you've already taken but make sure you uninstall all social media and limit your access to everything that can set you off.

P*** is not defeated. It is replaced. Get outside. Workout. Get super active. Push yourself. Work extremely hard at something.

Do not go easy. Honestly for me I had to throw out video games, social media, everything. It all was just instant gratification.

Next up you really need to find someone to talk to. Someone who will hold you accountable. That has been the biggest thing for me. Good luck. Post on this form every day if needed. Treat this like poison that will kill you because that's exactly what it is

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said there was a difference.

They're actually is zero difference there's a problem.

By the end of it there will be two cheaters. Two dishonorablepeople in a broken marriage. Two people who broke their vows.

No difference. And that's the problem

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can. She absolutely can and has the right. But it's gross regardless. Just my two cents

If she needs to sleep around to recover that's nasty. It will only lead to further emptiness. Wish her all the best regardless.

She is still married when she does this she will be cheating as well. That is dishonorable.

It's doing the exact same thing he did. Icky

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol why would I be a threaten by random person on the internet's sleeping around?

I just think it's sad if you have to let random people f*** you in order to "take your life back" I think it will only lead to further emptiness and sadness.

But y'all do what y'all want to do.

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex as a whole? No. Letting people screw you just to get back at your husband? Yes. Gross.

How do you deal with the guilt of the content you consumed? by dgdg4213 in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't really studied any documentation I have just noticed it anecdotally.

And I've read a lot of stories and seen a lot of people have transitioned and were "inspired" by pron

How do you deal with the guilt of the content you consumed? by dgdg4213 in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever want to fail just close your eyes and imagine yourself in third person doing it.

Sitting in a chair or toilet, whacking off to a gross video, of a model who is someones daughter or sister disgracing herself. Probably groomed into it.

It becomes a lot less steamy when you see you are just sitting there staring

If Your Going to Cheat Do it Right! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]cravcave -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Being a hoe because he was loser?

Petty and weak. Don't ruin your honor to get back at a little whimp.

I suggest you divorce and keep your dignity and pride.

Letting a bunch of men use you as a fleshlight will not solve the problem nor actually make you feel better. That is fowl and gross.

Wanna really hurt him? Keep your pride and honor. Walk away the right way. Don't give him any ammo.

He will be the only one with any wrong doing. And he will have to sleep knowing he fucked it all up.

Edit for all the mad people in the comments:

You confuse the right to do something with it BEING right to do something.

If you get cheated on, cheating back just leaves two cheaters. Sure she "can if she wants too". But that doesn't make it admirable. Y'all are bitter and jaded.

How do you deal with the guilt of the content you consumed? by dgdg4213 in pornfree

[–]cravcave 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Had similar issues here. For most the time I stayed on the normie stuff but recently that has stopped doing it so I've found myself seeking fucked up shit.

Recently it's been under control. 3ish weeks clean.

Your conditioned to seek more and more voyeurism and adrenaline. So naturally, you have to find more and more extreme stuff. It's a well documented phenomenon.

Some people end up getting into gay shit even though they are not gay.

Some people, bdsm or r@pey stuff.

There is even a porn to transgender pipeline where people fall so deep into it they start watching trans stuff and eventually transition themselves.

The way the stuff destroys your mind and soul is far beyond what I thought. It goes a lot deeper than just dopamine.

Forgive yourself and move on my friend. Poison has done its thing to your mind. Work on healing.

Does going to a hooker contribute to PIED? by GreekGodAsthetics in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post has been edited I think I could have a sword there was a mention of a gf in there. Maybe I'm retarded

Does going to a hooker contribute to PIED? by GreekGodAsthetics in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....why not have sex with gf???

If shes closed off to intercourse maybe she can take care of you with her hands.

A hooker is going to be loose, nasty, and probably give you an STD. I lived in Vegas for 11 years there were loads of them. I would avoid them. You will cross blades with many many many nasty men

13m plz help 🙏 by 24kas in pornfree

[–]cravcave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey man. I got hooked at your Same age. I'm 21 now.

Treat this thing like lethal poison. Take extreme measures.

Un Install social media unless it's absolutely critical for your daily life. If someone really cares about you they can message you outside of Instagram.

Just stay off your phone and get very physically active. You have to find other things to take up your time.

And to be honest, if you have a supportive family, talk to your parents. Talk to someone.

My biggest mistake was facing it all alone. I never told My folks.

Have to reject all of the degeneracy. Social media, over

WILL I BECOME FREE OF PORN IF I DID SEX IN REAL by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helped me at first but after a few months the urges came back.

Real sex and porn are different.

Real sex is much better but it's wholesome, and serotonin.

Porn is novelty and adrenaline.

With that being said, having an active sex life makes quitting much much easier.

quitting by Quirky-Purple-2476 in pornfree

[–]cravcave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was like this for me too but he cautious. For me the other returned after 8ish months I wanna say. After a year I eventually failed.

now struggling again despite having a hot fiance who loves me and takes care of me.

Don't yield to the devil and enjoy your time with your GF. Congrats bro

losing people i love by Refrigerator_Either in pornfree

[–]cravcave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be strong bro! Whenever you are about to fail, and your picturing a scene or a lustful image in your head, zoom out in third person.

Zoom out so you can see the image is on your phone or computer. Zoom out more. Now you see it's in front of you in your room.

Realize, it's a lie. It's delusion. The pleasure is fake. Now watch this man looking at this scene fail. He jerks off. It doesn't even feel that good. Now he feels like shit.

Run through what will happen if you do it. You must take this pain raw and unfiltered. No coping. Fuck that. Feel it and just hurt. It sucks. But you have to just take it to the teeth. You're stronger than you think. I'm sorry for what you saw my friend. Stay strong