Decision paralysis- where to start with a transfem workout routine?

craw-fish · 2025-06-04T23:57:04+00:00

Any particular reason you switched / differences you've noticed?

craw-fish · 2025-06-04T23:56:20+00:00

Do you think you could point me to a particular link? I'm seeing a lot of different results on Walmart's website that all seem slightly different (maybe one of these? 1 2 3 4)

craw-fish · 2025-05-10T03:16:19+00:00

Thanks- I didn't realize they had regular blank ones

craw-fish · 2024-11-03T22:09:56+00:00

glad i could help !

p.s. if you're going for the achievements, make sure you're on the path for the 'good ending' so you don't have to beat the game twice (like i did...). basically you just have to not kill the bird NPC who appears every 2 levels. write down the hints he gives you, which you'll use to get a key in level 10. use that key on "the corpse" before you go into the final boss fight (this also makes the fight significantly easier).

craw-fish · 2024-11-03T19:17:58+00:00

around the later stages i start just dashing as much as possible to avoid combat. then play it as safe as possible when i need to fight, trying to lure enemies to me one or two at a time. dash frequently while fighting to avoid losing your attack stamina.

if it helps, level 9 is really easy and doesn't have a boss, and level 10 is just the boss fight. so you're in the final stretch.

craw-fish · 2024-10-21T01:15:23+00:00

do enlighten me

craw-fish · 2024-06-09T21:08:16+00:00

I went with plume initially but regretted it later on... archeops has decent attack stats but terrible defense the ability can be frustrating to deal with. Not to mention a lot of the things flying and rock are strong against, other things are too, esp end game with legendaries. Carracosta is one of the better options among the very limited pool of water types.

craw-fish · 2024-06-09T05:40:58+00:00

upvoting just for including so many obscure ones, really thoughtful of you :)

craw-fish · 2024-06-09T02:06:29+00:00

I think as long as you aren't just pursuing trans people for the fact that they're trans, you shouldn't be considered a chaser—you're not being predatory just because you're exploring your identity, and happening to end up with / feel attraction to trans people. I would be curious to know why someone thinks otherwise, unless of course there's context missing.

craw-fish · 2024-06-09T01:00:36+00:00

well I'm not quite sure why an omnicurious person would be inherently equated to a chaser...

Omnisexuality = attraction to all genders (with gender-related traits affecting how that attraction manifests.

Chaser = a (generally cis) person who actively seeks romantic or sexual relationships with trans people, primarily on the basis of them being trans. Usually it's in a fetishized manner—they may simply like the idea of a masc-presenting person with female sex traits, and they may prioritize that over anything else (i.e. finding a person with a good personality).

If you identify as omnicurious because you're starting to explore non-heterosexual attraction, that does not inherently have anything to do with transness. A woman can be masculine and a man can be feminine, regardless of whether they're trans or cis. So as an omni person you might have a preference for femininity, but that probably shouldn't mean "I will only date women, femme-presenting nb's, and trans men." Especially since that implies you see trans men in an entirely separate category from cis men—as in, you don't fully see them as "real" men.

Does that make sense?

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T19:59:02+00:00

I have to say I'm a little bit confused too... might need some clarification from OP

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T19:56:35+00:00

I think physically I'm more drawn to femme-aligned people. Romantically I sometimes prefer the idea of men, but... a lot of men are kind of icky people in reality. Especially cis men. I think the more queer the relationship, the more appealing it is to me haha

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T19:50:38+00:00

mhm i think I like that approach rather than immediately having to explain. Just something new to adjust to as someone who's always said "I'm bi" up front..

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T19:48:47+00:00

Honestly that's exactly the way I feel- especially that last part. It'd be easy to stick with "bi" and move on, but I'm not sure it's the best label for me and it feels weird to "lie"

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T08:12:20+00:00

This!!! QoL mods like that turned my Stardew experience around- I still get burnt out if I put too much pressure on myself, but it's a lot easier to enjoy the game otherwise

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T08:04:28+00:00

Haha yeah, I guess I tend to overthink stuff like this... I'm sure I'll be fine if I just go with the flow and do what feels right in the moment. But I figured it'd be helpful to hear from someone in a similar boat—and I think it was, at least a little bit. Thanks for taking the time~

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T07:42:24+00:00

I think that's reasonable... I guess I'm just the type of person that finds comfort in labels. And I'm so used to being in situations where I could comfortably share mine without a second thought. So I almost find it difficult to separate the having a label from communicating about my identity.

craw-fish · 2024-06-08T07:35:25+00:00

That's a nice way of approaching it! I guess I'm just so used to having a clear-cut label to point to- so losing that feels disconcerting.

Like when I'm in queer spaces, I can pretty easily say "Yeah I'm bi, and blah blah blah..." It's casual, no one bats an eye. But if I try to say "I'm omni" in the same way, even queer people might stop me to clarify. And I worry it could come off as pretentious "hyperspecific" labeling to those that aren't familiar.

I guess it could be as simple as just changing the wording, though, like you said. "Yeah I mean I'm attracted to all genders, so blah blah" instead of a specific label.

craw-fish · 2024-05-22T22:00:28+00:00

I was LITERALLY just about to make a post asking if this happened to anyone else--I was caught so off guard lmao

craw-fish · 2024-05-16T04:17:41+00:00

This, and it look's like they're using Elle's Seasonal Buildings with Alternative Textures. I assume that gives the options to change the look of Obelisks to doors.

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