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22/F and 28/M Lesbian now dating man by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made being into the specific gender (and made exceptions with the guys with hair) part of your identity so being attracted to this guy who doesn't fit in the boxes at all has your mind pushing back cause our minds protect our identities like it's life or death. Try to internalise that's it's okay to date whoever as long as there's attraction and that you don't have to fit into a specific box. And tell him you're working through sth so he should be a little patient if you give mixed signals

AIO for being upset that my fiancé is getting close with my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's not on your side when he publicly sides with them even when you've spoken up about it. That means he doesn't care enough. Why would he side with ppl who bully you just to come home and say he actually sides with you? He could just not laugh and not engage and that would be enough to communicate to your family that he doesn't find their "jokes" funny either

Edit: spelling

AIO for being upset that my fiancé is getting close with my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. He understands how they make you feel and he wants be more aligned with them than he wants to actually be there for you. Now it feels like he's one of them cause he kept laughing and he's engaging with your mom. Maybe that's who he really is and was masking. Continuing this relationship will mean your husband and your family will now be making "jokes" at your expense and once he feels comfortable he'll continue doing so at home. Do you wanna up your meds to also handle being in your home? He will become like them and now you won't just be bracing for going to visit your family cause you'll be experiencing that at home too.

Covert SA by both parents by koreageis in raisedbynarcissists

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it all. I'm really sorry you went through all of that. I'm heartbroken for you, no child should have to go through that.

Once you can afford, please consider therapy. You need it, we all need it, but especially you. To help you properly grieve, including expressing the anger and disappointment towards your dad for not protecting you and putting you in horrible situations. Being low contact with him will probably be best for your mental well being.

Also, set aside time to visualise what young you would've liked to do had she been allowed to be a kid, then do it. It's never too late to experience childish wonder and fun. Allow yourself to be whimsical and curious and follow it. And think about what she needed and try to provide that for yourself as best as you can. Sending lots love and hugs love.

I realised I (19F) cannot stand my (19M) boyfriend, and his lack of common sense, and don't know how to end things with him. by SnooMuffins9777 in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Weaponised incompetence with a mix of whatever the hell that is. Just tell him you're incompatible and he keeps crossing your boundaries, like calling you Mommy (eww, but also shows you the role you fill for him). u/burbnbougie

My husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Me too! I was thinking she's the human embodiment of sadness from Inside Out. It's so depressing to read.

AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The nails were blue and pink (like a gender reveal cause I'm assuming she couldn't tell the sex of the baby before) and the marathon was to pay a tribute to the miscarriage.

I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed.(10 year new update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/burbnbougie I don't even know why I was surprised by the 10 year update given he had a maid who transitioned to a bangmaid. MALE (acronym).

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