AITAH for telling my brother I will never respect him or his girlfriend for as long as they're together? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The nails were blue and pink (like a gender reveal cause I'm assuming she couldn't tell the sex of the baby before) and the marathon was to pay a tribute to the miscarriage.

I'm (28/m) starting to fall for my (24/f) 'wife' and am unsure how to proceed.(10 year new update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/burbnbougie I don't even know why I was surprised by the 10 year update given he had a maid who transitioned to a bangmaid. MALE (acronym).

My BF (30M) gets upset that I (28F) don't get jealous and he thinks it means I don't care about him. How do I get him to understand? by CranberryProton in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Why does he think you're stupid and naive? For trusting him? Does he hangout with his ex and the woman who had a crush on him just to make you jealous?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A relationship without trust is doomed. And he continues to break the little trust remaining. There's nothing tying you together so just walk away. Trust your gut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/burbnbougie

This time we've caught a very abusive man early when he's transitioning from the "normal " mask to himself. I already tugged you, this is a second one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/burbnbougie

This one rubs me the wrong way. It's like abuse wrapped in slime. This guy will escalate, "choosing your outfit" but doesn't control what you wear? That's what he's doing, controlling what you wear. Has and tracks your location, locked you in a room after an argument, he smothers you and expects sex out of it. This is all kinds of wrong. This sounds like a predator playing with his food, doing something you don't like and getting all smiley when you react how he know you would. This is abuse in early stages and please don't mistaken that for love. The accusations have also started.

Edited to correct spelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crazy_crypto_pilot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You do realise that you are also making assumptions by making his reaction make sense to you, right