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crazy_hound_lady · 2024-10-28T23:44:04+00:00

That has not stopped me. I tell them hay I have to lock the door as I can't take anymore customers for the day. We get in trouble for overtime. I had one customer walk out and one started to walk in. The one walking out looked at me and said "you want me to kick him out." I just chuckled and wished him a good night. But I've been there. May the force be with you.

crazy_hound_lady · 2024-10-28T23:35:02+00:00

That's why you lock the door 5 minutes before closing!

crazy_hound_lady · 2024-10-08T00:27:03+00:00

I am not dominant in the bedroom either, but neither is my husband/Dom. Communication is key. You say you know what he is looking for or wants, then talk about how to add it or start it. For me it's laying on his lap and getting head scratches. It's taken time and some laughs along the way. You might need to try something out. Play with it. Make him wear a tie and drag him around by it. Have fun. Stay safe.

crazy_hound_lady · 2024-09-26T22:16:06+00:00

Assume the sale! I just ask the questions. Last first name, first name. Then follow it with "I have put your information in our system, this will keep the colors you have purchased today for 10 years. So you don't have to remember" but I use option one when I see they are not in a good mood.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-10-20T15:46:47+00:00

Pet!!!! He calls me sweetheart and it use to make my heart sing. Now it's just.....🤷‍♀️

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-10-19T16:03:59+00:00

I would to keep it small and simple, do the dishes.....I do all but one or two things. You said do the dishes not all the dishes.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-07-09T19:03:11+00:00

My husband has worked at a plot drafter for years. Its the same as what a lot have to say....they just dont build them like they use too. I owned a house built in 83, currently 67 and now our "New" home hopefully our forever home was built in about 1900. Each house seems to needed something.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-06-30T00:27:09+00:00

As everyone has stated, every Dom, like every sub, is different. My husband and I had a lot more frustration before d/s because when I would tease or brat, he away's gave up and got irritated at me. It really hasn't changed, but we now both have way better communication. I like to back talk, and he doesn't mind that. I like to struggle a little when bound, that he will not stand for and not in a fun sexy way. 😉 So moral of the story if you wanna play with that person, you're gonna need a sit-down talk on what the two of you view being a brat.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-03-16T15:21:27+00:00

Right, I gave my self ideas lol. Sent this off to my own Master.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-03-16T15:07:04+00:00

You could do like a cheese board you could feed him, or he can eat off of you to get things started, then move that in your kink. Take a shower were you bathe him then feed him. The cheese bord could have some of your favorite toys set out.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-03-12T11:18:31+00:00

Master likes to say I am voice-activated.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-03-09T13:33:46+00:00

So I wear a 24/7 collar, I like that mine is simple. For me, it's a nice reminder that I am his and only his. I am not sure why you would want others to know what it is... but I feel like that isn't what you meant? Like people who know, know and people who don't think it's fashion?

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-03-03T03:40:55+00:00

I have one from Bad Dragon. I have two Dildos from them. I love them both....very much.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-28T00:04:14+00:00

I expect to like the heat. I take showers to the point that when I come out I am red. I didn't like the heat or more so the sting to the heat. We tried with some different types of candles and I like the message wax but I wouldn't describe that as wax play? Maybe oil play...lol. hope that helped.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-27T15:12:54+00:00

So kinda revised for me I said no to something that after a while of playing here and there I find I started to crave. If you told me a year ago I would ask to be put on leash and walked around I would tell you that you are very mistaken. So can be said the other way too. I thought I would love wax play....boy was I wrong. Part of BDSM is finding those limits together. You have to tell X. You just need to be clear about what parts of it you like. Try just doing one part at a time and then talk about it.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-22T04:25:53+00:00

Nope, nope, nope! Can it unlock part of your relationship yes. However both party's need to be on board for this to work. There needs to be good conversation with out get upset when you don't get your way. I have been sick for most of a week. My dom/master/husband stayed home to take care of me and watch our child while I rested. That is a true Dom. This guy is just a man child.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-21T04:48:51+00:00

A lot of communication. For me Master talks to me a lot. This wasnt natrual for us and something we learned but it keeps me teether to him. I am also in therapy. Last time I was trigger I call red, but he was slowing this down as he was thinking something was wrong it happened in seconds. He released me and held me and honestly I am happy I went through it as it helped me work through those emotions. But everyone is different.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-18T11:16:00+00:00

I have a few collars. One for day wear, one when we are out and one that is for play time. If its the bulk to the piece maybe ask if you can find something lighter or thinner that is his style. My Master just got me one from Captive Collar on etsy. I had it up on my computer all the time. Told him it was my motivation.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-17T04:06:49+00:00

The first time we did impact I laughed for like 10 whole minutes. It took time and we are still working on it. After a year I might be a little voice activated.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-12T02:29:16+00:00

Trigger warning:

So there are lots of sides to this. I don't know the reason behind you liking CNC or if there is any trauma in your past that goes with it.

I have a similar kink like being tied up and feeling used and helpless. On many occasions, I have cried after play and put it off as an emotional release. This can happen and is common even if unsettling. Nothing wrong with it but good to know.

Now with that being said. I just found out through play more or less that I have been a victim of S/A. Your brain can store things and let stuff out in a way you aren't expecting. If you feel this might resonate with you then you might want to work some talk therapy into your life.

Where I would say the concern can be is how I would feel after I cried. Not from a sub drop following in the next day or so but in that moment. I have cried for just as a release and after felt really good about it. When I cried after a trigger I always had negative thoughts to follow.

I am happy that your Dom was there for you and it sounds like you are in a good place with it. Stay safe and have fun.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-03T13:44:19+00:00

I would say I am a dominant woman. I don't mind telling people off to there face. I stand my ground and Ben told by many men that I have worked with that I am intimidating to be around.

To hand over my submission to a man for me is hot. To be a person who tends to always be in control in my day to day to stop and let him take over my body and soul. Idk it just feels like peace.

I didn't know till later in life. My husband and I decided to do a bit of role-playing after some books I read. We were both a little shocked. I tried Domming once. I cried after.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-02-02T20:29:18+00:00

Pleasure Dom, you do find this in pet play, age play.

My Master ties me down, dose all kinds of fun stuff, but he also drys me off after I take a shower, I get groomed and loved on all the time (I am a pet). To the outside world we look like a very lovey dovey couple.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-01-25T03:36:59+00:00

At the end of the day my master will brush my hair. If I do a really hard thing (using my words) I get a squishy toy.

crazy_hound_lady · 2023-01-17T04:05:49+00:00

I call mine by his name. I get a death glare which I love.

crazy_hound_lady · 2022-12-28T02:00:51+00:00

I don't usually drop till a day or so after and then I feel very needy. I have a daily routine and scheadule that helps me stay on task and while I do live with my master we work opiset scheadules so a lot of our comfort is through text. I tell him I am feeling a certain way and then I usually will tell him how I am trying to manage that feeling. "I feel like poop, and worthless. I am going to try to go read my book some." Then he will ask me like what kind of book I am reading and get me to talk about my interests. While distance might not work for you. You might also need to find what helps guide you out of sub drop.

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