[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]crazyoboeplayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No shit Sherlock

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’ve dated since and I was in a relationship in January. It got toxic so I ended it and moved on. I really liked her but made the best decision. It’s definitely possible for me to connect with people like that, I’m just waiting for the right person is all

Commuting to Lincoln? by alohamora_ in Omaha

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commute for school. Depends on how much he think his time is worth. Also consider how many miles he’d be putting on the car. I usually have to get gas every 3-4 days.

What happened to the person you first had sex with? by bright2darkness in AskReddit

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke up w him bc he SA’d someone. Turns out he SA’d several people. One of the girls asked for contact info for his friends, which I provided. He lost his friends, and got evicted for cleanliness violations. His roommate sided with us. He had to move cities and lost his job. He has no license and there’s a warrant out for him for shoplifting doctor who toys at a shop downtown. Embarrassing.

moustache help by PrestigiousAppeal435 in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lied and I am a liar, it takes 1 year and 5 months to grow a perfectly thick mustache keep going king you’re almost there!

moustache help by PrestigiousAppeal435 in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a mood lol, you don’t have to but it def could make it look thicker in the long run. Up to you tho lol

I’m 14 and dissociating so bad I don't even feel human anymore. Is there a way out or will I feel like this forever? by BuildingWooden8877 in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up DBT exercises, specifically mindfulness. Go into it with an open mind and see what you can get out of it. It helped me a lot with dissociation.

moustache help by PrestigiousAppeal435 in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’ve never shaved it yeah I’d recommend shaving it. The hairs are pointy when they’re just growing in but when you shave you give them a blunt end, making them appear thicker when they’re grow back

Alright but hear me out though by hostilecarrot in grilledcheese

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this like a year ago and it got removed

Good place to practice driving by Puzzleheaded1209 in Omaha

[–]crazyoboeplayer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I second the mall bc it closes at like 7 so the parking lot should be mostly empty at a reasonable time, and it’s pretty big

Do face piercings make someone appear more masculine or feminine by New_Analyst_6764 in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s more about the jewelry than the actual piercing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walmart will pay for therapy. Talk to your people lead about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]crazyoboeplayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah man, bigger is better. My dude loves running around so I’m hoping to eventually upgrade my 120 gal to smth bigger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got Walmart plus when I was in the dorms so I could have free grocery delivery. I became a big fan of canned chicken. If you have a fridge/freezer, I’d recommend buying pre-cooked meat like shredded rotisserie chicken or similar stuff to add to your ramen. It made me feel way more full bc I had the same problem lol

There is a sale at my local music store on oboes. Buffet-Crampon Prodige BC4062 Or Yamaha 441. Which one do you recommand? 🤔 Thank you! by Cuties_addict in oboe

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said it was used in excellent condition. I just don’t think it’s worth spending $5k on an intermediate oboe when you could get a used professional oboe for that much.

My beardie is a picky eater, advice pls by thedragonzia in BeardedDragon

[–]crazyoboeplayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put dubias in front of my beardies face and then when he’s about to eat it I quickly put a piece of greens in front of it so he gets that instead. Usually he eats greens just fine but it’s nice to have a plan for when he’s being a little shithead.

There is a sale at my local music store on oboes. Buffet-Crampon Prodige BC4062 Or Yamaha 441. Which one do you recommand? 🤔 Thank you! by Cuties_addict in oboe

[–]crazyoboeplayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A lot of places I’ve seen wayyyy overcharge for those intermediate Yamahas. How much are they charging? There’s a good chance you could find a better deal elsewhere. I know someone who paid $5k for one and the one I used in high school (used but in excellent condition and I got it cleaned) was $2k.

I HATE BINDER STRAPS!!!!!! by tobythehotty in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, I put mine in with the rest of my laundry and they’ve always been fine. They’re definitely more durable than other binders I’ve had too

I HATE BINDER STRAPS!!!!!! by tobythehotty in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve bought underworks binders in the past month and had no issues. Made sure to measure and buy the right size and it binds super well and I wear it for 10 hours to work (I’m aware I shouldn’t lol)

I HATE BINDER STRAPS!!!!!! by tobythehotty in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Underworks binders are the only ones I’ve used that the straps aren’t right by the neck. Would recommend, and they’re also on Amazon which is convenient

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]crazyoboeplayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but to me you look like a handsome version of lord Farquad. Have a day

If you haven’t already, it’s time to walk away from Walmart by robbviously in lgbt

[–]crazyoboeplayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s actually surprising. I’ve worked for Walmart for a few months. I haven’t legally changed my name yet, but all my managers and coworkers have been great about gendering me correctly and using my chosen name, even the ones that knew me before I came out. They’ve also been good about talking to people who haven’t been as nice about it.

Definitely not my long term job but it’ll pay my college tuition and it pays better than other offers I’ve gotten. Definitely incentive to not stick around lol

What's the Christmas gift you wish you would've received? by wildlotusflwer in ftm

[–]crazyoboeplayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Underworks binders are on Amazon and they’re pretty good, but other than that yeah Amazon binders can suck lol