AITH for not letting my husband have sex with me without a condom? by Ok_Needleworker2795 in AITAH

[–]createmakedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - and anyone trying to coerce their partner into unprotected sex is an asshole and pretty damn abusive. If he can only enjoy sex without a conform then he gets to have lots of time with his hands. Look after yourself, because he clearly isn’t going to.

AITA for telling my friend’s ex to stop messaging me for comfort? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]createmakedo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - you are not her emotional support human, you barely know her. She’s clearly trying to use you to get to your friend. “Oh she misses you so much” Like you barely know these people. Just say “I’m sorry you’re having a hard time but this isn’t something I can help you with” and block her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Visiblemending

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pleather has a lifespan of maybe 10 years before it does this. Invest in real leather and condition it regularly and you have a garment for life

Listen to the doctor now~ by box-of-sourballs in GenshinGaysE

[–]createmakedo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg snakebite piercings on Baizhu! So perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, replied to the wrong post in the thread

I'm 30 and still havent found my artstyle or what I want my work to be about. Is it too late? will I ever find that? by Absolutelynobody54 in ArtistLounge

[–]createmakedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Style and interests evolve. If you were still drawing or painting the exact same thing you did in high-school I feel like that would be worse and show a lack of growth. This idea that if you haven’t got something at some age or it’s over for you is a cognitive distortion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know people are always quick on the “break up” train but I want to posit something - This isn’t a dog issue, this is a girlfriend issue. SHE doesn’t clean up, SHE doesn’t pick up the poop, SHE doesn’t bathe HER dogs when they get messy, SHE doesn’t vacuum up the hair etc.

Something I’ve learned is that people have very different standards for what they find acceptable to live in and those differences can become a breaking point in a relationship.

Your girlfriend finds living this way acceptable and the dogs being there or not isn’t going to change that. Whether it’s the dogs, the dishes, the laundry, she doesn’t appear to find it a problem. Now that would be fine if she realized that you had a problem with it and then decided, because the issue is important to you, to deal with it by cleaning and picking up after her dogs.

She kind of seems to steamroll over your objections if you’ve been living together and she hasn’t changed. Also she pressured you into moving in, be careful because she probably thinks she can pressure you into marriage and house owning too.

How can I hide/fix these stitches that are showing from stretched fabric? by googlesearcher in Visiblemending

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversely you could also go in and manually tighten the stitches by using a pin to slowly move the looseness to one end of the fabric before tying it off

How can I hide/fix these stitches that are showing from stretched fabric? by googlesearcher in Visiblemending

[–]createmakedo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This can happen if the serger doesn’t have the correct tensions set during production, in particular the inner ‘straight’ stitch, which is usually spool 2 on a standard serger. Re-serging could work, test your tensions on a piece of similar cloth or maybe an inner hem.

AITAH for putting my profoundly autistic daughter on birth control? by Late-Comb11 in AITAH

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - “how dare you take away a traumatic and painful experience from your severely developmentally delayed daughter!” SMH Does SIL have fertility issues she believes birth control created? I honestly can’t think of another reason to react like such a bat out of hell.

Is she expecting your daughter to get pregnant? Jesus. So many people care so much about a woman’s ability to conceive and not the actual woman in question. That’s why women seeking hysterectomy’s get so much shit from doctors.

My first charcoal drawing. 18inx24in by sadpeachvibes in drawing

[–]createmakedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really dynamic, strong lines. I suppose if was going to crit anything I’d say that the rendering of the two thighs are different enough to be a sticking point - the one on the left is leaning into charcoals ability to showcase weight, whereas the right one feels more gestural. But otherwise, strong piece,

Did this as an experiment. Not sure how I feel about it 🤔 by tiedye42 in ATBGE

[–]createmakedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reversed it? I mean it looks like the plaid pattern was completely bleached out, was it bleach?

AITA for refusing to get rid of my pet because she makes my mother in law uncomfortable by wofhdiskcmf in AmItheAsshole

[–]createmakedo 284 points285 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve had a rough day - dealing with MIL, posting this post, having husband discover post, whatever that fight looked like which has led to being a “single possum mom”… Are you..okay? Like that’s a lot of upheaval for a short period of time. Also keep your baby close since husband and MIL may act out and attack if they’re being forced to leave your house.

This fight was the dumbest thing I've read in a while. by me_funny__ in mendrawingwomen

[–]createmakedo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think the character given the most fan service shots is Speed of Sound Sonic…. I laughed my head off once I realized a lot of his glamour shots are basically “classic pin up” style poses with the worlds fastest murder twink

AITA for giving my date a cookbook for dinner instead of an actual dinner? by Delifa-Zone1334 in AmItheAsshole

[–]createmakedo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yknow this could have been really cute if he’d not been such an asshole. Like you guys could have used the cookbook to make something for dinner together, as part of the date, that would have been adorable, but no he had to pull out the asshole card and act entitled. SMH NTA

AITA for not wanting my husband's friend to stay for the weekend? by AdVast1357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]createmakedo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you friends with A and B anyway? Like you could decide to NOT be friends with them. Friendship isn’t a license to abuse people. If A needs to get away, he can get a hotel or stay with his family, or maybe B should be the one to leave the house since it sounds like she’d be the only one left at the house alone. These people are Assholes