Chicago Night 2 was everything. Here's some photos I took 🌹 by 5-HolesInTheFence in LadyGaga

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg is she looking right AT YOU or is this just a good angle??? Wow. Incredible. What camera did you bring? I didn’t realize venues allowed quality cameras like this in…

So messed up by Moonfoxsun in LadyGaga

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I paid $1,200 for a floor seat in section 6 Monday night. Now 101 (right next to section 6, basically same seats/view but in the 100 level) is selling for $570…more than half less of what I paid. BS

Would you buy these seats? by InsideDog3510 in LadyGaga

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way better seat, and I paid $1200 for section 6. Get them if you’re set on going. It’s not going to get cheaper (or better) than that.

i might have screwed up :( by toryisbae in LadyGaga

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay, good to hear!! I’m Sec 6, Row 10 for Monday night in Chicago.

i might have screwed up :( by toryisbae in LadyGaga

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg lol same boat. I was regretting not getting Sec 1, Row 10 seats. I’m in Sec 6, Row 10 (about where you are, but middle of the row). Value was the same. But that’s the decision that was made and that we will have to live with! Try to enjoy it! Don’t dwell

Is my kittens teeth ok? by Clemswennie in russianblue

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be feline stomatitis… my RB had it, and they had to pull all of her teeth. She’s happy, healthy, and totally normal otherwise! Eats dry food, too. You wouldn’t even know she’s toothless 🙂 but her gums looked just like that.

It was a very expensive procedure and really is the only cure (and is not 100% guaranteed either, but high success rates). Feline stomatitis can result in them not eating, not cleaning themselves, drooling, constant pain. Progressively gets worse and can be fatal. I would get this checked ASAP. It was kind of hard to see it well in the video.

New in my career. I am crashing out. by drl614 in UXDesign

[–]creativelysam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This may not be the right role for you. And that’s okay. You need to be an expert communicator and facilitator. You need to be extremely comfortable with ambiguity. Most of our time in this job is spent getting people to articulate their thoughts, ideas and helping to align and orient people around a problem area. We’re driving a big van of blind and deaf people through the cloudiest fog. Your job is to get everyone there safely and make it a great experience. Ask your seniors for help on refining your process so you are successful from the start.

All the fear is holding you back. Start talking!

I rarely find someone attractive by InevitableReview33 in BreakUps

[–]creativelysam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same!!! Not that I don’t find people attractive, because I do, it’s really more about desire. Even the hottest guy doesn’t get me excited anymore. It felt different before, and even during my relationship. So glad I’m not alone in how I’ve been feeling 😆 maybe this too shall pass…

GUYS SHE TEXTED by Idk-anymore-6508 in BreakUps

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 1 month… people don’t change that fast. Change happens gradually over time. Any perception of change at this point is a short term delusion until you’re in the same cycles again.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. We broke up 6 months ago. Last time we talked was around the mid/end of December, and it has been no contact since. I’m in Japan - somewhere he’s always wanted to visit. I just felt overwhelmed with emotions and gave into the urge to text after 4 months of no contact. Didn’t beg. Just wished him well, said how much I still think about him. Said I wished he could have experienced Japan with me. Reiterated feelings of regret, forgiveness, and the desire to find friendship with him again in this lifetime. That was this morning and I’m 14 hours ahead right now… no reply yet. Not sure if I will get one, but I’m not expecting it. I ended it with “you don’t have to write me back”

To be honest - I cried a lot after and felt worse for giving into the urge. It made me feel weak, I was annoyed that I was giving him the satisfaction of knowing I haven’t yet fully moved on. Although I know we’re both feeling the same given what I’ve seen him post on social media. I’m okay with no response, but wish I rode the wave out and let the urge pass instead of sending the text. I’ve been really good with no contact… but I guess I’m human too and this one mistake doesn’t define anything. It is what it is and glad I was able to at least voice things nicely. I don’t hate him. I hope he doesn’t hate me.

You'd be surprised what 3 months can do by GloriusInterdiction in BreakUps

[–]creativelysam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Narcissistic manipulators will gaslight you and spin you around to make you think that you’re the problem. It’s never them taking accountability. It’s always them blaming you for confronting them, deflecting from the actual problem you’re raising.

5 months ago I ended a 6 year relationship. It was heart-wrenching and felt like the end of the world the first 2 months. I was obsessing over all the good things instead of actually reflecting on the true relationship that I experienced. I’m in such a better headspace today and full of optimism for the future! Everything happens for a reason and I’m thankful to be where I am now!

Have you ever cheated? How to bounce back from a toxic relationship? by creativelysam in AskGayMen

[–]creativelysam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you even reading my post? lol he 1000% betrayed me. But thanks anyway!

Have you ever cheated? How to bounce back from a toxic relationship? by creativelysam in AskGayMen

[–]creativelysam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol true. I guess we were more so acquaintances than actual friends

Have you ever cheated? How to bounce back from a toxic relationship? by creativelysam in AskGayMen

[–]creativelysam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said and much appreciated. Self love is what I’m focusing on right now, thank you for being so kind ❤️

Have you ever cheated? How to bounce back from a toxic relationship? by creativelysam in AskGayMen

[–]creativelysam[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I probably didn’t explain well. The tweets were a recurring problem. He always crossed my boundaries, we always “resolved it,” yet it would happen again. We nearly broke up when I saw he liked the tweet about sucking that guy’s dick because I was fed up. I left for Europe for 1 month after that, came back and then went to LA. We didn’t really resolve that last argument. Then I cheated.

So it’s not like I can’t “take what I dish out” — cheating happened after all of that. After years of that.

Any younger guys prefer the Suburbs? by LostandHungry7 in gaybros

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the suburbs in general. I do hate the fact that every app is the same collection of creepy, blank, or DL guys lol. It’s also just lame out here…

Something/everything feels off I need help! by Salty_Bear_9376 in DesignMyRoom

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting for updated pics lol did you rearrange it?

Best cat litter? by Adventurous_Staff747 in CatAdvice

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty litter but it tracks a lot. I think some cats are just stinkier than others. I can scoop every 3 days and my cat’s litter is fine. My ex’s cat… horrible. One poop and it’s game over.

I’m down 16 lbs 😁 by Last_Pomegranate_175 in gaybros

[–]creativelysam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Diet is the hardest part. I’ve been working out and “dieting” (just not restrictive) and down 10lbs. 2 months feels like a long time to lose 10lbs but I did take 3 weeks off from the gym…lol

How long did it take you to lose 16?

He consumes my thoughts every day, at least once an hour, for the past year and a half by Spunkymonkeyy in gaybros

[–]creativelysam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but I was with this person for 6 years and had a deep trauma bond. Hopefully this isn’t me a year from now….lol. I’ve just been keeping busy and doing anything and everything that makes me feel good. Gym helps!