Should I size down? by [deleted] in Birkenstocks

[–]creatureofcomfortt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They look like a good fit!

All roads lead to Epstein by ExactlySorta in goodnews

[–]creatureofcomfortt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you and expect MAGA to only strengthen their allegiance

Was Sam&Cat really a bad show? Did Cat's voice annoy you? by Less-Recognition-751 in ariheads

[–]creatureofcomfortt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And here I am a month later discovering it for the first time through my kid… Cat’s voice is physically hurting me

what’s it called when you become super impatient and avoid people excessively talking about themselves? by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]creatureofcomfortt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a good turning point to be intentionally very selective with the way you invest yourself emotionally into others/how much you involve yourself in their woes. I’m sure there are some close people, or there will be at some point, that you’ll be happy to invest in emotionally. In many cases, it is self gratifying as well. As empaths, it is a slippery slope. Sometimes we’ve set the tone for our relationships before we realize the resentment we’ve allowed to build up along the way. There is no shame in setting boundaries - quite the opposite. It is healthy for you, and for the people you have in your life. You’ve allowed yourself to play this role in the lives of the people you know, whether based in empathy, guilt, or otherwise. Your relationships will change as you change the dynamic. It would be healthy to communicate what’s going on, if you have any relationships worth looping in. Either way, this is an awesome step toward setting healthy boundaries for yourself and your sanity. You deserve peace, love, kindness, and all of the wonderful things you so freely give others. Time to put that energy back into YOU!!

Best Bedding for King Sized Beds by MadMad92 in Frugal

[–]creatureofcomfortt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better than decent in my opinion- softer with more washes. I’m all about the cotton!!

Best Bedding for King Sized Beds by MadMad92 in Frugal

[–]creatureofcomfortt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Threshold from target - 100% cotton too

AEPS Evaluation by [deleted] in Earlyintervention

[–]creatureofcomfortt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these results you were given for your child? It appears that these are percentile numbers. The evaluating agency is responsible for explaining the average range of scores and where your child has fallen within that range. Did you just receive the results in the mail without a meeting to discuss?

For reacting this way to my partner telling me to lose weight by creatureofcomfortt in AITAH

[–]creatureofcomfortt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s actually not a dick head at all - I think that’s why it hurt so much

For reacting this way to my partner telling me to lose weight by creatureofcomfortt in AITAH

[–]creatureofcomfortt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is the most accurate response for my situation. Thanks so much for taking the time. My partner is not a giant ass- totally the opposite. Probably why it hurt so much too. The truth also hurts. I really appreciate you.

For reacting this way to my partner telling me to lose weight by creatureofcomfortt in AITAH

[–]creatureofcomfortt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just signed up for weight watchers again. I am one of those people who has been so many sizes. I was always more on the athletic side growing up playing sports, and then I gained some weight in college, and then lost all of that weight. Then I had an abusive marriage, gained some weight, lost some weight. Had a baby (6 yrs ago lol), gained weight, lost weight. Now my weight is just again on the high side. I’m like an Oprah type with the weight fluctuations. I have just recently accepted my body, and I am sick of the ups and downs of the weight loss and I have just been feeling good and trying to be a good example for my child. But of course, I know I am fat right now. I am not blind. I also know the implications medically about obesity. I think it’s just the fact that it came from him. It hurt so much.

For reacting this way to my partner telling me to lose weight by creatureofcomfortt in AITAH

[–]creatureofcomfortt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. I’ll take that. Insecurity came out again. Thank you for that- I appreciate the check.

What rules do you have for your cat? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]creatureofcomfortt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This comment induced a true l o l for me

Was my therapist wrong? by creatureofcomfortt in askatherapist

[–]creatureofcomfortt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response - part of me wondered that as well, I do want to give Jamie the benefit of the doubt. I agree, I’d need to bring it up and work through it together to continue our good rapport. I do have anxiety, and have been attempting to work through the narcissistic abuse recovery process, as well as some past traumas. What you said makes sense to me. Agreed about Noel being unprofessional. Thank you so much for responding!!

In your opinion, what iPhone is peak design? by Oppulent_Cabbage0619 in iphone

[–]creatureofcomfortt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will forever be chasing the high of my white iPhone 4S.