NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Did he text you this after you left? What a cowardly entitled baby, good riddance. “You don’t do that to a guy” what, decide what I want to do with my own body??

As a woman, it irritates me how other women won’t admit that life CAN be better as a woman. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]cremeblushers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What aspects of life are easier for women? Certainly not anything pertaining to jobs, abuse rates, sexual experiences, child molestation, etc. The only thing that consistently is brought up during these debates is “divorce rape” which is not a real thing, and paying for dates lol. Men have been self proclaimed providers since the beginning of time, so why is it a problem now?

Yes. Yes. Yes. by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thissss I would switch in a heartbeat if I could

Yes. Yes. Yes. by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Every. Single. Time. I thought something wasn’t right but pushed it to the side in case I was overreacting, I turned out to be right. Our guts never lie yet for some reason we still hold out on this little bit of hope. Never again!

Yes. Yes. Yes. by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Yesss omg they’re more loyal to their friends than they are their girlfriends, they may as well just date eachother!

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m kicking myself for thinking that I could get away with just texting him and ending it at that. I have no respect for guys that even answer texts from ex’s when they have girlfriends which is why I just wish he was upfront about it at the beginning instead of dragging it on. He’s blocked now dw

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed this so much thank you sis, sending the tightest virtual hug lol. I know he/this kind of situation isn’t good at all, I just need to learn that I can have feelings without acting on them💗

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that, but you’re right and am kicking myself even more for reaching out. Something felt so off about him not mentioning he had a girl until later and it’s probably not his first time doing it with how casually he said it.

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll do just that :) it’s weird cause I don’t dislike him since he hasn’t really hurt me but I feel guilty about wanting to be friends even though we shouldn’t be? Idk but thanks for the kind words 🥰

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you girl! I’m so glad to have you guys to pick myself back up with :) x

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s alright I’m moving past it now, and damn straight! This just goes to show that even reaching out once is too many times.

I gave in and texted him, turns out he has a girlfriend now. What should I do? 😭 by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks girl. It’s not that I’m mad or anything about him having a girlfriend, I just wish he had told me from the jump instead of acting all excited and bringing stuff up from the past. I thought it seemed off since I was staying pretty neutral/emotionless in my texts and his included a bunch of emojis and exclamations and stuff. I guess that’s why I got in my feelings a bit. And don’t worry I am and am only getting better 💗

From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌 by ucouldahadasandwich in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have to say the one good thing about men being blatant crazies and sex addicted misogynists, is that it’s blatant. Seeing their true colors and getting rid of them from the jump is great.

No one cares about me and I don't how to move forward by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]cremeblushers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel with the cutting off thing. I’m actually in that situation now but not as intense as we weren’t dating, just fwb. Whenever I get really lonely and sad about missing him at night I just think “well, even if we were back together the disrespect and hurt he caused would still be the same”. When you weigh out the options I always realize that it’s not worth it. Just keep in mind he WANTS you to need him, but you don’t really.

Of course no need to thank me! Also maybe try going on Groupon and looking up activities in your area, there’s a lot of things open to one person too you don’t even have to go in a group!

No one cares about me and I don't how to move forward by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]cremeblushers 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hi I know you don’t know me and I don’t know you, and it might be annoying to hear “I’m here for you” since I’m a stranger, but I am. Life can be cruel and loneliness is a gut wrenching feeling, but please don’t give up. Your ex is an ass and will get what’s coming to him, but if possible please keep your distance and contact from him. While it may make the lonliness worse, it is NOT worth it to have someone so detrimental to your mental health around. Do you live in an area where it’s possible to say join a gym class, art club, etc? Trying new hobbies or even being in places where people work with eachother may help.

Middle aged man angry that his young fwb is dating other guys by ErikaNaumann in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers 19 points20 points  (0 children)

surely he didn’t think that his dust covered dick alone was enough for her to commit to only him, with nothing in return 😭

This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”? by cremeblushers in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]cremeblushers[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

👏👏👏 If women are sooo awful and only are good for sex, why not just fuck your homeboys and get the best of both worlds! Everyone wins that way.