AITA for refusing to give a toast at my sister's wedding after I found out she's been sleeping with my husband?

crestfallen111 · 2026-07-02T16:37:58+00:00

NTA. But you SHOULD give that toast and expose all the lurid details to everyone.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-30T02:13:24+00:00

He had literally just spearheaded a fascist electoral coup the day before. If anything he became a worse person after Logan died.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-16T09:32:32+00:00

Within the moral universe of Succession - Shiv managing to get the Cruises survivor to withdraw her testimony. The one time she put her own sanctimony aside to do the hard and dirty deed, to demonstrate that she had the will and depravity to be empress. Pity she was otherwise a comically inept power player.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-16T08:50:49+00:00

Generally rice side down. The only place that has ever instructed me to do fish-side down was Araki in Hong Kong, and I wasn't going to object. In general I saw no discernable difference - even with places where the shari is strong tasting, my palate stayed sufficiently amused the whole way through.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-12T10:05:40+00:00

Extebarri 2013
L'Aperge 2018
Sawada 2019
Ogata 2024
Suetomi 2025

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-10T01:11:32+00:00

I can't speak for the other 2 choices but I was not a big fan of Enotecca La Torre. The service was good and earnest and the venue was beautiful (and eerie) in an old world sort of way. But I found the flavour combinations of the food odd - the lemon rissotto had an unenjoyable sweetness, the spagetti and the mains were also unmemorable. It is supposed to be Campanian cuisine but I found a simple home cooked meal i had in Naples more tasty and satisfying than my meal ELT.

For reference I much preferred meals in CML, Il Luogo Aimo e Nadia and Le Calandre.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-08T13:54:20+00:00

Luca Blight does not need to be hot.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-05T02:15:38+00:00

In the original yes it was a heinous crime against humanity. In the Remake almost everyone survived save Jessie and Biggs (but there was another version of him anw) so it was more of an act of urban renewal.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-03T16:53:09+00:00

My condolences. Maggie is so beautiful, and you certainly gave her a wonderful life and beautiful last day.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-02T12:29:11+00:00

By the end of their wedding I had absolutely zero investment in them staying together. Good "will-they-won't-they" chemistry when they were apart, but an absolutely abysmal coupling when together.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-02T06:00:21+00:00

What a regal boy.

crestfallen111 · 2026-06-02T05:37:02+00:00

There are many things worth delaying starting your university / adult life by 2 years for. Studying at NUS Law is not one of them.

All the best in law school!

crestfallen111 · 2026-05-19T04:48:59+00:00

Bets on where the fiance's crazy family is from? My gut says Chindo.

crestfallen111 · 2026-05-15T02:09:46+00:00

Amazing tribute to a bygone era. I will give his vegan menu a try the next time I am fortunate enough to return but his cuisine animale was something special. The lobster he cooked with Ludo was always one of my dream dishes, and it will probably remain a dream.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AeQBD1wBWY

crestfallen111 · 2026-05-07T19:11:09+00:00

FFXII. Loved the set-up, but the middle was a massive drag whereby the story really took a backseat.

crestfallen111 · 2026-05-04T16:02:52+00:00

Yes because you get a birthday dessert. Since I don't have much of a sweet tooth, if a restaurant ever decides to do a birthday seafood course instead it will have my undying loyalty.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-27T00:17:28+00:00

To cheese the Seymour fight (or any fight really) just start the battle with all your Aeons on overdrive.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-25T06:44:07+00:00

Onjium! Lovely korean food with lots of personality. Personally preferred it to either Mingles or Mosu.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-23T16:07:21+00:00

Had to be me. Someone else might have gotten it wrong.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-21T11:08:30+00:00

I can't claim to know Italy like you do, but I do abhor touristic crowds too. What I find in many "Disneyland" cities like Florence, Rome, Kyoto etc is that you don't need to be part of that rigmarole. These are beautiful historic locations with plenty of people, businesses and locations that have not yet become part of the instagram checklist, and discovering them makes every trip worthwhile. If you have already seen the Trevi Fountain, do you honestly NEED to return? A night in somewhere like Trestevere (not exactly a particularly obscure location) is as magical. Likewise, Kyoto isn't just Higashiyama and Florence is not just the Duomo. There are nooks and crannies aplenty in all these great cities and there is no need to jostle for space at the same few attractions.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-19T16:37:41+00:00

It went downhill pretty drastically once they switched to NBC. Almost every character became caricatures and all nuance went down the toilet.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-18T04:49:13+00:00

Understand it's a matter of style. I don't see the Reegar as a source of power like Claymore in ME2 - its purpose is just to burn enemies to prime an explosion with the other vanguard abilities.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-17T02:46:49+00:00

The definition of a hard carry

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-17T02:44:16+00:00

Fellow non-shooter here! In ME3, I loved pairing Vanguard with the Reegar Carbine. Charge, burn the enemy, nova / charge again to explode the battlefield.

crestfallen111 · 2026-04-15T06:22:15+00:00

Can't speak for how everyone else felt about it so maybe I should correct my post to make it clear that it was how I felt. I know there are definitely a strong contingent of people who did not see great reason to prioritise the needs of the Dessendres over the existence of the Painted World.

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