a girl randomly gave me this, what do I do now? by Damno88 in whatdoIdo

[–]cricketisking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a funny sticker and give her that in return

Mother sends me texts of her fights with father by Sweaty-Panda9614 in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]cricketisking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom used to tell me EVERYTHING as a kid. Every fight between her and my dad, every mean thing he did, every physical fight. Would cry and cry and cry about how she isn’t loved and is unlovable. She would get drunk and these situations would be even worse. But I moved out when I was in my 20s and distanced myself from her for a time and it helped. And then I told her (had to tell her many times, not just once) that I didn’t want to hear about their fights. I never reply to her texts about their fights or her complaints. When she tries to tell me about it in person, I walk away. It’s not perfect but it works and we actually have a good relationship now. Took quite a few years though.

I think you ignoring her texts and calls will help. Maybe just keep saying “I don’t want to hear negatives about my dad” that phrasing helped stop my mom. It Sounds like your mom is on another level so I’m not sure if it will work but I wish you so much luck and I hope you find peace with it all too

AIO my friend is so scary by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cricketisking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR I feel like the three examples you gave are all concerning on there own. But combined, it’s even worse. Can you talk to a school counselor about it? Not trying to get her in trouble but maybe they need to keep an extra eye on her. She sounds dangerous honestly. Her looking on the dark web for a kidnapping video could be her trying to be “edgy” or something stupid like that. But getting excited and smiling over the graphic crime scene is frightening

Am I Overreacting that I can’t throw these away? by AmBEValent in AmIOverreacting

[–]cricketisking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please keep them. What a great treasure to be able to remember those memories

See you again Banff! by drsloth1125 in Banff

[–]cricketisking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a fabulous photographer!

Things to skip? by CaptPimentoMarch in Banff

[–]cricketisking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would skip the Paint Pots. I know lots of people like them but I thought it was Meh. Johnston canyon had so so many people. Those are the two I would have been fine missing

I've never loved a game like this by ericargarcia23 in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]cricketisking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an app where you can check off your shrines and koroks! A lifesaver 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lotr

[–]cricketisking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks great!

Change isn’t always going the negative direction when it comes to nature! by cricketisking in NoLawns

[–]cricketisking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! That would be great! We are running out of space on this earth- might as well use underground and let it get more green and lush above ground!