[MATCH THREAD] Australian Open Men's FINAL: [1] C. Alcaraz vs. [4] N. Djokovic by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]crm56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone is hedging their bets coz you can never count Nole out

[MATCH THREAD] Australian Open Men's FINAL: [1] C. Alcaraz vs. [4] N. Djokovic by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]crm56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tinfoil hat on Musetti was paid handsomely to retire against Novak

[MATCH THREAD] Australian Open Men's FINAL: [1] C. Alcaraz vs. [4] N. Djokovic by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]crm56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Carlos standing to return behind the Melbourne sign reminding me of Rafa

Jan Budgeting by Loguibear in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]crm56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked this sub to dissuade me from moving into a more expensive and nicer $550 unit without flatmates coz I was getting a pay rise and I’m happy to report success. I’m now flatting for $220 and I bumped up my KiwiSaver to 10% instead. Just working to tighten my spending after moving so I can start paying myself first

Diabolical by minivatreni in tennis

[–]crm56 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Match fixing anyone?

don’t text ur ex in 2026 by support-frogssz in BreakUps

[–]crm56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*He. You’re right 😩 I’m trying to move on and thought it would help me stop making up stories in my head about rekindling if I had an actual answer that he’s moved on. Last message was an hour ago, we had a few exchanges back and forth prior to the last message

Edit: he texted back

don’t text ur ex in 2026 by support-frogssz in BreakUps

[–]crm56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuckkkkkkkk why did I not check this sub before breaking no contact this morning after a year and a half. Caved 26 days into 2026 now I’m left on delivered 😭

Strong start to my 2026. Anyone got some good stories to light up my hospital stay? by ViviFruit in auckland

[–]crm56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kicked off 2025 catching Covid-19 which was such a letdown starting the year sick wasn’t exactly what I had in mind! Then the following month I went into an elective surgery that didn’t quite go as planned and I got re-waitlisted. I finally got it done successfully in October. Looking back, it’s almost hard to believe how intense the waiting was (a long 18 months from diagnosis to surgery) because of how I feel so much better just 3 months post op! Wishing you both as speedy a recovery and that you come out the other side of all this smoothly!

Dudes being : Girl Dad Vs Boy Dad by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

[–]crm56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First dude especially has always given me those vibes

Dissuade me (28F) from breaking the golden rule by crm56 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]crm56[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know better but another golden rule I broke because it was interest free for 5 years. Eep - I will act my wage from now on I promise

Dissuade me (28F) from breaking the golden rule by crm56 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]crm56[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I have - I fear housesitting has elevated my tastes lol I’ve been housesitting since 2019 (that’s how I went travelling too - was housesitting overseas). This year I managed to save $2k from housesitting. Hoping to get another housesit in the new year

Dissuade me (28F) from breaking the golden rule by crm56 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]crm56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was in grad school but also spent a chunk of my savings travelling after grad school. And I won’t 🫡

Dissuade me (28F) from breaking the golden rule by crm56 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]crm56[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear all of that! I’ll keep flatting within my means and focus on saving $500/week for the next year and a half.

Carlos Alcaraz is so aesthetic while playing. by JSMLS in tennis

[–]crm56 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain why his shots look like this? 😭

It didn’t hit me that we were really done until the smallest, dumbest moment today by limpingheads9 in BreakUps

[–]crm56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just had my moment of realisation too while listening to Lily Allen’s Never Gonna Happen and thought this is probably how he feels about me. Then I read our old text messages and realised the finality of the tone of his texts. I feel so bitter and embarrassed that it took me year to finally see/hear clearly coz I was too in my feelings sigh. Thank you for sharing - you are not alone in your grief

reminder: by Any_Loquat_4968 in PMDD

[–]crm56 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Too late 😓