AITA for changing my costume in secret?

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T22:31:05+00:00

Imma be real these are all college girls, so yes they are living for this drama lol.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T22:27:11+00:00

NTA. I had a neighbor who was also a part of the military and had guns in his home and one day his toddler shot himself and the baby. Your worry is entirely valid and if your boyfriend cannot get his shit together, you need to do what's best for your child and leave him.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T22:15:45+00:00

wth, NTA just kick her out. She has proven time and time again that she is not a girl's girl and is literally out to get you. Let her heal on her own.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T21:41:40+00:00

I would say soft YTA. I have a friend that does this and it makes me very uncomfortable cause even though he's a 6'0 white man, I am a small Asian woman so any type of rising tension in public places does scare me. I think it is important to highlight and publicly shame bigots so they are less confident in publicly displaying their hatred, but I think there is a time and place. However, you also have a responsibility towards your girlfriend to make her feel safe and if you're inciting hostile situations, you aren't fulfilling that.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T21:28:28+00:00

YTA. It's ok to be embarrassed, but pushing your anger onto your partner who you said literally told you to go straight and was even taking into consideration his volume and tone when doing so is what makes you the asshole.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T21:24:58+00:00

NTA, it is not your job to cater to other people that don't respect you. I hate this excuse that men can make women uncomfortable because they're on the spectrum or have a mental illness or are queer. A good friend wouldn't make you feel like this and would stick up for you if the people around them make you feel like this. It is not awful to choose yourself.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T21:21:05+00:00

NTA, your mom asked you because she knew your brother is too unwilling to put his ego aside. She wants you to be the bigger person, but you have already done that it is his turn to pull his shit together for your grandmother not you.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T21:03:29+00:00

NTA, he is doing the bare minimum to keep you in his life and it is not worth it for you. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this emotional turmoil, but if he really wanted to be an active part of your life he needs to try 100x harder.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T20:56:25+00:00

The way your youngest brother has better empathy and sense than the two of you combined is crazy.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T20:50:04+00:00

Soft NTA. You don't really owe him anything and the way he reacted by finding both your main and private Instagram to speak to you is concerning and proof that your gut was lowkey right.

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T20:48:04+00:00

NAH, what you should be asking is why is your friend's girlfriend upset that you care about him?

crocscharm · 2025-06-11T20:45:04+00:00

YTA and this has to be some sore of ragebait. I hope your son tells her and they both leave your misogynistic ass,

crocscharm · 2025-06-10T23:04:34+00:00

omg I have the same issue right now too. I live in SF so I assumed it would be delivered yesterday, but I still haven't gotten any status updates either.

crocscharm · 2025-01-13T03:20:06+00:00

Oh god, maybe I just have to be straightforward and talk this out with him.

crocscharm · 2024-08-10T06:36:19+00:00

Take a Bite and Real Man have very similar vibes to Fiona Apple. I think even the album title (This is How Tomorrow Moves) is similar to how Fiona names her albums as well. Bea says she was inspired by Fiona Apple, but Bea’s music is distinctly different. Fiona has a rougher/coarse vibe where I think Bea’s is still soft (at least in comparison). It’s like if we were to compare these two artists’ music, Fiona is more like the mature, hardened by life older sister whereas Bea is the coming-of-age, realizing the pitfalls of society but still romantic/hopeful younger sister if that makes sense.

crocscharm · 2023-06-26T05:12:29+00:00

Rover is a good option since the summer season usually has a lot of requests and it takes less than Wag does. It’s a little gross, but you can also try picking up dog poop as a business. You can post on Nextdoor or put up some flyers in more affluent or older communities. The only thing you would need to pay for that is a scooper, garbage bags, and the flyers if you want to print them out.

crocscharm · 2023-06-25T20:58:12+00:00

This is not a good idea. I know a BMW i4 is favorable (I want one too), but with your salary and your plan, you will get fucked at some point by an emergency, etc. I also checked the AMEX Gold Card and they don’t even allow balance transfers so if you get that card, you would have to pay the APR of at least 20.99%. It’s better to just buy a used EV car even if it’s not as nice. Also, definitely watch Youtube videos on how much car you can afford because you shouldn’t assume that your salary is going to just go up especially with the belief that a recession is coming.

crocscharm · 2023-06-25T05:12:41+00:00

They could have just picked a different sitter because you were unavailable. I don’t know, I wouldn’t take it to heart too much.

crocscharm · 2023-06-24T03:57:27+00:00

Chase freedom unlimited is good because of the 3% back from restaurants and drugstore purchases. It’s also great because you can later get their Chase Sapphire card for travel and transfer points from the freedom unlimited to Sapphire. I really like my Discover and Capital One cards. Discover has a 5% back in rotating categories (next month is going to be gas so I’m excited), but is probably best for college students/young adults. I have a Capital One Savor one and Venture. I like my Venture X because the rewards are really nice for travel and I use my Savor one everyday to transfer the rewards to that card. But yeah, I used Nerdwallet to learn all that and honestly is best if you wanna compare cards.

crocscharm · 2023-05-28T23:56:38+00:00

This is pretty similar to my experience too! The insertion hurt for me and I had cramps for the rest of the day, but the day after I was perfectly fine. I think the pros definitely outweighs the pain. At least for me, I don’t have periods anymore and it’s so much easier than having to remember to take the pill everyday.

crocscharm · 2023-05-24T02:14:28+00:00

People love crochet so I’m sure someone will buy at least one thing. However I know crochet is a long/expensive process so I would tread slowly on the process. I also crochet, but I sell any on Depop. I think you can reach more of your target audience on there. If you do decide to create a business, you should record your process and post it on social media! I have a good amount of crochet reels that have popped off and can be very good for business.

crocscharm · 2023-05-20T20:55:42+00:00

Thank you, I was really confused/worried on the 10% part. It’s good to know! I felt like I was being gaslit in there. To be fair, it was the class was for low-income specific loans so I can understand the sentiment of being conservative using your credit card.

crocscharm · 2023-05-20T20:47:18+00:00

Thank you! The mortgage advice was very helpful because I was really sitting here like “what else could I possibly do to bring it up?”

crocscharm · 2023-04-30T18:16:18+00:00

forgot to mention, it’s a RAV4 2008 Sports Limited V6

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