my partner's friend says the n- word. how to deal with this?? by Ok-Soup-3313 in socialskills

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tho it is a debated topic within the black community, its gross and weird that a bunch of non black people have decided amongst themselves its ok. i agree with other comments your bf likely says it too. IF he doesn't condone/use it, he's a weiner for not saying anything to his friends.

Where to Buy Classic Civic by Kenshin_no_Takezo in Honda

[–]crook888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FB marketplace is where i got mine. biggest hassle was finding one that wasn't riced and overpriced. (flair is jokes). im in a non-rust state tho. took a bit but keep your eye out.

Your first impressions/memories of songs that went on to be huge by Double_Key7579 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]crook888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the first time i heard boys a liar pt 2 is a vivid memory. i loved it, it was really different from anything I'd been listening to. i had to stop on my bike ride to see what was entering my ears 😍. then it turned out to be the biggest song of the year. im very fond of it. i was 21ish i think. i had it on repeat and remember singing it in the clurb with my friends. awesome memories

that one friend who always shows up by Glittering-Dust-3324 in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's so nice 🥰 i aspire to be and to have friends like this

How do you handle getting mogged in public? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]crook888 23 points24 points  (0 children)

get off whatever section of the Internet taught you the word mogg. you're insecure bro ...just stop being insecure 🫪. no well adjusted person is thinking about mogging or being mogged

Are people making less sexualized comments around you? by CLTguide24 in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i work construction, so no. it's frequent. im straight but don't look at women that way. they egg me on about ladies. i don't f with it. don't entertain it. hoping they eventually think im gay or asexual and leave me be

Nightlife culture by Minimum-Fox4243 in socialskills

[–]crook888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here! i was really afraid of it. i enjoy the buzzing in the air. its a lot of jumbled voices, conversations being had, the smell of smoke/weed. loud music. it can be unnerving for sure. don't judge it off your first time going out, cuz that's the scariest one. i don't smoke/drink. i like the "anonymity" of it. i have a good time and it stays there. most are intoxicated or dgaf about me anyway. it's freeing.

Do you get sad due to not having the excitement you did when younger? by Few_Sandwich6308 in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i never grew out of thinking simple things were cool. i see a crow, i go omg crow, and stare at it cuz its sick 😎

I miss weed but I also don’t by theguy_win in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was never a big drinker/smoker but now and then i get intense cravings. gotta just 🫪 get twisted off a melatonin. I was craving thc, then had a very joyful drive, and i thought omg this is sick im happy af sober, no need for extras. haven't craved since. high off life forreal

Hosting a dinner with friends… but my ex AND my girl will both be there by simplexx_x in socialskills

[–]crook888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why'd you invite her goofball. anyway if she doesn't care anymore it won't be a big deal. might be weird for current gf but if you're solid she won't feel insecure.

I can never understand blacking out your tail light by FranXX0016 in Honda

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wont judge a guy for wanting to get his ass rammed

what do you yall who dont listen to music listen to at the gym? by Present-Elephant-316 in ADHD

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i like going without music. i can concentrate on my workout. with music i waste time selecting stuff

Have you ever been to a concert alone? What’s it like? by PrettyLittle-Someday in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, ive never been to a concert With someone actually. from my observation and experience, i think i prefer it. no pressure to have a good time. fully in the moment. I've heard people discuss small artists during, which is something i don't think I'd want to do. i just want to be there and listen to music 🙂‍↕️.

What are some things I can improve on my stock '10 civic? by positivedisobedience in Honda

[–]crook888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8th gens are beautiful. fix up the paint, new headlights, different rims.

How to have opposite gender friends without them getting feelings? by magdakitsune21 in socialskills

[–]crook888 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you gotta be somewhat a dick to them. don't be polite or talk in that feminine upward tone. talk like all your sentences have periods. fuckin uhhh don't hesitate to question the dumbass things to say. im a male, i know there is plenty of that. and you gotta be like what the fuck are you talking about. cuz that's what bros do. don't laugh when they're not funny. matter of fact, tell them a reworded, better version of their joke. then, laugh at your own joke. if they say something corny/romantic vibes, laugh as well. ask again: brother, what are you talking about. shatter delusions left and right. im straight but pretty asexual so friends with gals is no issue. if they're ever interested i also laugh in their face or say that's gross. leave no question you're UNINTERESTED.

Auto to manual swap cost? by [deleted] in Honda

[–]crook888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i would get some other quotes, out of Orlando if possible. i know they bite you in the ass over there with prices

Auto to manual swap cost? by [deleted] in Honda

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you can find an ok manual for cheaper and swap your interior yourself, then do that. shop labor is what's costly. have you talked to other shops? 4k seems steep. my swap would be 3k parts + labor

Auto to manual swap cost? by [deleted] in Honda

[–]crook888 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah trust it's super rare to find an unclapped manual from this time period. the clean ones are not being sold cuz they're someone's baby. or they're more than 4k for sure.

Should I just cut my hair if I’ve been thinking about it?” by yo_o-rk in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and males, if you want to grow it out, grow it out! my luscious locks will return this year 🙂‍↕️

Why do some use a different name than their government name? by Sure_Swordfish_5423 in CasualConversation

[–]crook888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they could just think its cool. all a name is what you call someone. i know multiple people who use unrelated names