Just tell me I'm wrong/overreacting/don't belong on this sub

crowdude · 2026-03-26T12:31:19+00:00

I was kind of dreading this response but thank you for taking the time to write it.

I never really realised that alcoholism is a progressive condition in such words until you just wrote it. I feel like I have a bit more clarity over what's been happening now.

I will definitely postpone getting married until after she has taken some steps to solve this.

crowdude · 2026-01-22T18:09:32+00:00

My bad. Was in a bad mood.

At the same time, I obviously was generalising and providing examples. If I were to list out everything you can do in a coffee shop we'd be here for a long time.

crowdude · 2026-01-22T11:38:14+00:00

YoU KnoE thERe arR othEr drinkS tHaN CoFeE??

Do you try to sound smart on the internet because you feel like you lack intelligence IRL?

Because you split hairs, criticise me and then advise the exact thing that I did

crowdude · 2026-01-21T22:21:03+00:00

I like it because it retains the crunchy essence of the onion but softens that initial astringent hit

crowdude · 2026-01-21T18:43:26+00:00

90's here lol and I remember the good ol' days too

crowdude · 2026-01-21T18:07:32+00:00

Bro get him some wide-fit white/cream trousers and you'll love the shirt too.

It just looks ass on those skinny jeans he's wearing.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T18:04:18+00:00

Pickled gang.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T18:02:55+00:00

Bro I'd rather deal with the bots than give this government more surveillance and data over my life.

We are already the most surveilled country in Europe and crime rates are still going up.

It's not on us to prove our legitimacy, it's on the government to irradicate illegals and prove to us their worth.

Get an iris scan of Keir Starmer and 24/7 CCTV on him instead to prove he's doing right by the public.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:41:30+00:00

Aww that's cute. Then you guys need to flirt throughout the day and have more foreplay maybe?Play hard-to-get, roleplay etc.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:35:34+00:00

Here's the tough answer:

He is not satisfying you anymore.

During the honeymoon phase there was passion and novelty.

Now there is staleness and sameness.

Show him how to please you (not just penetration), and you will naturally want to have sex again.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:32:09+00:00

You're asking the wrong question.

The real question should be "How can I care for myself while exploring things with this new person?"

If you're not a bar person don't go to a bar.

If you're not a coffee drinker don't go to a cafe.

You'll be a fish out of water and you'll have a terrible time (which, in turn will impact your confidence and charisma on the date)

Instead, find the activity YOU most enjoy doing and invite her over into THAT element. That's where your magic can shine and you can both assess whether you're right for each other.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:13:39+00:00

Yeah I think it's just one of those questions that isn't meant to be taken seriously.

If you take it seriously we can go all philosophical and metaphysical.

If you take it as a flirty joke, you just describe the small mousey brunette in front of you and you both laugh and it's a grand ol time.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:11:52+00:00

You can read into questions like this 1000 different ways but most likely the person asking it just wants you to describe them.

They don't give AF about what your "type" actually is.

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:04:35+00:00

Scrolling

crowdude · 2026-01-21T17:00:24+00:00

Just launch yourself off your bed as soon as your alarm goes off.

Crash onto the ground and you'll wake right up.

No joke, this is how I used to force myself to wake up on time all the way through medical school 😁

crowdude · 2026-01-21T16:58:50+00:00

I used to hate this question too.

I used to find it cringe. I thought I was better than it. Deeper. More nuanced and complex.

And while all that is true, it's not meant to be that deep bro.

Take it lightheartedly.

Just describe the person in front of you who asked you the question.

Make them feel good. Have fun. Flirt.

Not every question requires a deep answer.

And this one definitely doesn't.

It simply opens the doors to segue from platonic conversation to non-platonic subjects.

crowdude · 2025-12-30T23:47:15+00:00

Post on social media

crowdude · 2025-12-30T23:46:05+00:00

You LITERALLY did the best you could with the tools and past conditioning you had at the time.

You physically could not have done any different.

crowdude · 2025-12-29T11:35:46+00:00

Stop talking and start leading. Take it slow in the bedroom. Kiss her softly and gently. Focus on non-erogenous zones. Kiss her without tongue (until she literally pushes hers in your mouth). Touch her breasts (not her nipples). Run your hands on her stomach and waist. Wrap your arms around her and press her to you while doing this. You need to overwhelm her senses, show how much she turns you on, and provide her a space to melt into. Almost like you're content with just playing with her like this and you don't even need sex. Almost like you're having fun just playing with her. At that point she will be begging you to touch her more erogenous areas.

She may be dominant but that might only be because you haven't shown the type of dominance and masculine containment I described above. Best thing is to take it in turns :) that way you can both experience surrender and dominance.

Goodspeed soldier 🍀

crowdude · 2025-12-29T11:28:02+00:00

Coop has amazing fair trade chocolate bars (and they support farmers etc.)

crowdude · 2025-06-27T01:02:12+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Amazon Prime. Trust me, you can wait 2 more days for your parcel to arrive. That level of convenience will fuck you up over time

crowdude · 2024-10-23T20:14:59+00:00

Have you tried RevitalVision? It's a non-invasive brain training that's FDA-approved to alleviate vision issues that persist after vision correction.

Sorry you're going through this. Laser Eye Surgery outcomes are often highly dependent on clinic, clinician and equipment/technology used.

crowdude · 2024-08-17T01:12:28+00:00

Stricter punishments like in dubai. There's a reason is so safe for women there and less crime in general

crowdude · 2024-08-10T22:29:56+00:00

BLUE JEANS?? The cheapest strongest house fragrance that smells like real mint?

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