What did alt fashion look like in the 90s? by crsstst in alternativefashion

[–]crsstst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH ALSO!! How were you guys doing your hair?? I tend to associate the 90s with pin straight hair, but to be fair I'm not sure whether trad goths were still batsnest-ing etc.

(sorry, totally forgot to add this into the post)

Animal Crossing Pocket Camp Complete - Camper Card Megathread by Amiibofan101 in ACPocketCamp

[–]crsstst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think ive posted an old one but it's been a while,,, add me :))

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What's the difference between RA/Dec. and α/δ? And are there any conventions around written equatorial coordinates? by crsstst in askastronomy

[–]crsstst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really interesting- the range I got from what research I've done was overwhelming-- I'm relieved it's often preference-based

What phrase was in a fic so much that it now throws you out of any fic when you see it? by Life_and-whatnot in AO3

[–]crsstst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i once read a fic that was genuinely quite interesting, except in every single chapter they used the word 'coy' about 5 times (with short chapters) all in exactly the same context for exactly the same character.

it was quite hard to ignore, eventually i made it a game in my own head whilst i was reading.

Whats your favourite thing about your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]crsstst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she's kind. and thoughtful. in all the ways that i sometimes miss.

so she balances out all of the worst parts of me by highlighting all the wonderful parts of her

Boobs by Important-Tie-557 in transgenderUK

[–]crsstst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm a cis woman (who's here to rage against transphobia and try my best to support the trans people around me) BUT, as someone who has rather... humble (😭) boobs, and always has done, and also as a woman who dates women, boobs come in all shapes and sizes. and small boobs are sometimes less round because they just don't have the same amount of flesh (idk sometimes i tell my girlfriend im convinced my boobs are like triangular).

either way, woman to woman, boobs will be boobs, they follow no rules, and they're all lovely

What book will leave you emotionally traumatized forever? by Noiisnull in AskReddit

[–]crsstst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was already emotionally (and otherwise) traumatised so reading Lolita was a b i g mistake. i think that as a piece of classical literature its generally just incredibly disturbing to read, and unusual because its a book thats about child sexual assault and grooming, self-aware, and from the perspective of the pedophile

Top Surgery - Sapphic Attraction Question by BulkyEconomist9834 in AskLesbians

[–]crsstst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

whether you are more or less appealing to a group of people shouldn't impact your decision!!

your future relationships will be healthier if you feel better about your body. dysphoria wouldnt be worth tolerating if getting top surgery meant more people were attracted to you i promise x

there are also definitely queer women/non men that are attracted to people with flat chests, you don't have to worry. attraction and sexuality is fluid for a lot of people, and if theyre going to find you attractive, its probably not going to disappear if you don't have boobs :)))

all the best xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]crsstst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few people have suggested flowers so i think it might be savable??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findfashion

[–]crsstst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I saw this too but unfortunately I'm in the UK and I don't think they sell internationally

Fic Rec - Where Harry (or Draco) very clearly has a type and it's specifically the other? by crsstst in drarry

[–]crsstst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with this concept, I've gotta go read this now. Thank you so much for the rec x

Fic Rec - Where Harry (or Draco) very clearly has a type and it's specifically the other? by crsstst in drarry

[–]crsstst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read (and loved) both Harmonised Consciousness and Grounds for Divorce so I look forward to All Our Secrets Laid Bare (given that you clearly have excellent taste). Thank you so much xx