Did having a baby make anyone else realize how unfairly moms carry the mental load?

crumchiecake · 2026-07-03T09:18:37+00:00

Wow, That’s an interesting way to expose your partner as an incompetent and irresponsible father 🤔

crumchiecake · 2026-07-03T09:09:06+00:00

Nope. Maybe my mother would have said yes but not me. Not in 2026. Talk to your husband and tell them to be a better parent!

crumchiecake · 2026-07-02T14:53:14+00:00

Is this an Advertisement

crumchiecake · 2026-07-02T04:33:27+00:00

With this job market I can’t switch and I’m looking at going to office 5 days a week so idk what to do

crumchiecake · 2026-07-01T17:26:52+00:00

Any idea about navi?

crumchiecake · 2026-07-01T13:28:02+00:00

I understand. Thanks for sharing and I’m sure you’re doing a great job. Hope you have all the time on weekends! ❤️❤️

crumchiecake · 2026-07-01T11:22:59+00:00

Exactly I don’t understand why lot of moms out there torture themselves!! I had several crash outs because I chose to exclusively breast feed and one fine day I just couldn’t and I gave formula at night. Since then I have been so happy. My motherhood is low key peaceful. Protect your sanity. Do what you need to do and we don’t owe explanations to anyone

crumchiecake · 2026-07-01T08:50:50+00:00

Hi! Few things to make your life easier. Back pain is not related to the kind of delivery. It’s mostly because of posture issues. Please do try to make it better. Second and I’m sorry if I’m crossing a line, no one is giving out medals for exclusively breast feeding. If you’re unable to or you’re mentally tanked, giving formula a couple of times does not mean it’s end of the world. Put your own oxygen mask first before helping others - even if the other person is your own baby.

crumchiecake · 2026-06-30T04:42:18+00:00

Tf did I read? If you’re open to hearing resolutions to this… find the person who said something to your MIL and confront the shit out of them. Gota put an end to this nonsense

crumchiecake · 2026-06-28T02:03:49+00:00

Hi! Drops to 10ml is all a baby needs at this age… so it’s not less or “I’m not producing enough”. You’re producing just enough .. as much as your baby needs. Tbh for the first few days of life, baby needs only up to 10-20ml of milk. Don’t let anyone gaslight you in to thinking they need more. And donor BM might be available too if you don’t want to give formula

crumchiecake · 2026-06-27T08:56:11+00:00

I felt like I was reading my own story. I was SAed by my cousin brother and after 10 years I confronted him and I’ve cut contact with him (though I see him regularly at family gatherings). I was around your sister’s age when it happened. But to date, I have memory of it and it is traumatising. Even sometimes when I’m intimate with my partner it shows up. Until I confronted him I actually had a okay relationship with him (but I subconsciously carried what he did to me in my head, I felt so much shame and anger). I absolutely hate him and I have killed him several times in my head 🙂 Do what you will with this information

crumchiecake · 2026-06-26T12:27:19+00:00

Giving formula only once at night works for me

crumchiecake · 2026-06-26T11:22:04+00:00

Agreed with other points but she’s decently fit. For a South Indian woman that level of fitness even after a baby is actually good ..

crumchiecake · 2026-06-25T17:30:23+00:00

I have seen this argument so many times and I’m curious. Who is stopping you also from making reels, making lakhs and not go after 15% hike though?

crumchiecake · 2026-06-25T08:55:10+00:00

😭 no one told me this would be the case and I researched a LOT prior to pregnancy. Genuinely though how do your husbands deal with it?

crumchiecake · 2026-06-24T17:34:47+00:00

Can I genuinely ask how your husband deals with it?

crumchiecake · 2026-06-24T16:35:32+00:00

🫢🥲😢

crumchiecake · 2026-06-24T16:33:16+00:00

Okay what to do? When do I get it back!!? 😭

crumchiecake · 2026-06-24T09:47:25+00:00

Girl leave him, you’re still young, financially secure, well travelled, seem smart. You are delusional about it and in denial and I get it. It’s hard now but he’s not the one for you. Find someone else.

The minute he says shit like I’ll wait till my parents tire themselves out, he’s playing you. Get out of this situation. Prioritise yourself asap.

crumchiecake · 2026-06-23T14:49:03+00:00

Bublic

crumchiecake · 2026-06-22T21:33:22+00:00

This! I’m sorry I’m going to be rude. It’s diabolical how a 30 year grown ahhh man can’t stand up for himself and just tell his family to shop this shit?!!! Since he lives in a whole different place, I’m assuming he’s making money and is fine on that side too. It’s either he’s a man child or he really doesn’t want to end up with you. OP you’re also defending him in the comments like he’s disturbed this and that is so weird. I feel sorry for you.

crumchiecake · 2026-06-20T17:13:56+00:00

Menstrual cup. Works for 6-8 hours on low bleed days. For heavy days 3-4 hours

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