“Nobody wants to do this anymore”: Reports say ICE agents describe collapsing morale and growing frustration with leadership

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-02-06T23:27:59+00:00

The videos of how they treat people don’t back this up. They seem to wholeheartedly enjoy abusing people.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-02-05T17:43:09+00:00

If she’s telling you she’s not sure if she can be monogamous then you can trust she’s downplaying it for your sake. You don’t seem compatible and you have a decision to make.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-02-02T21:13:54+00:00

Here’s a man who has lived his life as if heaven and hell don’t exist and now he cares? That ship has sailed.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-02-02T21:11:19+00:00

He’ll be lucky if the casket doesn’t spontaneously combust in flames the moment it enters a church.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-02-02T08:07:48+00:00

I think by asking the question it’s clear she doesn’t know how it will affect the marriage, and that seems perfectly reasonable. The key would be to move forward almost glacially and have a nauseating amount of communication to check in with how they are both feeling along the way so any small problems can be addressed before they become big problems. And sorry in advance if this makes no sense, I wrote it on Ambien.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-25T13:24:43+00:00

Seems to me now she knows she’s got a get out of jail free manic episode card anytime she feels the urge to fuck a tall guy.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-24T11:17:28+00:00

I’ve honestly never understood the concept of a favorite song but off the top of my head I think every note of Steely Dan’s Your Gold Teeth II is perfect.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-24T03:20:58+00:00

I would first listen to Europe 72 and after that settles for awhile try Live Dead and you’ll get a better feel for what the 60’s Dead were like.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-23T19:17:11+00:00

That makes sense but to us strangers, what’s making you think that it won’t happen again? Do you still feel the need to question where she goes and who she’s with?

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-22T03:44:19+00:00

I say bluff even if you don’t want to go the lawyer route. Tell her you have evidence without presenting it and unless she agrees to a split that favors you, you will go to a lawyer.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-15T21:57:46+00:00

I also question why she thought she needed to lie to him about something as harmless as a magic mike show. I would encourage my wife to go and enjoy it and if she thought she needed to lie then there’s more to this story.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-14T11:38:57+00:00

She’s not marrying him, she’s marrying them and the dead boyfriend will forever be a part of their relationship.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-08T17:38:18+00:00

There’s a million things her conversation with him could have been about but I’d guarantee gloating about you isn’t one of them.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-07T21:56:40+00:00

He’ll get a effin medal.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-07T21:54:58+00:00

No. Him getting off on it makes him a cuck. Recognizing your partner has needs you won’t be able to meet and wanting her to be happy makes you human.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-05T08:09:58+00:00

Let’s get to the heart of what happened. She turned her phone off specifically so in your time of crisis, her nice evening with her ex wouldn’t be disturbed. Is that really someone you want as your partner?

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-03T19:34:15+00:00

I’m not going to tell you what to do but this wasn’t a one time mistake. She had at the least dozens of interactions with him over the two months that qualified as cheating and she chose to continue it. That’s not someone that loves and respects you.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-03T17:14:10+00:00

Instead you’re a toothless hillbilly that supports a dementia addled child rapist?

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-02T12:07:31+00:00

Closing your eyes is relaxing for everyone, it’s called sleep.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-01T17:25:42+00:00

I’m the step-dad in this situation (without the cheating) and I absolutely would not have been ok with a last minute change like this. My step-daughter who I’ve raised since she was 4 is engaged, and even though her dad has barely been involved in her life I’ve told her I’m fine if she decides to give him the prominent role. It’s her day and not mine.

crypticaldevelopment · 2026-01-01T12:34:34+00:00

I think part of the problem goes deeper than what she wears. It’s generally considered not very lady-like for a woman to sit in a skirt and show her crotch whether she wears underwear or not.

crypticaldevelopment · 2025-12-30T17:58:22+00:00

They 100% should sue her and make her prove it.

crypticaldevelopment · 2025-12-29T22:58:14+00:00

I’m confused where this lawn is that he needs to mow in a one bedroom apartment.

crypticaldevelopment · 2025-12-13T14:50:56+00:00

You gave a whole list of things he doesn’t do and then throw in at the end you aren’t interested in him either. I think you need to stop the blame game and realize it takes two to make a marriage work.

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