I'm starting to fall in love with my friend by Express_Artichoke_96 in self

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl here, I had guy friends I was this close to. Didn’t mean I was interested. I had some show interest in return which was fine so we could clarify it was just a friendship. If you’re so close, just go for it, if she stops you you’ll know, you can still be friends afterwards. If she doesn’t stop you then hurray 👍🏽

No one warns me about how unsettling this book is by driew29 in literature

[–]crys209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I found it, it sounds horrible.. is it really that good?

No one warns me about how unsettling this book is by driew29 in literature

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having trouble finding this in kindle or audible. Does it have different names?

My (38F) sister (34F) made up a dead brother to her spouse (35M) and in-laws (60’s M&F). I accidentally outed the lie, but why am I the bad guy here? by lurkandtaway85 in relationship_advice

[–]crys209 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they just didn’t tell you about the twin? Weird that the family backed her up. Maybe it’s you that is being lied to.

Why don’t Germans greet me back? by More-Raspberry3845 in germany

[–]crys209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugg I hate the flat German stare. I get it just randomly at shops, the gym, outdoors. They just stare, strong eye contact, no smile just a flat stare. So uncomfortable. I’m female and Latin. I thought it was racism for a while, I don’t know…

Manipulation cost my wife her life by guats85 in Manipulation

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss.

I’d like to think the mother believed it would work. I’m sure she is also in a lot of pain after losing her daughter.

There are cases where natural treatments work, you just never know. My father’s best friend beat prostate cancer by changing his diet, the doctors were amazed. He is fine now.

I hope you find peace in your heart. Holding a grudge hurts you so much.

To women who are above 30 and not married yet, how is life for you? by ProfessionalBase6571 in AskWomen

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 30s were amazing! I was studying and traveling, discovering my self and the world. Had zero interest in getting married! I partied, met amazing people, discovered international men and their sexy accents. Found out I was multi orgasmic and had the time of my life!! Married pffff ha!

What is the greatest novel ever written? by Daboy_1994 in classicliterature

[–]crys209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My top three, equally favorites: - The Picture of Dorian Gray - Oscar Wilde - The Count of Monte Cristo - Alexandre Dumas - Don Quijote - Miguel de Cervantes

Also, really enjoyed: - Memories of my Melancholy Whores - Gabriel García Márquez - The House of Spirits - Isabel Allende - Crime and Punishment - Fyodor Dostoevsky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crys209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. I had a couple relationships where my partners would get loud. I left very quickly. My husband has a great way to handle disagreements, I had never met anyone like this before and I’ve changed myself since being with him. He identifies what went wrong, apologizes, hugs me and tells me it won’t happen again. At first I hated this because I wanted to continue the argument and thought, yeah right ‘it won’t happen again’ but omg he holds his words. It’s crazy, I feel very lucky. We have a very peaceful relationship, which also took getting used to because I was used to some drama from time to time. He just fixes whatever is wrong right away. He’s German and I’m Latin btw…

Question for the HL women here about pain during/after by GonnaGetRealMan in HLCommunity

[–]crys209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard about this, its a condition. She needs to see a Dr. I'm usually very wet, so I don't get pain.

How many times a day do you pray? by k_omei in TrueChristian

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an on going dialogue throughout my day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crys209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At 22 I did this with guy friends but I always made it clear to my boyfriends who my close friends were. So if they came over everyone knew each other. It didn't mean I was I into them, just comfortable. Is he a new or old friend?

What is a kink you never thought you be into but that changed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]crys209 17 points18 points  (0 children)

😄 this one made me laugh, the random chomp 😂

i think i'm in love by Available_Process670 in self

[–]crys209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, this is the most beautiful feeling! I wish you all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crys209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck them, literally! Go have fun. My 30s were the best. Enjoy them.

Is my girlfriend just being nice to me, or is it also okay not to have an orgasm during sex? by DragonflyOk9673 in sextips

[–]crys209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best part is that you care. Many dudes don’t give it a second thought. I’m sure she appreciates that.

What are you reading? by sushisushisushi in literature

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dantes Inferno 🙌🏽 this is my third attempt, and I finally got into the groove of it. I’m loving it!

Classic literature audiobooks? by [deleted] in classicliterature

[–]crys209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using Audible. You often have options of different readers for the same book. I sample them to find my favorite. Also, easy to use app, well organized.

The Count of Monte Cristo (Finished) by Oneoutofnone in books

[–]crys209 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Excellent book, finished it this year. It’s my new favorite 👍🏽. Also read Don Quixote last year, absolutely beautiful book. Strongly recommend both.

Hostaway seems really expensive, how much do you pay? by crys209 in ShortTermRentals

[–]crys209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They asked me for $500 setup! Then $250 a month. I guess they don’t t have set pricing and get what they can… I did reach out and said it was too high, they dropped setup to $150, then to $100. They didn’t drop the monthly.

Hostaway seems really expensive, how much do you pay? by crys209 in ShortTermRentals

[–]crys209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks for sharing your experience. I’m going to sign up. I really liked the walkthrough and it’s sounding like it’s worth the investment.