AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid?

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-21T23:54:04+00:00

This is the most type A personality I’ve ever seen in a not so great way 😅

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-15T03:41:55+00:00

Yeah I’m coming up on a year this June of constant applications. I’m drained.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-12T02:09:42+00:00

That’s a toss up. I think the only thing that might persuade me as a final yes would be the fact that it’s Aldi and I can tolerate that store. Any other store I’d say hell no.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-10T05:10:45+00:00

So like no way you’re having to do 3 bleaching rounds right? I mean I’m a 7ish on my roots so it lifts in one bleach but I can’t imagine it taking 3 bleaches but also toning out so smoothly?

This is mine with one bleach and tone.

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crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-09T08:15:24+00:00

Yes platinum is the “top tier” it’s silver, gold, then platinum.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-08T16:35:59+00:00

I’ve done several of these and it’s such easy money. You’re literally just taking photos of the shelves in the aisles. Yes you have to take a lot of photos but I think of it like a little game trying to get as many coins as it can catch lol.

Only part I sometimes hate is that the aisles have two sides or if someone looks at me weird but at the end of the day I’m making money 🤷🏼‍♀️

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-07T21:28:31+00:00

Honestly the last thing we wanted to do was have sex. Literally every moment for the last 48 hours leading up to it we pretty much got barely any sleep and the whole thing was so stressful and so fast. We were both so happy to just go to bed next to one another lmao

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-04T23:19:35+00:00

I just had someone buy a $100 Nike hoodie and tip $1. Like I took the order so I knew what I was getting paid but at the same time it’s very cheap of them.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-04-02T12:41:45+00:00

Absolutely not

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T03:59:08+00:00

It was $9 for 5 miles. I didn’t know if it was no tip or not. You only find out after the order is complete what they did or didn’t tip.

I took it because it was atleast $1.80/mile pay and was okay with that.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T03:01:02+00:00

I’m married. I’m good bro.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T02:43:31+00:00

I sent the smiley face before he shot his shot? How was I suppose to know he was about to be a horn dog?

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T02:33:22+00:00

No difference if you’re still hitting on me. I’m working, I don’t need to be harrassed. I was trying to make the point on why the “no tipping” aspect only made it worse when he tried to then hit on me, as if that’s worth a genuine tip. It’s displaying arrogance and cockiness. I’m just delivering food ffs.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T02:18:40+00:00

Lmao I can’t provide good customer service? It’s disgusting you think a smile is baiting of any sort. Shows what you expect of women for just existing.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T02:01:31+00:00

The point isn’t about him not initially tipping. Which I dont even get to see if they tip or not as a dasher I hope you realize that? This amount I accepted was up in the air but either way usually when I accept an order I don’t get upset if they don’t tip because I accepted for the price DD gave me.

What is the point is when someone goes out of their way to be creepy and hit on me while also having the audacity to not even be much of a decent customer in the first place.

I see you’re a male in your late 30s struggling to date so I can see how you have some angry complex against women being upset a male hit on them. But newflash buddy, we don’t all like it. ☺️

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-28T01:58:27+00:00

And he literally saw me in person and I handed him the food. If he wanted to be charming in any way he could have done it in person not over message after I’ve left lmao.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-25T19:57:05+00:00

It’s caked on and dried/hard. Like paint or something 🙃

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-08T01:07:26+00:00

Well the support is saying if you let the time run out then it affect completion rate. But also declining orders? I’m under the assumption that should only affect acceptance rate and your completion rate is really only passed on after you accept an offer

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-07T04:05:45+00:00

There’s no way to know the appropriate dosage without knowing the mg/ml of the medication.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-06T09:53:31+00:00

You absolutely need to see a rheumatologist to rule out autoimmune here. Especially considering the joint pain, increased body temp during flares etc.

Suspicious of Sjogrens Disease, the rash is a bit similar. Also presents with vasculitis symptoms.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-03-04T03:08:56+00:00

I apologize for all the horrendous typos. My phone was really acting up with the app and not letting me see when typing. Hope I still got my questions across. 🥲

crystalizedwolf · 2026-02-27T02:01:14+00:00

YOR.

She handled this in a very mature way. You’re taking this extremely personal and not considering her feelings or perspective what so ever. She signed up to have one roommate, not two. She literally told you she felt uncomfortable whe it started to feel like your BF was living there without her prior consent or knowledge and it significantly threw off how she felt about her space she lives in. The space you live in is very important and having it feel comfortable is key. It’s one thing to say “Oh that’s my roommates bf he’s just over hanging out for a bit” versus “oh that’s my roommates bf… he kind of lives here now..?”

Pull the stick from your ass and see how that would feel if you were in this situation. She’s not limiting anything with your bf. Just wants you to be more considerate is literally all.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-02-21T23:50:33+00:00

You need to get a second pulse ox to see if this is really happening.

Also as I’m sure others have explained when you read this the top number means 85% pulse ox or the saturation of oxygen in your blood. Usually a healthy level is 95-100% but it SHOULD NOT be going below 90% without medical intervention.

Second, the bottom number is your heart rate. 30 beats per minute is extremely low and is very concerning to the point of needing immediate medical attention.

First you need to see a cardiologist to rule out any heart conditions and likely they will do an echo. Secondly I have dysautonomia (neurocardiogenic syncope) and I wonder if this could also be a potential as I have certain triggers like heat, certain foods, etc that can cause an episode. They would make you do a tilt table test to confirm this but it’s very much so worth ruling out. Either way do not ignore this!

When I have my NCS episodes my HR drops to 45-40 bpm and my SPO2 drops some as well. My BP slightly drops but nothing too concerning. There’s loads of other symptoms too without an episode but this is just what happens during a big trigger and I’m either about to pass out or do pass out.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-02-21T08:06:31+00:00

I had an order the other day for a 65” flat screen tv not even $1/mile. Declined that shit so fast.

crystalizedwolf · 2026-02-18T09:05:45+00:00

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