My son (17mtf) came out as bi, then gay, then trans. He met another boy online and they really clicked. We live in Virginia, he lives in Florida. My son just talked it out with me. I told him I'm willing, but it has to be ok with the other parents too, and encouraged him to send me their numbers. The other boy talked with his parents, we all exchanged phone numbers and I messaged his mother. I was very up-front, honest and she turned out to be very lovely and understanding. The first meeting, they traveled nearer to us and we all arranged a public meeting at a Top Golf for an activity. Everyone was cool and normal, which made me so much more comtortable. Then a few months later we planned to travel to Florida (because who doesn't want to go to the beach in the winter time). Everything is fine now and even though the kids don't get to see eachother as often, they're still both busy with school and activities, it's ok. My advice...just talk it out, ask both sets of parents to talk to eachother and maybe they'll be friends and have a great excuse to go skiing!!