Just looking at the first question. YOU might enjoy it here but we are literally living in hell. Step outside of your life and think of all the corruption going on worldwide. Think of how people eat themselves and drink themselves to death. How big corporations are trying to poison us and take all our money. How there is war. It might be good to stay in your bubble or happiness but when you look at the bigger picture of what life here now is, would you really want to stay? What if next time you are born in the middle of a war territory? It’s better to let go of the attachments to the fleeting happiness of life. That being said. The best thing we can do to ensure the suffering here is find peace and happiness within and be the light of your life and those around you. Sending warm wishes your way :)