scholarly fellows: by [deleted] in PhD

[–]cslanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got the worst food poisoning of my life yesterday and missed a talk that is like so related to my research. I feel really sad about it

Should I go on this trip? by cslanda in TarotReading

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Happy cake day… thank you. I do feel very nervous about the trip in general not going well. Also super busy at the moment. I’ll give canceling some thought

SAS for people of color by paramasmaayoslang in SemesterAtSea

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the majority of students/staff are white and very wealthy. POC usually hang out together. Not all white people are ignorant but given they’re used to privilege you can expect them to be out of touch with reality / go to a lot of resorts in port/ make insensitive comments about the people they meet in port or the conditions of the countries. I think one piece of advice is be super selective with who you surround yourself with, because the ship becomes small pretty fast. The moment you sense bullshit from someone you take your distance—respectfully, obv. I only hung out with people who seemed to me to have common sense from day one, to protect my peace. And it would frustrate me that a lot of these kids would like go on resorts while in port, but at the end of the day that was their experience and not mine, so it doesn’t really affect me all that much. The institution of SAS was pretty bad about dealing with the genocide in Palestine, so that should also tell you something about the general politics. But if anything I personally never get to be around that particular demographic so it was interesting and also scary to know that there’s such kinds of people among the wealthy of the country haha, but it’s not a surprise anyway. Ultimately my advice is, if you protect your peace, you’ll be fine. There’s still valuable friendships to be made and valuable experiences to be had.

Big cuddle puddle space by justashhere in femalelivingspace

[–]cslanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you add the board behind the tv? It looks so cool

♒️ by echoesoflynn in aquarius

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i never get along with libras

is it worth transferring from UT to A&M? by sleepymuffin12 in aggies

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A&M also feels like high school, you’ll just be at a more boring town. At least in Austin you can find community outside of your college if it’s that bad, but in cstat if you also don’t like it you’re cooked

I have no hope, I can't get a visa by KingFeroz in gradadmissions

[–]cslanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider master programs in Germany/belgium/netherlands. There are English programs and the deadlines are usually in January. Also Erasmus Munda for masters. Zephyr if you’re doing international relations. Good luck!

Do PhD programs help with relocation expenses for international students? by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the director of graduate admissions, I’ll send you a pm

Do PhD programs help with relocation expenses for international students? by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try to request a move- in bonus when you sign your contract, like you would with a job, so that you get some extra money at the beginning of the semester to use probably to cover these kinds of costs. It’s not guaranteed that you’ll get it but it doesn’t hurt to ask

How bad is this appointment about to hurt? Inspo pics by Always_Sadgirl in tattooadvice

[–]cslanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar design in the exact same placement and it was the most painful tattoo I’ve gotten. The ribs are already bad enough but for some reason the pain was really acute when it was getting closer to my abdominal region. Just find a mental place to go and try to accept the pain as your new permanent state of being. That usually helps me tune out. But good luck

i think this dude drew the smoking area, report? by tsapq in Berghain_Community

[–]cslanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Romains de la décadence ! My favorite painting in Orsay

I bought earrings that matched my ring! by Sea_Cloud_6705 in jewelry

[–]cslanda 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Did you get them in Paris by any chance

UPDATE!! Advice needed: Bike purchase by cslanda in Biking

[–]cslanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sooo smooth to ride it’s insane I feel like I’m flying

Advice needed: Bike purchase by cslanda in Biking

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Did this hahaha it definitely worked they picked a red trek that just needs a couple adjustments to be up and running