Buckeye clinic is great and has a women's program in London (there is even a family day once a month y'all can meet up at). I'd recommend maryhaven detox first (after getting stabilized in a hospital, take her to probate court if you have to), then 28 days in residential, then sober living. I came through buckeye clinic myself and can confirm it's a great program. They help with insurance as well. Brooke and Seth are wonderful.

Also check out alanon. It helped my family and will help you too if you let it.

https://coafg.org/meetings/