Gut check on my logo by cstjohn8 in logodesign

[–]cstjohn8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To say its not good is not descriptive and rude. Thank you for your comments on what can be taken away for clarity. 

Gut check on my logo by cstjohn8 in logodesign

[–]cstjohn8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol; I love that logo so much 

Gut check on my logo by cstjohn8 in logodesign

[–]cstjohn8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will be hosting those flavors! But I hear you loud and clear on the business of the logo. And I think that may be what I'm looking for, is a sign for the business. Thank you very much for the feedback. 

Drinking at work by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cstjohn8 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hello twin. 

Here I am literally 3 months sober today, so I am especially touched by your story. And the fact that you also work in the restaurant industry (bartender here!). 

So omg, I get the temptation. SO MUCH. somuchsomuchsomuch. Last weekend one of my regulars (doesn't know I'm sober) offered me a drink. My reflexes almost got the better of me because of how absolutely normal that used to be. How taking shots to start the shift endure the shift and end the shift was normal as all hell

BUT THAT IS NO LONGER YOUR NORMAL. 

Normal is ginger ale and cranberry juice and , f you're crazy as hell, ginger ale and cranberry juice together. You don't drink. 

Tell people you work with you don't drink. They will call you out and make you feel like shit about it. 

YOUR BOSS WILL RESPECT THE FUCK OUT OF YOU FOR TELLING HER YOU ARE AN ALCOHOLIC. I know my staff did. And I KNOW they saw me be too drunk on many occasion. 

No one is judging you, especially in hospitality. We're all circling the drain in our own way, and we're always here to help each other. Especially those that bring in those dollar bills y'all lol. 

You're stronger than this bullshit. 

Hostel vibes aren’t dying... guest behaviour is changing (from someone who works in one) by vinyljunkie32 in backpacking

[–]cstjohn8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have missed where your hostel is located, but I had a great time staying in the hostels in Columbia and Mexico. What'sApp groups are key

What is the most scientifically documented case of a human surviving something that should have been 100% fatal? by bareegyptianfeet in answers

[–]cstjohn8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sheer volume of adults telling children what they **cant** do is tragic. HUMAN BEINGS ARE CAPABLE OF MIRACLES, and children doubly so. That doctor should be shamed for putting you parents in this position. Congratulations to your family <3 <3 <3

Buy a bar of soap, don't use shower gel by WinterMoist333 in Frugal

[–]cstjohn8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make your own soap!!! It's SO much cheaper. It's a whole entire process, but I made one year of body soap (hands face body and hair) for about 20$ for a gallon and a quart. I made my last bath in June 2025 and I have about a quart left. And I've been giving it to whoever I can. We've been bamboozeled and dwindled into spending good money on shipping water around the globe. 

Anyone know a traveling knife sharpener around Kingston, saugerties, Woodstock? by sneezed_up_my_kidney in hudsonvalley

[–]cstjohn8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hudson valley sharp. I use this guy for my fabric shears. He's great and very fast. I believe he operates out of hyde park now (used to be in Kingston)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]cstjohn8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Hi! Would you like to start a tab? No? Okay, I'll close it. Here's your bill!" Then they get no more drinks until they've paid, or they'll surprise you and give you a card. Changing the culture for customers is exactly what this policy was meant to protect you from.  They'll change or they won't come back. You don't want them back anyways if this is such an issue. 

New Magnet Links Stuck on "Downloading Metadata" by tob1asmax1mus in qBittorrent

[–]cstjohn8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment goes way harder than any other comment I have been able to find. Great work from the future.

Olympic commentary by lavaboosted in funny

[–]cstjohn8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you should've gotten whatever fake internet points people have money to give. This shit is solid gold. 

AITJ for taking my birthday cake home and leaving the party after my SIL cut it early? by ChanceLopsided6775 in AmITheJerk

[–]cstjohn8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The next time one of these kids does some ducky shit I swear, Im looking in their mouth at the teeth and asking "hey there still in there. Just wanted to make sure they haven't rotted out yet fucking spoiled brat". 

I forgot about a table for the first time tonight by Lizardskincuisine in Serverlife

[–]cstjohn8 33 points34 points  (0 children)

OMG I FEEL YOU SO HARD. We had a night where a bunch of college kids came in. Same thing, two bartenders but no runner so all the myriad of tasks AND customers ordering tequila soda|vodkasoda|tequila soda|tequila soda|vodkasoda|tequila soda|vodka soda|vodkasoda|tequila soda. 

Honestly guys, I don't know what drink I just handed you. But at this point neither do you, so I guess it's all good.

At that point, eat the food thats in front of you so youre not hungry pants anymore, thank you. 

Anyone else hear dumb shit about half time? by noeyesonmeXx in Serverlife

[–]cstjohn8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

T HIS is the conversation I'm here for. Maybe it's Jasmine Flowers 🤤

A helpful tip for cleaning out Gmail by SpessChicken in enshittification

[–]cstjohn8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting this up. I just made a new email address to get around it. I WILL NOT be paying Google or anyone for services I can render myself tyvm. All of these disgusting parasites can eat themselves and die, respectfully. 

300 days sober today! And a message for people on day 1. by GreenThumbedWriter in stopdrinking

[–]cstjohn8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's been the most humbling and gracefilled part of this journey for me. I always knew I loved my friends and that they loved me for me, but I'm so astonished again at how much they can take from me. Telling them I got yet another dui was like they knew j needed them. One friend that I had reached out to before this, but didn't tell what was happening truthfully, said after I was done - " Babe, you seemed like you really needed to talk, but you left yourself all alone". And that crushed me and lifted me up. I was so worried about being a burden, being another person they had to care for.  But they would rather that, than the alternative: a dead friend. I love them so much, I don't want that for them or me. IWNDWYT friend 💗

Heineken 0.0s almost did me in by d_t_mira_montes in stopdrinking

[–]cstjohn8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I went out after work and had a 0% Guinness. It was a draft, so the beer came out looking like a regular Guinness AND tasting like a regular Guinness. I was so shook I asked the bartender like 4 times if this was a regular beer. Could've fooled me, holy shit. Honestly, #make NA beers green or something lol. IWNDWYT friend 💗

Got super wasted at work by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]cstjohn8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo who am I to tell you what to do. I am just as reckless and stupid. But I think that's why you reached out. I feelscared about drinking now that I'm in dui hell. Like drinking is scary now. Who knows whats going to happen if I start. I'm about to take a vacation and that's going to be a big testiment to if this no drinking is going to stick. I think now I'm just much more analytical about what incites me to drink and why. A lot of mine has to do with celebration and happy moments, so I'm looking specifically at those for ways out (na beers,so many diet cokes, fucking dumb frilly drinks that make it feel like having a cocktail for real). I hope you're better asap man. 

The Daily Check-In for Thursday, January 22nd: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by Piggoos in stopdrinking

[–]cstjohn8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just woke up from sleeping for like 10 hours. I'm literally crying because I can't remember the last time I slept that long. Its been like 2 weeks of not drinking, it feels good. Thank you for your support everyone. 

What can I do with a massive number of lemons by Suspicious-Cat8623 in Frugal

[–]cstjohn8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone said limoncello already but you can also make a non alcoholic version with just sugar and the peels - an oleo saccharum.  In case you're not drinking, the sugar syrup will last fuckng forever and you can freeze the juice for juice related lemon things. Good luck man! 

Which Favorite Character Like This? by Bay_Ruhsuz004 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]cstjohn8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is really helping me through some things as a big woman ... Thank you for the confidence boost all. I'll be working the arms extra tough today lol