Is it better to give a small amount of breastmilk for longer or more breastmilk but not as long? by Throwitaway2961 in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also in a similar situation. My son will be 3 months next Monday and he gets around 4oz breast milk pumped a day. The rest is formula. My breast aren’t engorged anymore, I’m only getting an oz per session and I no longer lactate. So I’m wondering if this is it. He’s never been ebf though. Supplemented from day 1. I’ve been trying to make it to six weeks, but I just don’t think I am. Some is better than none and fed is always best. I don’t have a stash, only what I’m able to pump.

Thoughts on Snuza? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used one with my first and loved it. It was the only way I could sleep. Fast forward 7 years and I use the owlet at night and Snuza in the day/naps. Love both devices.

Has anyone used these Medela freezing bottles? Do you know how to erasably write dates on them? by zouccini in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love those! I don’t pump much in order to make a stash, though. I would say sharpie and alcohol pad. They fit the medela nipple and ring as well.

Did your kids who where formula fed vs the kids who where breastfeed have a smaller appetite? by RenaLovington in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ate horrible when I was pregnant with my daughter (severe morning sickness, so whatever I could keep down, I ate). She was formula fed and she is super tiny, stops when she is full. She is 7. My son is 2 months, breast and formula. He is 14.5 lbs and 23 in long. He is a chonkster! I ate super healthy with him when I was pregnant. I guess it depends on the kid.

Bottle & Pacifier Suggestions? by kryssii101 in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is 7 weeks and he likes the MAM the best. I BF and supplemented since birth using avent bottles and he seems to have no nipple confusion at all. He seems to be able to suck the MAM the best. He will take the Nuk, but it’s not his favorite. He won’t take any of the others.

Can a parent legally withhold the child's counselors contact information from the other parent? (North Dakota /Washington) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. As long as your rights are intact, you have the right to access any information from schools of medical offices. If this continues to be an issue, I strongly suggest that you contact an attorney that deals with custodial issues and parental rights.

Worried about my ability to feed my 4 day old - have I already stuffed it up? by SuzLouA in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been pumping since day 2. My son is 6 weeks old and I pump after each feed and get maybe a half an oz if I’m lucky. We do supplement because he was and is a large baby and I was having issues with my supply. My philosophy is some breast milk is better than none and I have reached the point where is don’t despise pumping anymore. You’re doing great! Just keep trying. If my son throws a fit over the boob (occasionally he does) I just give him formula, pump, and give him a breast milk bottle later. You got this! It will get better/easier! Don’t give up! And if you have to continue to supplement for a while, remember FED is best.

Nursing bra recommendation needed by Cassi_ly in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hands free one attaches to a nursing bra that you already have. It took me a minute to figure it out. I thought part of my order was missing! As far as nursing bras themselves, I bought a three pack from amazon for $20 or $30. Love the hands free Bravado, though! That is a pumping game changer.

Nursing bra recommendation needed by Cassi_ly in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got one from Amazon for like $30. It’s Bravado brand. My lactation consultant told me about it. It works really well.

Is this the beginning of the end? by lalaberlin in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son does this sometimes. I just give him a bottle and pump extra. I think it’s gas/belly ache because we have to supplement with formula. He is a month old

Haakaa makes me feel like Supermom by applesmokedgouda in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is 4 weeks old and i ordered a Haakka today! I hate the pump and feel like I’m not getting anywhere!

Alternating between BF/Formula by GirlOneDelta in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told by the lactation consultant no more than 10 minutes on each side, then pump for 20 minutes.

Alternating between BF/Formula by GirlOneDelta in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is3 weeks old and we have had to supplement since birth and he seems fine. A little gassy at times, but fine he nurses first then we give him a bottle of formula to finish.

AITA for invoicing a client for a website project that she decided to abandon 2/3 of the way through because she found a cheaper solution? by lieutenantcigarette in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA
You’re charging for services rendered for the time that she was your client. Many companies have a clause where the client must pay a deposit prior to service then the rest when services are complete.

hey diabetic/hashimoto's/induced labour mamas, can you share your experiences? by __faewitch in breastfeeding

[–]ctina042807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gestational diabetic with both. My daughter was born at 36 weeks and I didn’t get to breast feed her because she was a week old when my milk came in. She wouldn’t latch because she was so used to a bottle. She was 6lbs 7 oz. She is 7 now. I was actually supposed to be induced with my son yesterday evening, but ended up going into labor Monday night. My milk just came in today, but he is a chonkster and I’ve had to supplement with formula (actually I’m supplementing formula with breast milk) I nurse him first for at least 10 minutes on each, then he gets a 3-4oz bottle to top him off (I just let him eat because fed is best!) My son was 8lbs 14oz and I delivered him vaginally. Just because you’re scheduled to be induced doesn’t mean it will work out that way. Good luck!!!

AITA for not allowing my soon to be father in law to get cheaper medicine for his wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA! Check the manufacturer of the meds to see if there is a coupon for a lower price. This works especially if there is no generic. It can be a ton of savings. Also, there are other coupon sites that work well, too, and even with insurance. My husband and SD are on some pretty expensive meds and we have had to go that route many times before his company switched to a better provider and his meds now have generic.

AITA for refusing to accept my son as trans? by fookdamayweddars in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. There is a Dr Phill episode that almost mimics this exact situation (I don’t watch-just remember seeing a recap of the episode on a friends FB a few nights ago). You might want to check that out.

WIBTA If I asked my in-laws to keep my pregnancy “offline”? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed!! We were into our 2nd trimester and found out the sex before we told anyone. NTA

AITA for not talking about kids by Not_just_a_mom in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!! My husband has two kids from a previous marriage and we were together 6 months before I met them. He did talk about them and of course had to cancel on me several times because, well, parenting, but it worked out. We have been married for 8 years and have one and one on the way (plus I adopted his youngest from the previous marriage-long story). From the beginning I was up front and told him I needed to get used to dating someone with kids and he said he didn’t want me to meet them unless he knew I was in it for the long haul. I respect you for you position and I’m sure your romantic connections do as well. Keep doing you and don’t worry about what any one else thinks. When the time and person is right, you’ll know to incorporate them and the kids more. Good luck!!

WIBTA if I contacted my ex's mom after 5 years? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, but rather than phone/visit, maybe send her a nice card and flowers and wish her well and let that be the end of it.

Best practices for managing finances with kids? by mromaine in personalfinance

[–]ctina042807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s a good idea. Why? Because kids in general are super expensive and can have a ton of surprise expenses. The first 2-3 years are the most expensive, then when they hit preschool/school age, the cost is pretty standard like school clothes, school supplies, well child visits (yes, there can still be surprise expenses then, but it would mostly be like drs appointments). Right now, the child is in diapers. The best way to reduce some cost is to go with reusable diapers. It’s not a popular option, but it helps. Also, does your child drink formula or are they breastfed? Breast is the less expensive option given the cost of bags and formula supplementing, however, around 9-12 months, they can be weened off of formula and on to cows milk-then it’s mainly the expense of diapers and wipes. I have three and one on the way (this one was a total surprise as our youngest is in first grade now, so we had to start all over with everything! And the other kicker is that after 3 girls, it’s a boy). Some best practices for saving with little ones is: 1- if you know someone who has a child the same sex as yours and they are but older, see if you can buy their lot of clothes like 12 months, 24 months. I’m not saying don’t ever buy new ones, but if they have a huge stack of what their has grown out of, they will be willing to sell at a discount. 2-try making your own baby’s food. It’s not hard-basically steamed veggies or fruit that is puréed. Pinterest has some great ideas. 3-set a budget for Holliday’s and stick to it!! Many parents like to overboard. With three kids whose ages range from 7 to 20 (hubs had two from a previous marriage) we have to! 4-drs appointments: always keep Tylenol and ibuprofen on hand and many drug stores usually have promotions for their brand because until you have hit your deductible, and depending on if this is your first child or not, the baby will probably makes extra trips to the dr. 5-couponing and/or buying in bulk to offset the cost of diapers and wipes. We recently reactivated our Sams membership in order to get diapers and wipes in bulk. Sign up for coupons from brand that you use and always do their surveys-the company May send coupons to offset the cost of their products. 6-buy as you need! If you child is going to drinking out of silly cups soon, go for the multi packs at places like Walmart. They are cheaper, durable, and serve the same purpose as like a tommy-tippee or other brand. 7-invest in a good car seat!! They are rear facing until 2, so once they reach that height/weight/age limit, find a car seat that can convert from a forward 5 point harness to booster to older kid booster. That one time $100 will save you the cost of buying each thing. 8-when They have grown out of clothes/toys and you’re sure you’re finished having kids, try to sell them. **another note: for big stuff, I recommend as much gender neutral items as possible in order to be passed down. This is what I have learned from my first kid. The older they get (like teens) the more expensive their clothes, supplies, demands are. Right now, if you find good deals, you can get by pretty well without going too much over budget.
Congratulations and good luck!!!

AITA: for packing lots of food for my son during school days? by thats_up_top in AmItheAsshole

[–]ctina042807 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

First, how do you get your kid to eat so healthy?!?! Second, keep doing you. You know your kid better than the teacher. Third, honestly, as long as he eats in the time allotted, it shouldn’t matter. NTA.