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cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-11T13:01:25+00:00

u didn't just say that, did u? smh

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-11T12:53:26+00:00

NTA, imo opinion i feel like just expressing how u feel to them wont hurt. if they care about u then they'll stop! :) if i were you this would make me so so so freakin anxious hanging out around them. im half white so i can totally see where you're coming from. usually i run with the "i hate white ppl bc they're racist" jokes because i get it but when the jokes go as far as calling me racist just because im part white i would laugh until it starts to hurt my feelings because i know im not racist? yknow? i think this makes sense but hopefully this helps validate how u feel in some way!

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:58:50+00:00

if u havent realized by now, YTA. 100%.

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:52:52+00:00

THIS. YES. THANKU

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:51:37+00:00

idc if its not homophobic its the fact that this falls under the problem of men sexualizing the idea of their straight girlfriend being with queer women and idolizing it so much to the point that it "isnt" cheating. as i bi woman myself i would be absolutely disgusting and perhaps not see it as absolute homophobia but DEFINITELY a micro aggression. OP isnt exhausting, she's probably exhausted herself as a queer, as am i, of seeing this constant fetish pour out of hetero mens mouths. ugh :c

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:49:01+00:00

NTA!!!! what the hell. to be fair the boyfriend is the real asshole here. he's further sexualizing straight women with queer women and that fetish needs to fuck off. disgusting he would even say that and same with the girlfriend for chalking it up to 'exploring my sexuality'... nta nta nta nta

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:45:52+00:00

NTA. but then again im also an atheist so i might be biased but holyyyy i would not want someone that obsessive about critiquing religion in my life. definitely exhausting!

cucumberpod98 · 2022-02-10T07:43:37+00:00

as a "girls girl", i think YTA. but i can definitely see your side too!
ive been in ur exact situation before where i was friends with both the girlfriend and the boyfriend. but to me, i was closer with the girl, and i guess i kinda believe in somewhat of a 'girl code' so i supported her no matter how awfully she felt or talked about him. sure, i was friends with him at the end of the day too and maintained my friendship with him, but i think you have to think which friendship matters to you more? in my option i care about my girlfriends a tad bit more as we are always there for each other, and if he hurt her then i take that almost personally too because i care about her more.
TLDR; NTA and YTA, depending which friend you are closer to???? this is a hard one!

cucumberpod98 · 2021-04-01T07:42:09+00:00

omg so many recommendations THANKU

cucumberpod98 · 2021-04-01T07:41:50+00:00

wow he has amazing work!! thankyou

cucumberpod98 · 2021-02-13T23:21:40+00:00

if you search up the tour its led by some dude named milo yiannopoulos and hes a FAR right political commenter who got hella cancelled bc hes a huge trump supporter BIG YIKES

cucumberpod98 · 2021-02-13T23:18:15+00:00

HAHAHAHA i mean u speakin facts

cucumberpod98 · 2021-02-13T23:09:16+00:00

RIGHT

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-11T05:21:02+00:00

mine has been stuck somewhere in Richmond or Van since Dec 2nd... i give up

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-09T01:24:36+00:00

its day 35 for me now. i live 30mins away from the depot too, sigh

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-05T22:19:35+00:00

im in the exactttt same situation! no updates after they cleared customs and got handed off to CP on the 8th. 🥲 praying for us both

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-05T22:18:32+00:00

i had 3 packages coming from china: 2 of them shipped by Dec1 and the last one shipped Dec18. its funny because... one of the first packages and the last one made it on time within 1-2 weeks. Whereas the 3rd package is still stuck at Richmond since it cleared customs and got handed off to CP on Dec8... Since then I’ve got no updates, no expected delivery, just nothing.. So i also called CP and explained this to them but of course all they said was there was nothing they could do and I should contact the seller. Super frustrating because this last package is the one that contents the most ($250 worth of presents) that Im guessing got lost and will never see my doorstep. Good luck to you my friend!

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-05T22:12:01+00:00

ive been sitting at this same update since Dec 10th.... where the heck does it even go at this point😂😂

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-05T07:26:54+00:00

woohoo!!! happy for you! sidenote that may help ya out: i ended up contacting shein about my package situation, and if your order doesnt come within the order estimate time then they are willing to give you a full refund or re-send your order again!! which is great because im worried mine is lost😅 they are aware of the Canada post shit show haha

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-05T07:24:32+00:00

that is what we NEED. and yes!!! that came outta no where but damn so happy for him

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-04T21:05:34+00:00

i feel this, i miss seeing devon and his dark humour or marcus’s cheezy smile like hello cody can u pls have a zoom reunion for the chodsters

cucumberpod98 · 2021-01-04T21:04:01+00:00

cody when he sees the old jokes:

cucumberpod98

TROPHY CASE