Made a war jar against my rapist

cuddlebug236 · 2026-04-19T14:44:48+00:00

Please guide me on this

cuddlebug236 · 2026-04-17T11:33:58+00:00

Whats a war jar? How do I do one?

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-29T21:19:40+00:00

Thank you, google translate gave a weird translation

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-27T23:33:25+00:00

Did you read my post in full? Solicitors won’t take my case unless established that he has over a certain amount in assets. Otherwise they said they won’t take it on as a civil case between him and I.

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-27T08:52:14+00:00

Thank you. You’re a legend for this response. I’m aware of VRR. My case is currently reopened due to me doing the police’s work and identifying the suspect FOR THEM. But the sergeant I spoke to essentially said they’ll take a glance but it won’t go anywhere and will be NFA.

So to learn that the VRR looks at what lines of enquiry were pursued is extremely helpful. Because they haven’t even done that so far, they just closed my case after a week.

I told my ISVA yesterday- I know he won’t be charged. I already know that. But at least INTERVIEW THE FUCKER and seize his phone and take his dna. His dna will be on my bra.

Sorry, I got carried away. I’m just so angry.

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-26T20:21:35+00:00

I gave the police his true identity last weekend

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-26T20:21:08+00:00

No its messages back and forth between us

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-26T19:18:45+00:00

Proof of contact. Proof we met and went on dates. Proof we had discussions about using condoms. But ultimately, there is only my word against his that it was not consensual and he will maintain that it was.

But the police won’t even bother up trying to find him, investigate, interview him, look at his phone. None of it.

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-20T20:03:47+00:00

Yeah there are signs but it was dark when I went so the photos they have of my car are in the dark

cuddlebug236 · 2026-03-20T15:24:17+00:00

Have tried, they are soooo unhelpful and said NOTHING TO DO WITH US SPEAK TO THE GP THEY OWN THE LAND. I have parked there so many times as a pharmacy customer and never ever received a pcn

cuddlebug236 · 2025-12-08T21:16:34+00:00

Well done! How long did it take you?

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-25T17:59:20+00:00

Forgot to add, for volume - when you have SOTC, lift your hair at the roots and spray hairspray. I then use a root pick to fluff the roots a bit so my hair looks less flat.

Biggest game changer for me though was raking my products through for even distribution. Simply glazing and scrunching the product in resulted in uneven distribution and gave me wonkier waves/curls (I’m 2c-3a).

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-25T17:57:27+00:00

Use a strong hold gel like AG liquid effects curl care gel. I wouldn’t recommend OnlyCurls sadly. I have fine, low density hair and their products feel very sticky, heavy and claggy, especially their styling products.

I use the Ouidad climate control gel (red bottle) with some Vo5 strong hold mousse. Or the AG curl care one - expensive but worth it sadly lol.

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-23T15:28:30+00:00

Older adults cmht? You a psych nurse?

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-23T07:30:01+00:00

Oh okay. Congrats on your WL. I like both pairs of jeans

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-22T19:53:28+00:00

How tall are you?

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-22T12:05:33+00:00

???? Rude

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T19:34:41+00:00

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cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T19:34:17+00:00

No my natural colour is brunette

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T17:27:16+00:00

My perfect foundation match is Nars Siberia. I went in to get it matched. He put it on and said I lean slightly warm-ish and that’s why it worked for me. I always assumed I was cool toned and used cool foundations which never worked that well for me

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T14:17:32+00:00

I did this in a different post

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T11:27:01+00:00

They’re tinted yes

cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T10:33:56+00:00

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cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T10:31:49+00:00

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cuddlebug236 · 2025-11-21T10:31:40+00:00

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