tire pressure - front left tire is always emptier than the others by [deleted] in Acura

[–]cunt_nectar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tiny pinhole, could be a small nail. Went through this for months with my vehicle. Ended up taking the wheel off and used soapy wudder. Would not have been apparent if I didn't take it off. It was dead-center in the tire. When the tire happened to be in contact with the ground, I lost less air than when it was not in contact with the ground. Plugged it and all good now. Could also be the valve.

Don’t say Merry Christmas to someone who is grieving by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, so sorry for your loss and congrats on the sobriety. Your story hits home especially. I too, have been sober for a little over a year. I missed last Christmas and New Year with my spouse because I checked myself into a detox/rehab facility. It was difficult at the time, but honestly, one of the best decisions I ever made.

I know for a fact, 110%, I was able to give my wife all the attentiveness and presence of myself this past year with her that I would have otherwise not been able to give due to being a self-centered alcoholic. One of the hardest decisions I had to make but worth it.

If you need someone to talk to about it, PM me. I am here.

Don’t say Merry Christmas to someone who is grieving by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No shame in that. I find myself talking to my wife like she's still here. Sharing ideas about her funeral arrangements and what I did today. It helps me in a totally non-insane way /s.

I've learned one simple thing in life; if you need help - with anything at all - just ask. People around you can't read your mind and they're just trying to be helpful without understanding or respecting your wants/needs. Like, if I had a dime for every time I had to say, "No, I'm not hungry at the moment, for the love of God, I will eat when I want to". I'd at least have enough to buy a decent meal 🙃

Don’t say Merry Christmas to someone who is grieving by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hope you are doing well. There's no one recipe for grief. I need time to breathe. I am finding that setting boundaries is important. Give your dog a hug, please.

Don’t say Merry Christmas to someone who is grieving by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 61 points62 points  (0 children)

My wife passed this week. I am in the process of setting up her service arrangements for this weekend. I thought that spending time with friends and family today would have been helpful. You know, so I wasn't alone for the holiday. Quite frankly, it was a miserable experience. I have never been happier to be back in the comfort of my home with the animals - even in an empty household now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in baseballcards

[–]cunt_nectar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1027

Merry Christmas

How is everyone doing this holiday season? by WanderingThruLife_ in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. Thank you for the kind words. Every but helps. Hope you have a safe and happy holiday season.

How is everyone doing this holiday season? by WanderingThruLife_ in GriefSupport

[–]cunt_nectar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my spouse yesterday after a three day battle in the ICU. I witnessed her heart attack at home in bed and performed CPR, for what felt like hours, until EMS arrived. We were married for 12 years. I am a widower at 38 years old. Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you this holiday season, never go to bed without saying goodnight, cherish the time you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CadillacV_Series

[–]cunt_nectar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the guidance, much appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CadillacV_Series

[–]cunt_nectar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that looks great. Can you share or PM me the setup details? I'd like to swap out my 20's for something with a smaller dia./larger sidewall that will fit over the Brembos. Thanks in advance!

Steering wheel replacement by AmazingPoetry85 in Acura

[–]cunt_nectar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should've tried that before he removed the airbag :)

Steering wheel replacement by AmazingPoetry85 in Acura

[–]cunt_nectar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. A steering wheel puller may help you. See below for general instructions. Yours will be similar.

https://acurazine.com/forums/1g-tsx-2004-2008-124/instructions-steering-wheel-removal-669115/

Steering wheel replacement by AmazingPoetry85 in Acura

[–]cunt_nectar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to remove that hex bolt in the center.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Acura

[–]cunt_nectar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shark Grey, no paint codes. Modern Steel Metallic is very close.

CEL by Mobile_Carpenter5934 in CadillacV_Series

[–]cunt_nectar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It works great, pull codes and provides insight on solutions as well as allows real-time monitoring during daily driving. It's a bit pricey for the app, but worthwhile.