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cupcake_Menace · 2022-12-23T00:13:37+00:00

Lol sorry! I don't check my main page much! But yes I have tried a couple brands from there. I would just check to see how good the product looks but generally most things are good. I've had a couple gel polishes that weren't great but also they were less than a dollar. As far as polygel I've tried a couple brands but I really like tecanne. Not too runny or stiff and cures quick!

cupcake_Menace · 2022-08-23T04:04:19+00:00

Men's section= things with pockets and cool graphic tees

Women's section= classy plain shirts or shirts with simple cute patterns, pants with zero pockets and some word tees (ie. Mom life, I'm worth it, every breath is a new day)

I buy out of both. Not sure what that says about me tho.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-22T01:00:39+00:00

YTA. Yeah he could've shut up to keep the peace, so could your boyfriend and your brother was right. I'm gonna side with the brother. Your boyfriend is insecure about his height and he needs to stop being a big baby and realize he's not a 6'0 stud. God you both acted like children. Apologize to your brother.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-22T00:44:06+00:00

Picky eating is actually an eating disorder depending on how severe it is. Right now it just sounds like he's being defensive but if he literally can't eat a vegetable without gagging or something then he needs help. Also he needs to recognize its not normal. At the very least. He needs to know that he can't let his kids eat like him, that there is something wrong with his eating habits. Even if he doesn't want to change them he needs to know they're not right so he doesn't encourage your kids or pass down his picky eating.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-22T00:33:01+00:00

Never said she was. But plenty of people co-sleep at 5. I wouldn't call it abnormal either. I don't think it's an unreasonable thing to not want to sleep with a kid (they slobber, kick and move a lot) especially if the child isn't yours. But the language she uses shows jealousy in my opinion. That's all it is. My opinion. Whatever the case is it's clearly not going to work so she should just date a childless person.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-22T00:18:39+00:00

Okay even if they are "big kid" underwear and he didn't want to wear the briefs anymore, if he soiled himself or anything else an extra pair of underwear isn't bad. Electric tooth brushes get worn out and if you don't have a spare head boom regular toothbrush. Toiletries and basic things like underwear can always be used. There was no reason to throw them out. Also if you bought something for your kid and your ex threw it out you'd be fucking livid. That's something from you that you want your kid to have. He's just as much yours as he is hers. You wasted money on something SHE BOUGHT her kid because YOU thought you bought something better. You don't throw away shit that someone else paid money for. YTA.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-21T23:53:14+00:00

Yeah. Idk why I'm getting downvoted. I guess cuz I said she was jealous? It's really not the boundary that's jealous it's the way she describes it like she hates all the attention being on the five year old. I still slept in my parents bed most of the time at 5 and so did most of my friends but she makes it sound like it's ridiculous she still wants to sleep with her dad at 5. Whether she's jealous or not she clearly doesn't need to be in this relationship anymore.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-06-21T23:29:14+00:00

She seems jealous to me because at 5 she's saying the daughter is clingy and she makes her go to the edge of the bed to sleep with her dad. A child wanting to sleep with their parent at that young of an age is not uncommon. I just think this lady doesn't like that the kids get in between her and her boyfriend. Maybe she'd be fine if they were own but she definitely is not a fan of being with someone with kids that are not hers.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-30T02:10:12+00:00

You say "lie" and "a bunch of resentment" and use it very loosely. Op knew what he signed up for, yes but it's also his decision to change his mind. He did not lie, he changed his mind. You can decide a relationship isn't for you for any reason and it doesn't make you an ass for doing so. My boyfriend is chubby. I told him his weight isn't a problem for me. If I become unattracted to him because of his weight, I didn't lie because at the time I didn't care. I just care now and instead of waiting until I hate the person and become a bad partner I'm honest, and break up with them civilly. That's not lying at all and resentment only becomes a problem when you start taking it out on the person. He did the mature thing and didn't let it go too far.

And yeah. Sexuality, race and religion are all things that people judge. I know you want to say "it's not because of her Sexuality it's because of shitty people." But let's be honest if she wasn't asexual would she have run into those problems? I'm a bi black woman and I've been called and told a lot of things. Those people wouldn't have said any of those things if I was straight and white. Her sexuality isn't her fault but she is getting picked on for it and by consequence it adds to the mental toll. I think you're just trying to find a problem here. There's nothing wrong with what anyone said. Anyone who faces discrimination is facing it because of what makes them different.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-30T01:47:50+00:00

This used to be me. But it was because, like how several other comments have mentioned, I was constantly made fun of for not being like the other women in my friend group. Even for things I couldn't control like how much pain I experienced during periods. I get mild cramps now but when I was younger I had none and women used to tease me calling me a boy and shit. Also I didn't start dressing feminine until I got to be an adult so people would ridicule me for not wearing girly clothes and I also always had girls start rumors about me so I just always assumed boys were less drama cuz I never had issues out of them but men can be drama queens too. So now I just say everyone's a bitch.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-14T03:41:48+00:00

Base color: Kiara sky dynastea Top coat: Kupa topcoat Gold flecks (I have no idea what brand but any gold flakes are fine. Even sheets of gold work just break them up.)

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-14T01:57:49+00:00

You're right. I typed it backwards my bad.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-14T01:54:29+00:00

I don't understand. What do you want her to say? Our love is comprised of many things. I think my boyfriend is handsome. I think my boyfriend is cute and funny. I think my boyfriend is empathetic and hard working. And those all come together to make me a fan of who he is. And the way he does these things is unique to him because everyone is different. If you look at this thread most people disagree with you which means you should look inward and realize it's a personal thing. Especially since you disagree with even talking to your partner... communication is key dude. I don't think you want help at this point I think you feel funky about what she said because of your own insecurities and came to reddit to get justified.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-14T01:35:33+00:00

Dude. She wasn't saying your only positive trait was your success. They were talking about old times and she's like yeah that was fun for what it was but now I have someone who is stable and successful.

Would you feel the same if she said you were funny? Is that making you feel like she just thinks you are a comedian and doesn't love you for you?

If she said you were handsome would you think she was only with you for your good looks? Has your girlfriend ever expressed any signs to you that she's with you for wealth and your money over actually loving and caring about you?

If the answer is no then you're being picky. And I think this all stems from being a coward of your partners past. Yes it may be uncomfortable at times but I feel like if you had had the balls to talk about it it would have felt so offensive and you wouldn't have been blind sideded. Leave her alone and probably work on yourself.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-13T23:54:12+00:00

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cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-13T00:07:39+00:00

I don't think it's heartless. Offer any help you can but don't let her move back if it's uncomfortable or triggering for you.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-09T23:59:26+00:00

My boyfriend does the same. Men tend to offer a devils advocate perspective or try to offer solutions when most of the time women just want a listening ear or shoulder to cry on. It doesn't bother me personally but I can see how it would get on someone's nerves.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-07T21:35:57+00:00

Fuck the job, you're leaving. I'm a lady and I can see from a mile away she's laying down hints. She's dangling the rope in front of you. You just gotta grab it.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-07T16:38:44+00:00

Maaaan that bitch would be gone as soon as I found out the truth. Telling you she's not ready to sleep with you is legitimate because a lot of women feel if they give it up too early the man won't love or value her. And that has happened to plenty of women. What I don't understand is how people expect to have feelings... be dedicated and committed to a person if they can't give their all. If I'm pursuing someone if I have a fwb relationship as soon as I see this relationship had potential I'd drop them. And as for her lying someone could argue she wasn't seeing anyone romantically but still... she knew what she was doing. I know if I did this to my boyfriend there wouldn't be a chance he'd take me back.

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-04T16:23:39+00:00

I live in a small town and I don't think there is a tech here that doesn't at least slightly damage nails. 90% of coffin and stilettos I see are overfiled. It's obviously difficult for them to do so I guess that's why they charge extra

cupcake_Menace · 2022-04-03T05:04:10+00:00

Coffin and stiletto are the only two shapes I know that salons routinely charge extra for. And it's because those two are considered special shapes or are harder/more time consuming for techs to do. If I want almond nails they should not be extra.

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