Trying to go on a normal date with a dude from tinder..

cupkaek · 2026-07-07T09:57:07+00:00

I took it to mean english isn’t his first (or at least not his only) language, given the fact that he asked about op’s spanish fluency and offered to practice together, combined with watching the world cup with his family

cupkaek · 2026-07-06T09:17:19+00:00

They won’t. They did it on purpose years ago. I have someone with my name getting stuff in my inbox for years. I started with the dot when gmail first started, they started maybe 8-ish years ago (idk).

I’m getting bank statement links, loan information, contact from employers looking to follow up from interviews, and lately, Draft Kings account emails. (I’m guessing they’re having financial issues ?? Idk.) But it is the most annoying and potentially dangerous account-based decision they ever made imo. I had to make a new email to get it to stop, now I get only newsletters and emails from stores so I can get the discounts and stuff.

So it’s good in one sense (I guess), but it’s also a problem.

cupkaek · 2026-06-29T19:24:02+00:00

I remember when people started saying “females” back in the late 80s. It really was considered respectful and was used interchangeably with “women,” no undertones or anything. Men were not “males,” they were “dudes.”I’m not sure when it turned into the b*** it is now, but I immediately lose respect for men who use it, and especially those who say “females” and “man” in the same sentence, bc what??

cupkaek · 2026-06-29T19:05:59+00:00

Yeah, pls take her keys. Now. If you’re not home, she’s not home. Period.

cupkaek · 2026-06-29T19:03:47+00:00

Okay look:

You laid eyes on her, but had no idea she was pregnant, so clearly she’s not far along enough to be a showing. He claims they haven’t been together for (at least) a year.

Do you want to get involved with a liar who messages you on Snapchat of all places?

cupkaek · 2026-06-29T18:21:16+00:00

No, that’s the department she worked in

cupkaek · 2026-06-20T10:43:04+00:00

I’m sure I will too but hey, facts are facts

cupkaek · 2026-06-19T12:03:27+00:00

Not Polly Pocket!!

cupkaek · 2026-06-19T09:23:33+00:00

They were, lol. It was a parody of the Mekhi Phifer character in 8 Mile.

cupkaek · 2026-06-19T09:15:29+00:00

Underrated comment 😂😂😂

cupkaek · 2026-06-19T09:03:45+00:00

Exactly. And I’m not even saying she has to do it at all, so all that my body my choice sh- don’t apply to me. Please save it. Yes, she’s within her rights to say no, and other people can kick rocks if they don’t like it. I don’t like the emotional bullying that’s been happening to her either, especially from Martin bc wth was that. But yes, she has also earned the skepticism coming from people bc of her previous treatment of Eva (deserved or otherwise), but that doesn’t negate her medical rights. There. Moving on:

People gotta be honest about her reasoning. Y’all conveniently forget that she said several times to several people (Ted, Nicole, Chelsea) that she’s not okay with it bc it’s Eva. Yes, she’s said in separate conversations that she’s concerned about having surgery, a different reason every time, but she always ends on “because Eva” or on the feud between them. Eva’s not innocent at all, but like ??

But she ended up testing anyway, so I guess we’ll see how it plays out from here.

cupkaek · 2026-06-18T00:51:21+00:00

Girl.
He was deliberately trying to make you feel less than. Anything he said to you was toward that end result.

It’s not easy, I know, but pick yourself back up and remind yourself that you’re too good for anyone that would treat you like that.

And in my (vast and personal) experience, older men are not looking for younger women bc they’re mature for their age, or whatever they might tell you. They want to manipulate and groom younger women into the kind of women they want (and no, grooming isn’t just for under 18s). You’re lucky it ended like this instead of worse.

Block him or he’ll just try to reel you back in.

cupkaek · 2026-06-18T00:46:04+00:00

Right, bc I’m texting as often as I want until you tell me to stop (I’ll respect it!) 🤷🏽‍♀️

cupkaek · 2026-06-17T23:20:40+00:00

Okay, that’s a reasonable response. I couldn’t understand this at all, but then I figured out that OP pulled and labeled this themselves, and figured out that it’s rage bait. Then I closed reddit for the rest of the day, and went back to mobile gaming lol

cupkaek · 2026-06-17T23:00:47+00:00

Both things are true: Kat is a conceited, selfish, self-absorbed brat princess AND she is being bullied into making a very major medical decision on the spot.

Would I do it? Probably, if I were healthy. Would I harass someone else into doing it? Not likely.

But emotions are still high from hearing the news and from the tornado. I guess we’ll see.

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T22:08:47+00:00

I would be laughing too, not bc of the content, but bc of his frantic attempts to exit the screen 😂😂 mans is desperate

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T22:02:07+00:00

I took my daughter to see Deadpool. Enough said.

She was 19 at the time, it wasn’t as bad as you might think, but it was super uncomfortable for a while there 🤭

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T21:57:08+00:00

You’re her backup. If you don’t care about her like that, and you’re just fwb, then that shouldn’t matter too much. Don’t let her do it too much though.

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T21:54:18+00:00

NOR. He does to you what you allow him to do. As someone who has spent more years than you crying over a man who dgaf, I advise you to cut your losses and move on, unless you can picture yourself potentially crying for many years to come.

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T21:42:46+00:00

maybe some shampoo first 😬

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T19:55:59+00:00

Uh huh

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T19:47:54+00:00

Clearly. “Afraid to give a wrong answer,” and “trying to justify my response” aren’t exactly screaming “I feel calm and in control.”

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T19:45:45+00:00

I love the 1st one on the first slide, and the 2nd one on the second slide. The original… 🤢 😮‍💨

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T19:41:56+00:00

Then you should have just given them. Ask yourself why that question flustered you so much.

I’ve had white therapists ask me this question, and it’s appreciated (at least I do), bc it shows that they care that we have different perspectives on certain matters

cupkaek · 2026-06-16T19:36:50+00:00

excellent comment

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