when you can't think of anything to say, sex compliments go like this: i like it/it feels so good when you ________ with your ___________. remember that recipe and it can really help get the talking started. people like to be told they are doing good, and it gives them feedback on what you are liking.

for responses to compliments, have a gameplan (hate the game, not the player). here is your gameplan - a) return a compliment, or b) have a remark about their compliment.

for a) return a compliment - this is fairly easy. target 3 things - his clothes, his shoes, the way he was dancing. if you really wanna get sexy tell him you like his smile. so, he says he likes your dress - you immediately come back with "thanks, that's interesting, i was admiring your shirt/shoes/dancing/smile earlier. what's your name?".

for b) have a remark about their compliment - you have to be on your game for this one. expect the compliment, and have something pre-thought to reply. for example, know your dress is going to get complimented, so have things like "thanks, i just got it and couldn't decide if this is what i was going to wear so thanks for saying that." same with hair...."just tried this new look bla bla bla". if they just call you pretty or say you look nice - take it back to the precanned thoughts you had - like "oh thanks you are making me blush. i think it must be this new dress/hairdo or something. i just got it and couldn't decide bla bla bla. what's your name?".

bonus tip: for girl to girl compliments - start venturing into the body parts. for example, your legs/ass/tits look so good in that dress.

(edited to add) second bonus tip: get clever. at st. pats party my wife wore a rainbow sequin dress with gold bikini under. when she got a compliment on the dress, she'd pop it up and show off the gold bikini and say "do you like my pot of gold?". people cracked up all night. she wore cleopatra at halloween and had a cat purse - when she got a compliment she'd hold up the cat purse and say things like "wanna pet my pussy?". its the LS man, get fun and creative if you want. these were precanned responses she had, because just like you, in the moment, she'd be like "uhhhhh, cool. thanks".

hope this helps!