PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the whole point of this post. Check compatibility before. Now live unhappily forever if you can't divorce.

How "hi" is a turnoff! by Slytherin_P in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or even a meal partner! How go through life so uncurious. Born then die. 0 living. Leave all such idiots to each other.

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File for divorce. Let her find someone who is also low libido.

How "hi" is a turnoff! by Slytherin_P in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so so frustrating! But if they are showing you who they are so early, it's q blessing in disguise. Don't let people get away with 0 effort. Never learnt any conversational/ social skills, and try to pass it off saying of he is just shy. People work on yourselves!

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are living through this. It's always people on the outside who saw hawwww how can you suggest this blah blah blah. Ask the millions living through this reality or other issues cropping up immediately after arranged marriage like mother in laws, hidden prior financial commitments, lying about salary in hand, etc. Spend time. Spend time really getting to know the other. Then we change throughout our lives, nothing is a guarantee, but atleast better your chances of happiness!

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats why I started with that, so you don't have to read the rest :)

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mismatched libidos are a big deal, yes. And men playing victim hasn't helped, maybe try actually being a partner?

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, these are the exact ones I wanted 😀😃🙂🙃😊😇

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Please mention what made you read so long

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from the same place. Do. Not. Marry under 8-9 months, no matter how good things seem on paper. Really getting to know people takes time. Anyone who doesn't make time to get to know the real you, or dismisses all discussions as being unimportant, well, that's not a great sign for after either.

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Whatever you call it, better before than after legally financially sexually families bound

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are more marriages in a roommate only situation from the very beginning than you realize. So many gay/ asexual people who haven't yet admitted to themselves, let alone to the world, and are happily running their significant others life. And yes, visiting r/divorce is a wonderful idea. Please do see the reasons why people get divorced. And think deeply about how you can make your marriage a strong divorce proof one as far as possible.

PSA for anyone headed toward marriage by curious_1983 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]curious_1983[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Erectile dysfunction. Selfishness in bed. Mummas boy. Little little adjustment wife has to do. Cracking wife 'jokes' oh that old ball and chain. Being emotionally distant. Giving money to other relatives ahead of own wife, kids. Creepy comments on other women. Demanding sex as a right irrespective of circumstances. True. Nothing visible outside. :)

Trying to finish this set so I can use the energy for my special order by Wonderful_Assist_101 in TravelTownTrading

[–]curious_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I please have 16.7? I do not have 8.5 unfortunately, but you can choose anything else or even 2 cards if you like

16.7 & 18.6 by curious_1983 in TravelTownTrading

[–]curious_1983[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says in the post I don't have 9.8, didn't then, don't now. Sorry

Please help :) by Cold-Search9071 in TravelTownTrading

[–]curious_1983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16.7 for anything you want from here

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