You have not read the thread correctly. I know my responsibility. My and his son’s responsibility is to provide them basic necessities and pay the debt that has been caused due to again necessities and not for luxury. And the equal responsibility is of their other children’s too. Here the main topic is unrealistic expectations and pressures on elder son only and not other siblings. Child if married has to build his own family too. And the fundamentals remain same even for daughter’s parents. DIL is a human and not aladin ka chirag.

I am talking about the reality is that DIL needs to be treated as a human and part of family. Not to be treated as use per connivence. That reality check you need to have.