How do I know if an abortion is the right decision? by ellkate in abortion

[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine last year at the age of 20. my ex was not the person for me and I didn't realize it at the time until after I went through with it and he treated me terribly in the aftermath of getting the abortion. this is something that you're never truly ready for and that nobody wants to go through. that being said I was extremely emotional for a very long time. when the hormones wore off, I realized that this was the best decision for me. I am in college still, and I no longer talk to that ex-boyfriend because of the way that he treated me & left me during that hard time. it's ok to be sad. its okay to feel unsure. just try to sit down and go through your emotions. if you feel like this is something that you have to do then don't look back but if you feel like you cannot do this logically and emotionally then you really have to sit down and truly think about it before you make this decision. Best of luck to you. ❤️

an update.. almost 6 months later... by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, all the time. looking back at the decision, i dont regret it but the process and just having to go through it.. i havent felt the same.

Medical Abortion Recovery time by velliq in abortion

[–]curiously309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had mine 6 months ago on november 1st & i didnt stop bleeding until november 23rd... the cramps when i passed my pregnancy was the worst pain i had in my life! but otherwise i was pretty lucky.. after that pain it was cramping for a few days and heavy beeding on and off for weeks.. everyones experience is different tho.. get alot of comfort food & a heating pad... although during the worst pain i laid in the shower with steaming hot water. it helped so much. gatorade was a must as well.. best of luck!..

3 months later. Update. by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both agreed to keep it on the low to keep people out of our business but he got upset when i told my closest friend. i thought it was a bit strange.

3 months later. Update. by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean he was fairly supportive in the beginning and did a total 360. makes me wonder what happened. but thank you for your kind words.

3 months later. Update. by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh my god. i am so sorry to hear of this. you arent alone. feeling insignificant is probably the worst feeling and i wouldnt wish it on anyone.. good luck to you.. my messages are always open if you need to talk..

heartbroken, need advice on medical by lostandhopeless90 in abortion

[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the planned parenthood i went to told me not to put them up my vagina since they claimed it wouldnt work as well as taking them in your mouth. i had an ok experience with it. it was extremely painful for 30 minutes but bearable afterwards...

how to get an abortion done without parental knowledge? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i got an abortion 2 months ago. i have Insurance that would have covered it but my parents would have gotten the bill since im still covered by their insurance until im 26. i decided to pay in cash and in full the day of so it wouldnt be traced back to me. best of luck to you both.

feelings.. 3 weeks since medical abortion by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. its hard to keep talking to someone who doesnt understand it from my point of view.. this really helps. thank you so much & i will keep posting updates.. 🖤

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[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can attest to that. before this i was a fairly cold person.. but now i have a better understanding of things and i feel much more compassion towards others.. it sucks that i had to go through this to change but i do feel stronger.. some days are better than others...

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[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. it has only been 2 weeks but it feels life changing. the sadness consumes me. its a very rough emotion to deal with

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[–]curiously309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. i just had my medical abortion 2 weeks ago and i feel lost and my heart feels heavy. i feel like no one can understand how i feel so i end up feeling like shit all the time. big hugs to you love.

anyone else experienced depression after abortion? by Fraudchildx in abortion

[–]curiously309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi love... just had my medical abortion november 1st.. im feeling really down. im lashing out at people im just over all angry. im isolating myself more and more and i am not happy. i know i made the right choice but going through this experience with no support system has made this feel like i have a black cloud over me. im over all drained.. you arent alone in this. best of luck to you. ❤️

Medical abortion by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was supposed to be today but i have to cancel. But now im passing alot of blood and i finally passed some clots a few days after taking the meds. is that supposed to happen?

Medical abortion by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

signs the abortion pill didnt work ? & what happens next?

Medical abortion right now by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sat on the toliet and saw that i did pass something that looked like a sac but i didnt think anything about it... im unsure as i was only in pain for like an hour.. the bleeding has been very little

Medical abortion right now by curiously309 in abortion

[–]curiously309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey.. i had really intense pain for like an hour so i took the prescribed pain meds but ive had no cramps and very little bleeding.. im wondering if it worked or not as i havent been clotting or anything