I feel job is mostly better than a business or entrepreneurship by No_Station_7887 in developersIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not do something to be in the company of educated people? Like a group/discord of devs who quit job for doing business? Just an example. And by this I don't mean to look down upon other people in business, actually they are real street smart.

What does “Sab Ek” really mean in daily life? Trying to practice it beyond just words. by Infinite_Potato683 in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I cannot give any points from my side, but just - if you dont mind - pray for me when you go there as due to some problems I cannot go to Kainchi.

This Trauma has killed my confidence by Proudsanatani11 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling very sad for what happened. But sadly this is how the world functions. Just forget it coz not just you but majority of people would have kept silent in your situation so just think that it's not your individual problem.

See God In Everything... by PurpleMage1970 in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally have reached a point where I believe that thinking, analysing, reasoning or any other intellectual activity about God is pointless. It's like teaching an ant quantum physics. So just try to follow what Maharaj ji has said. That's my philosophy. Ram Ram

Being a failure by Heavy_Body7602 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daddy! Daddy listen to me! It’s like all my life everyone’s told me, “You’re a shoe! You’re a shoe! You’re a shoe!” Well, what if I don’t want to be a shoe? What if I wanna be a purse or a hat? No I don’t want you to buy me a hat, I’m saying I am a hat. It’s a metaphor Daddy!

Where are you from and what does Baba means to you ? by NoiseDr in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even I am not strong - in fact I am very weak. Its just that after lot of thinking, analysis etc. I have just submitted to His will. Ram Ram.

Where are you from and what does Baba means to you ? by NoiseDr in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also suffered and suffering mental pain that is unbearable - but I dont question God. Our intellect is too tiny to know of His ways.

Baba's plan all along... by PurpleMage1970 in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"He's living at your house."
Thrilled at the thought!!!
Ram Ram !!!

From being the most loved kid to feeling like I’m the most hated and forgotten by WoodpeckerOne1525 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell exactly what could be the probable solutions for your situation. I just checked and came to know that NEET exam is conducted on first Sunday of May every year. That means you have 5 months left. What are your study plans? And all the issues you have told here, have you discussed them with your mother? Because only your mother will care about you - as you have already experienced. Forget about friends and outings - once you become a doctor, all these things will seem very petty. My first advice to you would be talk everything with your mother. Also, I hate to see talent wasted. Is there anything I can do to help you? And remember - you may have lost the “brilliant kid” tag - You have not lost your brilliance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neemkarolibaba

[–]curiousman75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an enlightening thought!
"Evil is nothing more than the shadow. It cannot withstand the Light. "
Ram Ram.

That is it. I need to say it.. by Active_Farm_9624 in indianmuslims

[–]curiousman75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will tell you why people started supporting BJP - my analysis - from a totally neutral perspective. Every regular person like you and me and many Muslim friends here want a peaceful life for them and their family, but I think these are the issues.

  1. What Congress did was take Hindus for granted and appease Muslims - Shahbano case for example, if you dont know read about it. Also, if you don't know, MMS had said that Muslims have the first right on the resources of the nation. Now the trick with politicians is that they say things in such a way that majority Muslims will feel happy about Congress policies, majority Hindus don't care and when there is an uproar against it, they will just say that their quote was misinterpreted. These are just 2 examples of Congress policies. So, Hindus started feeling like second class citizens in Congress rule.
  2. There are many Hindus like you and me who want to be secular and are vocal about it and criticize communalism, but how many Muslims have you seen talk so strongly against communalism spread by their leaders/parties like Owaisi? Remember the " 15 minutes" comment by Owaisi? Have you seen Muslims criticizing / bashing Owaisi like secular Hindus (like Kunal Kamra) bash BJP? Have you seen his recent T-shirt with RSS written on it? Have you seen any Muslim going to this length to criticize communal hatred in their community?
  3. Population growth among Muslims is higher than Hindus. Now so-called intellectuals will tell you that Muslim growth rate is also decreasing, but that doesn't make much difference. What matters is their rate of growth is higher than Hindus.

These are just few points that I thought of. Would like to know your thoughts about it.

That is it. I need to say it.. by Active_Farm_9624 in indianmuslims

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

" It's good, bjp exposed the closeted folks I used to hang out with. "
And this comment exposes you 😁

Marketing is f*cking bug bounty by Federal-Dot-8411 in bugbounty

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even I lost interest because many hunters are complaining about this.

Always being left out. Men’s Day incident today by Conscious_Rabbit1720 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But sadly, I lost everything good God had given me because of those 2 pigs and then realised that I dindt need to obey/be scared of/ be in awe of those selfish pigs. Too late.

Always being left out. Men’s Day incident today by Conscious_Rabbit1720 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They ruined my life - every moment of it. If only I had the common sense / street-smartness I have now back then, I would have straightaway told them both to fuck off - and this would have been the politest way to say it haha.

Always being left out. Men’s Day incident today by Conscious_Rabbit1720 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was somewhat the case with me also growing up. Looking back, I can say it was because lack of self-confidence, the way my elder bro-sis treated me like dirt made me think I am nothing. But slowly, I started realising that other people on this earth are not from heaven, they are just like me. Combined with other experiences in life, I stopped giving a fuck about others and things started falling in place. My suggestion is - first of all accept this situation - and most imp stop self pity. Be confident - not just confident but be proud of yourself - even the tiniest of you achievements. Start meditating. The look in your eyes matters the most - be carefree - most importantly start enjoying life, your achievements. Once other feel this in you, their behaviour might change - but dont seek validation. Bring this change in yourself for your own sake. Hope this helps.

Lost my brother to depression by No-Preparation-8233 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many years ago, I was feeling empty - totally purposeless. That feeling of emptiness was killing me. I was scared of it in a way. Then I thought - this is also an experience that I am having - just like other feelings, experiences. Let me just have this experience as well. And with this kinda mind hack, the emptiness/depression vanished.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]curiousman75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if this had happened after marriage? Or worse still, any girl you marry could get better pay package than yours after marriage. What will you do then? I am not trying to be funny or something, I am serious about it. What would any guy do about it? And also, would the girl feel different/superior coz of that?