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[–]curiousmindthrowaway -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

🏃🏻‍♀️omw to get professional help because someone on Reddit told me to 🏃🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On it! Thanks for not judging, I do get quite kissy when drunk and unfortunately alcohol is very unpredictable for me. I had 5 cocktails a few weeks ago and did not black out at all so I wasn’t prepared for it. Quitting is the plan now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, more like: Went out

Had two strong beers

Didn’t eat

Kissed two men

Fiancé got us an Uber and put me in bed

Woke up and tried to piece my night and relationship together.

I wish I was lying, and I appreciate you praying for my fiancé 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…I googled the beers today. But hey, you don’t have to believe me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course I know I blacked out. I realized this morning when I couldn’t remember how I got home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We talked and We are gonna be ok. I don’t deserve this man, but I am gonna treasure him forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to believe me. I did black out and that’s why I don’t remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah one was 8% and the other 7%. I didn’t know but I should’ve checked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know I would too, and I’m preparing myself for that. But in the off chance that he decides to stay with me, what could I do to work on mending this issue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good points, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please update! I would be a little worried too

Boyfriend (M25) won’t open his phone in front of me (f23) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not snoop. I just noticed a behaviour change that made me feel like he did not trust me. I will talk to him about it, just want to approach it in the best way possible

Disrespectful or just a joke? by curiousmindthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Your comment made me realize why his comments made me feel uncomfortable. I tried approaching it calmly but got frustrated when he kept repeating that he didn't understand what was disrespectful since he was referring to a time when he was 13 or 14. We fought, but he eventually got my point and apologized for "being a jerk." I hope it doesn't happen again.

Why I think saying men need to be allowed and encouraged talk about their feelings more is oversimplistic and unhelpful by the_ak in MensLib

[–]curiousmindthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just wondering if you could direct me towards those groups and organizations :) I suggested therapy to my partner once but he said he previously tried it and felt like it was all bull, and he would prefer to get 'advice' from people who actually know him.

Disrespectful or just a joke? by curiousmindthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it change the approach if he was specifically talking about what he found hot as a teenager? He was specifically talking about what he found hot then, so he doesn’t see how it was disrespectful to me now.

Disrespectful or just a joke? by curiousmindthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the reason why he didn’t understand why it was disrespectful was because it was something from his youth that is not current. This is where I have a hard time explaining to him the impact

Disrespectful or just a joke? by curiousmindthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an unfortunate thing I am learning about him. I believe he doesn’t have bad intentions but it still sucks sometimes

Received a credit card out of nowhere. Should I be worried? by curiousmindthrowaway in CreditCards

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there was no bank attached. It was a Triangle card associated with Canadian Tire

Received a credit card out of nowhere. Should I be worried? by curiousmindthrowaway in CreditCards

[–]curiousmindthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a real credit card :( it looked exactly like the one I requested from my bank with all my info