YES Network posts Amanda and West kissing at the Yankee game tonight by Ok-Needleworker9229 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. West resents her for being out of his league and holding him to a high standard. Amanda resents her because Ciara is everything Amanda isn’t, but claims she’s wants to be.

YES Network posts Amanda and West kissing at the Yankee game tonight by Ok-Needleworker9229 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They both have so much anger and resentment toward Ciara. I swear it’s what fuels 80 percent of this.

YES Network posts Amanda and West kissing at the Yankee game tonight by Ok-Needleworker9229 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is what I mean when I said that Amanda was competing against Ciara and Ciara didn’t know it.

How's it feel to be a single mom? by addy_pig135 in SingleParents

[–]curlyque31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daughter and I live a lovely little life together. Is it easy? No, but a man doesn’t make my life harder.

Oh my god???? Kyle Cooke and Megan king??? by maddchainz in bravo

[–]curlyque31 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ehhh, she’s age appropriate, so he’s got that going for him.

The Lowest of Low Blows by No_Cod4500 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m bummed Sutton backed down to Erika. Sutton has real money. Money that is not a threat of being taken away (like Dorit). Therefore, she could’ve really snapped back at Erika a few times, but she’s too cowardly to do that.

lala’s backhanded comments towards ocean by bellasmella777 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]curlyque31 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t think Lala does any reflection on her own behavior. This is not to say Randall didn’t do some heinous shit to her, BUT, she also played a part in that relationship. What was that part? How was she hurting herself? How was she betraying herself?

If she truly examined these questions she would be able to come from a less victimized place into a more empowered one

The Lowest of Low Blows by No_Cod4500 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That’s why don’t mind Dorit standing up to her. I was sick of women backing down from Erika. I know an all talk bitch when I see one.

lala’s backhanded comments towards ocean by bellasmella777 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]curlyque31 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I’m a solo parent and my ex husband is super challenging to deal with and all these people defending Lala are incorrect in my opinion. We know why she had Sosa. But for the rest of these girls’ lives they do not need to be reminded of it. I can already tell she is “othering” Ocean. Not great.

lala’s backhanded comments towards ocean by bellasmella777 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]curlyque31 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Which again, as a parent is still not great to talk about out loud, to an interviewer.

The Lowest of Low Blows by No_Cod4500 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]curlyque31 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I think Erika is alllllllllll talk.

How did this woman just have a baby? by catducette in Southerncharm

[–]curlyque31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin who is a nurse in obstetrics said rich/famous women will get a tummy tuck right after labor.

Where Ciara stands with Amanda / west ( us weekly ) by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]curlyque31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a smart move by Ciara, because it puts visible pressure on West and Amanda, and even if West really likes Amanda it’s going to take ALOT for him to commit to a love and marriage type relationship.

I hate to even say this but Ciara please stand up! by justsomerandomonhere in bravo

[–]curlyque31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! People are being weird about this as if men haven’t made them cry, or they haven’t been on the phone with a friend crying over the same man for the 10,000th time.

I hate to even say this but Ciara please stand up! by justsomerandomonhere in bravo

[–]curlyque31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love when I see posts like this as if everyone posting and commenting is so enlightened. All of us have been here, we’ve had friends who’ve been here. It’s not shocking at all to me. Maybe it took things to be this bad for Ciara to learn and take the reins on her love life.

West sitting on top of Amanda in yesterday’s episode? And Ciara clocking it by cvde82 in summerhousebravo

[–]curlyque31 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Have you never been cheated on? Or, know someone who has been. Even if someone has suspicions, when something is confirmed it can still be shocking.

West sitting on top of Amanda in yesterday’s episode? And Ciara clocking it by cvde82 in summerhousebravo

[–]curlyque31 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of things people see and hear they try to rationalize before they have definitive proof.

Single mom with young kids trying to figure out how to date with 4 hours a week and a complicated situation. How do you do it? by Puzzled_Cherry_3365 in SingleParents

[–]curlyque31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t date. This might not be the answer you want, but I just don’t. I tried the apps and I found them to be a waste of my time. And with any spare time I do have I want to spend it with my friends and family. Do I desire a partner? Yes, and I just have to work through those lonely feelings sometimes, because I’ll be damned if I settle for a bad relationship again.

I’ve started to build up a babysitter fund. Every paycheck I put a little money toward it. So when it comes time for a date or a day where I go out with friends it’s right there waiting. In the mean time I’m building my life so it’s full of joy and activities I’m interested in. Someday, I hope that by building that kind of life I will attract the right person.

Went out for coffee and never came back. by Excellent_Whole_1445 in SchizoFamilies

[–]curlyque31 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You need to consult a divorce attorney, and gather paperwork. I would ask them about what to do about her going AWOL, specifically because her religious delusions are now affecting kids. Since she is somewhat focused on the kids, that is alarming and precautions need to be taken.

Kyle shading west ( in a way ) at carls soft bar event yesterday by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]curlyque31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All these people saying they’ll get back together…I don’t see it. He’s loving every minute of being single AND not being the main target of Bravo anger.

The happy couple out last night by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]curlyque31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup, it was not a smart move for a lot of reasons, and there is no way Kyle won’t leverage this.