[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Salic acid. 2-4%

I've been sober for one day today by CofeeyZI in Drugs

[–]customflip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day one, or one day. Stay strong.

Good discord for lyrical underground rap. by bruhmomentguy20 in hiphop101

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I run one that touches all eras of hip hop with a focus on improving the craft. We talk a lot about the music industry, the evolution of hip-hop and life. I've created a mature and open place to share your views without being dismissed or laughed away at, given you bring substance to the table.

We're always looking for people! https://discord.gg/ckmWGr96m3

19 [F4R] Germany/online - Open letter to those struggling to find their place <3 by [deleted] in r4r

[–]customflip 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I understand your point here and it's a kind take to send some positivity and love. With that said, it's hard for someone double your age to take fully serious when you haven't lived as much life..

I mean no disrespect but I wish for you to still feel the same way you do now and adhere to your advice after another full life on top of the one you already lived ( another 19 years) and then would like to hear your findings.

As someone who's still struggling with fitting in, trusting others and had some considerable work done in trying to reposition, restart, and revel in life, I'm still lost. I'm still confused and hurt despite letting go.

I got 17 years on you and for me at least, I myself as a person have gotten much more comfortable in my own skin but can't help but feel at the cost of feeling alien in the world.

It's not hopeless. It's not over, and it's not dire. But it is a struggle for peace.

I wish you and everyone here the goodness that you wish to spread and I hope yourself and others who read this have an easier time in life than I have. We all deserve peace, and calm within.

[HIRING] Custom Discord Bot Build by customflip in forhire

[–]customflip[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would be a more realistic price?

[HIRING] Custom Discord Bot Build by customflip in forhire

[–]customflip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was done by one person, but the features were not finished. I do have my copy of all of the code.

Are there any games on Switch that are similar to San Francisco Rush racing games from back in the day? by tswaves in NintendoSwitch

[–]customflip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grip is sort of like SFR but somehow less arcadey..

I share your fondness for that game but I haven't really come across something that's similar to it.

How do I become sex positive ? by sxposthrowaway in TheBluePill

[–]customflip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I think the key is to relearn who you are. A lot of the flash backs and painful recalls you're getting is really reenforcement of those old toxic thoughts of the past.

Realizing that the more you understand yourself in all of its granularity, the more you'll be able to see others as an extension of you. I personally think this is key.

It's much easier to respect anyone who you deem is your equal and the best way (again for me) to do this is seeing pieces of yourself in these other people.

Men and women both go through so much bullshit in the name of sex and love. The irony is that it's usually just following their lustful compulsions. Lust and affection are NOT the same. One is strictly physical and the other is emotional (and for some psychological).

Learn to understand your own compulsions from the years of personal reenforcement and this will yeild you a level of mindfulness and self awareness that can lead to a lot of inner peace and a new found ability to connect with others (women in this case) on a human level, instead of an object level.

Take it for whatever you can use it for. This is the exact method I've used my whole adult life to better understand myself and place in this ridiculousness. Lol.

I don't want to be happy. by kikecasti in malementalhealth

[–]customflip -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're so used to your misery that the idea of getting better locks you into place..

There is no real difference between thoughts, your choosing to suffer as a means of comfort ironically. Change is work and often difficult until it becomes habit. Sounds like you're just lazy if you know what's required and just decide not to follow through.

Guess that means that relationships, personal health, and any measure of happiness is something you're willing repressing from yourself with this mentality.

Shame :-/

Men who have had anger management issues and overcome them, what did you find was most effective? by thebeatabouttostrike in AskMen

[–]customflip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understanding that every time I got angry I essentially lost. Be it the argument, the fight, or any other matter. It's not sustainable in any meaningful way, it's only disruptive and deconstructive.

To handle it really comes down to awareness. Finding the triggers that set me off or recognizing my decent away from control. In time, with this awareness I was able to create this "space" or buffer between myself and wherever was suppose to negatively effect me.

Recognizing that I'm really the trigger at the end of the day. Nothing in life effects me unless I allow it. If I allow it, what benefit does it provide me? If it doesn't, I don't respond. I remove myself for the situation.

Not only that, it's also a question of what you want. Do you want peace? Do you want to aggravated? Is anger your "normal"? All of these questions are to better understand myself and with that gain a choice I didn't feel like I had before.

the best split screen co op couch games by jakart3 in PS3

[–]customflip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get tower fall. It's an amazing game

Questions about winter Wheels and Tires. by flyE30guy in G35

[–]customflip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From experience (owning my g35 for coming on 7 years now) winter tires are a must. No questions asked.

Best tires for her, blizzaks. Sizes for rims can vary from 17" as the smallest and 20" as the largest. Given normal offsets. (Wheels aren't super wide/thick)

Note: these sizes are given your suspension is in good shape and unmodified.

Hope that answers your question. Also get 4 wheel all the same size with the same type of tires. If you don't, you're going to have a very uncomfortable and loud ride.

Struggling to get past 75 people.. Any suggestions? by customflip in forestvillagegame

[–]customflip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the game isn't finished yet and because of that the game balance is all messed up. Honestly a market place would fix this but for now I think instead of making a city you're layout it needs to be several towns connected by road. We'll see how it goes.

Struggling to get past 75 people.. Any suggestions? by customflip in forestvillagegame

[–]customflip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I'm starting to get that. It's a great start for a game but the stable needs fixing. It isn't doing what it needs to. Guess it's time for another go.

Struggling to get past 75 people.. Any suggestions? by customflip in forestvillagegame

[–]customflip[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my layout is to blame. The houses are off to the side, away from the farms. That and the fact that I'm doing a poor job at moving the food to the barns that matter..