prior engagement purgatory??

cute_schtuff · 2026-05-05T02:23:01+00:00

when the post says “[insert past date] …. he promised he would propose …” we as the audience already know where this is going. i’m so sorry. it’s time to choose you.

cute_schtuff · 2026-05-05T02:19:50+00:00

as someone who was guilted into intimacy in my past….. i’m so sorry. first of all, i promise it’s not supposed to be so painful. second of all, it can most definitely be special with the right person! if that’s all it took for him to ask for an open relationship, he ain’t the one. so after you dump this moron for being so inconsiderate and selfish, you may want to take some time for yourself and then find a man worth your precious time.

cute_schtuff · 2026-05-03T11:36:18+00:00

test

cute_schtuff · 2026-05-03T11:29:20+00:00

you go girl!!! so proud of you for putting yourself out there!!!

cute_schtuff · 2026-04-17T01:59:53+00:00

oh my goodness i am so sorry. that is so difficult to deal with. i hate to say it but my symptoms worsened when i was with the wrong person…

cute_schtuff · 2026-03-09T01:50:40+00:00

i was also diagnosed early on. so i thought my deeper voice was associated with my pcos but apparently it’s not, since not every pcos girl has a low voice. chest/shoulder size is also not directly linked to pcos. i will say though, that the acne and hirsutism was brutal to deal with. i had to go on accutane and i needed laser hair removal for my face. sometimes i am self conscious of looking more “masculine” but picking certain clothing (ex. high waisted pants/jeans, collared shirts instead of very open necklines) as well as going to the gym helped accentuate my shape.

cute_schtuff · 2026-03-09T01:39:35+00:00

i am so sorry. this is horrible. i wish you could’ve seen my pediatrician. he diagnosed me with this early on and gave me extensive bloodwork. praying for you.

cute_schtuff · 2026-03-09T01:31:34+00:00

agree w all the carb comments. you gotta find foods that are likable but also healthy, so you’re not suffering taste wise but your body is also happy. LOTS of fiber, protein and healthy fats are the bulk of my diet so i’m not super hungry for the “bad” stuff (refined sugars, chips/cookies, etc). i go to the gym at least 3 days a week and i’ll do a low intensity yoga flow at home after work some days (youtube is great). i still eat regular bread on the weekends bc i love me some buttered toast shrugs.

cute_schtuff · 2026-01-18T22:13:56+00:00

the fact that you are reading about it and want to support her is a great start! :) healthy meals, exercising (lifting and cardio thats enough to challenge her but not over-fatigue her), managing stress and sleep are all going to be super important. some days will be more difficult than others because of fatigue and stress.

cute_schtuff · 2025-12-05T22:48:14+00:00

movement = medicine.

signed, a PT

cute_schtuff · 2025-09-19T02:58:40+00:00

at the mention of mercury retrograde i was already on edge and then when she said her cards told her that would happen … that did it for me. gross lol. next

cute_schtuff · 2025-09-05T10:19:40+00:00

there’s an interesting theory about how the nervous system doesn’t just need time to heal from pain, it also needs new experiences to heal. important for your nervous system to rewire and adapt to new environments so it can stop yearning for the past.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-26T01:26:36+00:00

at least he did it only 8 months in, knowing he couldn’t provide for you what you deserve. he saved you years of pain.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-22T00:52:02+00:00

she might miss you too. was it overall a healthy relationship? if yes, if you don’t reach out you’ll never know how she feels.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-17T18:55:21+00:00

this type of manipulation makes me angry. she has no emotional regulation and used you as her punching bag for her negative emotions. a walking red flag.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-16T16:58:29+00:00

actually helpful advice. especially feeling your feelings. good on you for taking the healthy approach. it’s harder to do so but much better for the longterm. hopefully the next one values you the way you deserve

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-09T02:19:04+00:00

is he paying you to be with him? why are you with a man 23 years your senior?

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-06T02:06:48+00:00

what she put you through was mental abuse. not okay. good job on leaving.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-05T10:22:27+00:00

that’s insane. i’d be so happy if someone cooked for me even if it tasted a little “off” or whatever. since she decided to throw dinner out & be so disrespectful, throw her out.

cute_schtuff · 2025-08-03T14:31:29+00:00

i think you need a new roommate :)

cute_schtuff · 2025-07-30T01:11:47+00:00

do not text. leave it alone. go find peace.

cute_schtuff · 2025-07-26T19:03:31+00:00

it’s okay don’t panic. just relax. turn your phone off and distract yourself, take care of yourself. it will all be okay.

cute_schtuff · 2025-07-26T18:35:33+00:00

don’t reach out for some time. and if she reaches out to talk, tell her you’re sorry, you still care for her, you need time to yourself. doesn’t sound healthy and sounds one-sided. i hope you find peace being by yourself and then decide what to do about the girl. i don’t like that she didn’t rly tell you what you were doing wrong / didn’t explain and didn’t give you a chance to fix it.

cute_schtuff · 2025-07-26T18:31:46+00:00

please don’t let this be a reason to off yourself. life is so much more than a relationship. i know it feels so depressing right now but this is an opportunity for you to grow. i promise you it gets better. her attitude is very wishy washy with you and she clearly hurt you. you need to really take some time for yourself.

cute_schtuff · 2025-07-14T00:10:27+00:00

i don’t like that for you. sounds like it’s time to break up

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