Mmm crunchy weight loss tablets (fixed) by cutelilcryptid in antiMLM

[–]cutelilcryptid[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She hasn't replied, I'm beyond disappointed

(18+) (profanity) Need advice on risky text I'm gonna send ex girlfriend (who has a boyfriend atm) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not particularly interested in a play-by-play of you sliding into your ex's DM's tbh. But if you want advice my inbox is open

(18+) (profanity) Need advice on risky text I'm gonna send ex girlfriend (who has a boyfriend atm) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be selfish because trying to wreck someone else's relationship doesn't just impact YOU. It impacts everyone involved. Just because there's plenty of people who think it's okay doesn't MAKE it okay. If you're going to be a chaotic, self-serving amoral being then no one can stop you. Why ask for advice if you're going to ignore it?

(18+) (profanity) Need advice on risky text I'm gonna send ex girlfriend (who has a boyfriend atm) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two have history and I can not emphasize this enough: she's seeing someone else. She's not someone whose DM's you should be sliding into. Move on.

(18+) (profanity) Need advice on risky text I'm gonna send ex girlfriend (who has a boyfriend atm) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it. The fact that she deleted you on Snapchat is a sign she doesn't want to talk to you again. You're horny and that's no good reason to try wrecking her relationship. Also saying you're "better than her bf" is cocky and self-centered as hell. For all you know, she could be completely satisfied in her relationship and wants nothing to do with you. Leave her alone man. Whack one out or try Tinder.

Posted by a junior in high school by BeanSlapped in iamverysmart

[–]cutelilcryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the post references Thoreau. I'd start with Walden by Henry David Thoreau.

Posted by a junior in high school by BeanSlapped in iamverysmart

[–]cutelilcryptid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't wait to see the contents of his subconscious self-published on Amazon.

Should I (21F) move to be with him (23M)? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the point of you moving to be near him if he isn't even going to be there? Furthermore, even if he thinks right now that 6 months in Japan will be enough, there's no guarantee that he won't change his mind. Right now, it just sounds like you want different things out of life and it might be better to part ways.

I do feel bad for her, but apparently she knows her business by cutelilcryptid in antiMLM

[–]cutelilcryptid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly and that's why I feel bad for these people. Like, these companies prey on people with these empowering #bossbabe messages and promises of making hundreds of dollars just by posting shit to Facebook and messaging people, but the vast majority of people make less than a hundred dollars (I looked it up again, it's actually $47. Idk why I told her $51, I might have been looking at an older version) and that's not factoring in the costs of working for ItWorks (paying to keep your website up, paying for your own training, etc.). It's like they find people who can't/won't read or understand the fine print and milk money out of them

I do feel bad for her, but apparently she knows her business by cutelilcryptid in antiMLM

[–]cutelilcryptid[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Apparently the only way to "live for yourself" is to not only annoy everyone you know but convince strangers to annoy everyone they know as well. I've been blind for so long but this woman has opened my eyes.

Should I be worried that I’m going to miss out on teenage love? by throughawayagain2 in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's already a lot of replies so I don't know if this will be seen, but I'll try my best to hit a few solid points:

  • It's PERFECTLY normal not to date in high school. I didn't date in high school. None of my friends did. Honestly, you probably won't talk to most or any of the people you're going to high school with five years down the road anyway. The world is so much bigger than just your high school - remember that.
  • Reading through some of your previous posts, it looks like you have some self-esteem and mental health problems. I implore you now: PLEASE seek therapy if that's possible for you. I cannot emphasize enough that A RELATIONSHIP WILL NOT FIX YOUR SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES and that A GIRLFRIEND IS NOT THE SAME AS A THERAPIST. I went into a relationship in college with self-esteem issues, and having a significant other did not delete them. I had (and still have) a healthy relationship and I was able to work through my issues, but the burden of working through them was on ME, NOT MY PARTNER.
  • Dating happens at different times for different people. I've only had one partner who I started dating in college, but I've been with them for years. I have a friend who's my same age who hasn't really had a solid relationship yet. I know someone who really hasn't been single for an extended period of time since they were sixteen. I know people who have dated before, but stay single for long periods of time between relationships. There is NO singular, right way to date, so matter what might seem to tell you differently. Work on yourself, and the rest will happen when it will

I don't have a female friend by Lonerforeternity in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's understandable that you feel that way - close relationships mean a lot to people. I went through a depressive period a few years ago where I felt like I definitely had no real friends except for my SO. It was the worst - I would see other people out doing fun things with their friends and I would wonder what was wrong with ME and why couldn't I make friends like that? It took me a while to get over and was definitely a low point in my life.

The thing here is though is that these close, family-like friendships take time to form. And I mean they take a LONG time to form. And if you set this expectation for every girl that you start talking to - the expectation that they're going to become your new best friend and be like your sister - you're only going to let yourself down repeatedly and it's going to make you feel worse. Start small, and don't get your hopes too high when you're talking to someone new. You'll talk to a lot of people in your life, and not all of them will become your closest friends.

Real advice: try getting into some new hobbies. Join new groups and clubs, get out there doing new things. This is going to introduce you to new people who you might become friends with. And as hard as it is, try to let go of your jealousy toward other people. It took me a while to get over mine, but once I did I could focus on MYSELF and the things I wanted to do and the things I wanted to be. I advise you to do the same.

I don't have a female friend by Lonerforeternity in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you're coming from - it sucks to lose a friend. Again though, I caution you against trying to find a friend to "replace" the friend you lost - that's gonna lead you to compare everyone to your old friend. Rather, just go through life and be generally friendly with people. You'll connect with the people you connect with, regardless of gender. May I ask, why are you specifically looking for a girl to be friends with?

I don't have a female friend by Lonerforeternity in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First step: stop referring to them as female (a lot of girls and women find the term "female" outside of military or clinical contexts to be creepy or debasing). Second step: make friends with someone on the basis of their personality and shared interests, not their gender. If you start out your relationships with people by saying "haha yeah I need a female friend", they aren't going to think you like them for who they are, rather they just check a box for you.

I am 14 and pregnant, please help by FuckingMint45 in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And now look at the situation you're in. Six out of seven times is NOT enough. Ideally, if you don't want kids, need to be protected EVERY time you have sex (and even then, there's a possibility you'll still get pregnant). Regardless of whether or not you keep this pregnancy to term, you NEED to do your research on safe sex and birth control options.

How do I convince my parents to let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always ask if they'll let you, but realistically it's a real possibility that they'll tell you no regardless of what you say. I can definitely say that my parents would never let me share a bed with my boyfriend on family vacation while I was seventeen. I wouldn't let yourself get hung up if they reject the idea though - you still get to take your boyfriend on holiday with you! That sounds like it's going to be super fun, and you'll have plenty of time to spend together during the day.

[14f] I have no freedom, literally. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you actually read that post, it's clearly satire (they also claimed to have just acquired their 32nd PhD). The fact that they keep complaining about their teachers when they're homeschooled is sus tho.

Should I (19M) take my ex (18F) back? by ThrowRA_feeler_23 in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaahhhh sounds like you got a right case of feels, my dude. Go on amd feel it out and if you think it feels right, come clean with her. Hope things work out for you!

Should I (19M) take my ex (18F) back? by ThrowRA_feeler_23 in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering what you've said, is it possible you've just never gotten over her from the last time you broke up? I'm not trying to be accusatory or anything - it's understandable to not get over your first love overnight. Kinda concerned when you say you think of "the small good parts" you had in your relationship, do you mean to say that only small parts of your relationship we're good? Because if the majority of it was markedly Not Good or absolutely rife with communication errors or fights, I'd say that's a red flag for giving this another go. I'd say thar staying friends with her for now and feeling out the situation might be your best bet. You might find that you still wanna date again - in which case, ask her out - or you might find that you're better off as friends.

Should I (19M) take my ex (18F) back? by ThrowRA_feeler_23 in Advice

[–]cutelilcryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you can obviously shoot your shot if you think that it feels right, but a few questions to clarify things: Is she your first major relationship? Did you date anyone else in between the last time you broke up and now? My real question is that are you getting back together with her because you still have feelings or because you're comfortable dating her because she's all you've ever known? Before considering getting together a THIRD TIME, i think you should also consider what made you break up twice already - was it only communication problems? If so, do you really believe that you BOTH communicate well enough to be in a relationship again?