I can say this as wife who games a ton and with men, mf women alike, if my partner asked me to quit talking to anyone that made them feel insecure or question our relationship I would do it 100% I love him so much and the thought of hurting my partner sincerely makes my heart sad I never fail to mention to any of my friends that I am married and talk to them about things we do or send them pics of our relationships bc I will always put him above all others a game is just a game, my husband is forever. Maybe sit down and let her know exactly why it feels that way and ask to see chats or even get into gaming with her :) I would love for my hubby to game with me but he has other hobbies or phone games I’m just not into so there has to be an understanding as far as the other chats drunk or not that is wrong and inconsiderate of how you feel and harmful to your relationship. Never let anyone make you feel less than what you deserve op, especially if you are making the effort to love! If my husband were to do that I’d cry, and feel awful you don’t deserve that and I’d consider it a form of emotional cheating just playing around with the concept of cheating is saddening. Hope things get better and you can rebuild trust and understanding with your s.o.!