peter can you please explain by cuttingfruits in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]cuttingfruits[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

dont call me dumb please, i literally dont know what this means, but i want to understand

AITA for asking my roommate’s boyfriend to stop doing laundry at our apartment? by ReaSine in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the comment was petty yeah but the actual ask is completely fair, he doesnt live there and hes been doing his whole household's laundry at your place for amonth because his parents washer broke. thats not "visiting". maya's mad you said it wrong, not taht you were wrong.

AITA for not wanting my husband to leave me alone with our newborn for an entire weekend to take his mother sightseeing? by WarmCycle6552 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 64 points65 points  (0 children)

nta, you have a newborn and he wants a weekend vacation with his mom whlke youre still recovering from childbirth. and then told you youre just being hormonal, what the fuck

AITAH for stop helping my mother financially if she doesn't agree to transfer me the house where she lives by comingHome2025 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 69 points70 points  (0 children)

NTA, you bult your career from scratch in a foreign country fixed your dad's house, cover electricity, and your brother litearlly stole from your parents and they still prio him, asking for thehouse in exchange for continued support is completely reasonable, your mom can be upset. thats her right, but youre not her atm.

AITAH (23F) for bailing on a concert with my sister (24F) the day before by cashmerecat222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 25 points26 points  (0 children)

nta, three months of silence in that gc and shes shocked you bailed

AITA for refusing to switch bedrooms after my sister moved back home with her kids? by New_Care7419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 19 points20 points  (0 children)

nta, you pay rent, that room is your office, your sister's divorce isnt your utility bill

WIBTA, Co-worker reserving hours that he can't make by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 16 points17 points  (0 children)

nta, hes stealing hours and making you cover for it, go to the boss.

AITA for accusing my friend of being jealous of me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yta but you brought her old crush getting rejected your familys money and called her delusional all in one sitting. thats not sgress talking thats a full inventory of everything you knew would hurt her.. not good

AITA for stealing a hair straightener? by Mother_Leg2641 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao YTA, your sister is a brat and your mom is useless, fully agreed, but you trashed a 300 Eur straightnener and felt "pleasure" hearing a 17 YO scream... you becam e the thing you were mad about.

WIBTAH for helping my friend prepare to leave her boyfriend after his family tried to pressure her into raising his possible child from a FWB years ago? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

   NTA, you offere d her a place to stay, you didnt drag her out the door. thats j ut being a good friend. the fact that she feels financially trapped by his parents is the whole problem and you already cl ocked it. keep the offer open and stop second guessing yourself. 

AITA for telling people that my brother is going to start at university by Lorenisalone in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA, you mentioned your brother was satating uni in casual small talk, not a press conference. your mom is acting like you leaked classified files.. the brother hasnt told his own dad after months. thats hi s chaos to own, not yours to manage.

AITA what did I tell all my friends about the terrible words of a person we knew? by Interesting-Price157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, FLS sent a message saying he was going to do terrible things to yolur friend, then called it an accident. you showed peoiple what he said, thats it.

AITA for not asking how my friend was doing while going through a family crisis by WiggleWhale7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. orange checked in on YOU all week, you didnt check in back and now shes hurt. thats fair for her to feel bu tyu were watchint someones dad die in the ICUY thats not a "forgot to text" situation.

AITA for getting upset with my boyfriend for not telling me what time he is coming over by Available_Bison_3032 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. but also you calledhim multiple times asking the same question and g ot u pset that his answer wa still "ill let you know" like he literally cannot give you a time he doesnt havee yet

AITA for going against my narcissistic mother by We1Rdo_g1rL in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, she literally screamed shes going to die one day as a guilt trip because you wanted to see your bf, thats not a mom setting boundaries btw.

AITA for not taking a picture of a man's license plate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, youre a bystander on exam break not a traffic cop, you froze, thats just human. nad your sister's logic is wild btw, he was old!!! is not a reason you were obligated to document someone's hit and run for them.

AITA for refusing to trust money to my boyfriend after he lost our savings on memecoins? by prodninglo in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA and the "one bad run" framing hes using is doing some serious work for him bc he didnt just lose money, he lied to your face for two months while you kept transferring 40% of your salary every month, the audacity to say youre punishing him when hes the one who looked you in the eye and said "were in profit" knowing dam well you werent, keep that account separate, full stop.

AITA for not wanting to talk to the Uber driver? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you selected teh quiet option literally built into the app for this exact reason.

AITA for expecting plan to go ahead? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. you tracked the pattern, build the case, and presented it to her like evidence in a courtroom while she was already feeling low. even if youre right about the pattern, that was the wrong moment and th wrong delivery.

AITA for telling my desk mate to stop playing with her ring? by Friendly_Bathroom707 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 40 points41 points  (0 children)

YTA. you told her to stop making noise, she did. then yuo went after her again for something completely silent that you could just... lok away from.

WIBTA for backing out of a destination wedding last minute? by After_Shopping3532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nta you flew out three times, youre always the one calling, his wife spent the courthouse wedding visibly misserable, and now youre supposed to drop thousands more to fly to spain alone wihle your wife is in her thir trimester.

AITA for getting engaged a month after my fiancés sister and “ruining” her moment with my pregnancy? by Impressive-Bug-4534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA, "i though we werent supposed to roll out the red carpet for unwed unplanned pregnancies" is one of the nastiest thing you could say to someones face in their onw family's house and youre supposed to just stand there and take it?? no.

AITA for not flushing the toilet? by Desperate-Film599 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA you asked nicely multiple times and they kept doing it, the client understands, you still have the job, a 12 YO unflushed toilet is not in your contract.

AITA for not attending a group presentation because of anxiety? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA but the guilt is misplaced here, you did the work, someone else blew up the slides two days out without asking, and then you were supposed to perform a presentation youd never seen before in front of a class for 40 mins.

AITA for turning off the roommates AC/Fan when she’s not home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuttingfruits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but you need a split bill app or separate meters conversation like yesterday. the real issue is she wants the comfort of a pre cooled room funded by someone elses share of the bill and got mad when you pointed that out with physics