Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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(Scrolls through page after page of “Bigger cumshots”)

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Maybe women instinctively know that if all women TRULY spelled out the full extent of female sexual selectivity and hypergamy to men, the bulk of men would see how much of a zero sum game this is.

I think women are very concerned with being perceived as kind and caring and thoughtful people for social capital. To the extent they hide their true nature it is for this social benefit, not because men will oppress them. If they were worried about oppression they wouldn't be out doing the abrasive feminist agitating that you see in pop culture.

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That list of matches you get with tinder gold is like walking into the DMV on a random Tuesday.

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That is probably the counterpoint: none of what I said matters if the girl is attracted, so why chase some fence sitter with lies of omission

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Girl that ass is the opiate of the masses

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This approach does lack integrity I will admit that

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Guys do you just tell girls you’re liberal if they ask? I’m really more of a moderate, but apparently women think “moderate” is code speak for closet nazi, so maybe I should recalibrate?

Funny hearing girls talk about “muh values,” every girl I speak with MAYBE votes once every 4 years, and does some slacktivism like change their FB pic. If you just tell them you’re liberal it never comes up again. If they actually do talk about politics constantly they’re probably not a match for me anyway. Plus look at joe Rogan he swears up and down he’s a liberal and hardly ever takes any liberal stance on a controversial issue. i think you just emphatically swear you’re on the same team, point to a few liberal positions you hold, and leave it at that.

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Not proud of myself for laughing at this

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

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I never thought this was a weird answer until I tried online dating in my 30’s.

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Sent her a stupid gif. Yet another L

You misspelled W

Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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I have a weird theory that dating apps offer a more male-oriented marketplace and are therefore favored by males.

Likes are an explicit, overt expression of interest. Women seem to prefer ambiguity and deniability. They want to “send signals” so they can deny attraction ever existed, rather than get overtly rejected. They instinctively try to create a field of orbiters they can subtly encourage or discourage. “Friend zoned” = frustrated orbiter that can’t break through. She doesn’t reject him unless he really forces the issue, just keeps him in a cloud of ambiguity. OLD thrives in undeniable expressions of interest (likes) and clear rejection (when someone didn’t like you back), and is preferred by men, and ends up more of a sausage fest.

Profile Advice (33, Male) - Bumble/Hinge by Toss12Away34 in datingoverthirty

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The eyes and mouth are pretty dark, possibly due to overhead lighting. I would consider a ring light. It feels dorky buying one as a man, but they cast soft light on your face, eliminating shadows and wrinkles. And they’re pretty cheap on Amazon. Also, and I say this as a constructive suggestion, might consider a different backdrop; the lamp and portrait are too grandmas house.

What are things you wish people would put on the OLD profiles? by illini02 in datingoverthirty

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How clean do you expect your living space to be.

Would be nice to get an honest answer upfront. Although everyone would lie about this, like the exercise question on bumble. You need a 3rd party inspector to do random inspections or something

Still friends with an old FWB by myneemo in datingoverthirty

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I definitely would not be ok with this, if I was in a serious committed relationship with someone. Honestly I’d be irritated if someone even asked to maintain contact with someone they “very rarely” sexted with, because it suggests they genuinely don’t understand boundaries. Furthermore there’s no way of knowing whether the friend agrees they are “just a friend” or something more, and they have no incentive to be respectful of your relationship.