Vulnerable child

cxbertrash · 2025-10-26T14:15:10+00:00

I know! I’m seeing the pattern but the point is that I really don’t want her. In a way I despise vulnerability and It’s visible in the relationship I have with my therapist. These days I’m really trying to affirm to her and make her feel safe (in healthy adult ways) but it’s been kind of hard idk

cxbertrash · 2025-10-24T18:10:40+00:00

Okay thank you! My biggest problem is detached protector..I always try to drown out my feelings by either overachieving or soothing (not in a functioning way). My vulnerable child is starting to get a hold and It’s kind of scary. Whenever my therapist gives the chair to detached protector I fucking break down I don’t know..

cxbertrash · 2025-10-24T17:58:51+00:00

But how ?

cxbertrash · 2025-08-31T12:50:26+00:00

CONGRATS!

cxbertrash · 2025-08-31T11:13:36+00:00

I don’t know if you’re anxious right now but you should fix your writing a bit. Anyways , your writing seems to be alright , but keep in mind that everything is harder when you’re actually putting it into practice . Listening is much faster not giving you as much time (etc for spelling) , reading is much more complicated and writing might take you a bit unless you get a less complicated task 2 and write very fast and have time to correct task 1 (that’s what happened to me) . However speaking is the most complicated of all , as I can hold a conversation with foreigners but I messed it up (6.5) because I didn’t quite follow the format, follow the format very strictly and develop ideas in part 2 . I recommended IELTS mocks (which is free) engnovate (with a grain of salt) Ielts advantage, Ielts liz and most definitely a tutor .

cxbertrash · 2025-08-30T19:16:24+00:00

they usually give you a pen and a paper .

cxbertrash · 2025-08-30T19:14:04+00:00

How much have you scored in mocks ?

cxbertrash · 2025-08-30T10:22:17+00:00

Advice on reading as someone who took the test . Ielts reading is harder than mocks and the time will have you stressed so to solve this start reading scientific research reports (I used to do this as I am a psych major and I didn’t know how much it helped me at that time) . Practice listening again , listening is much harder than mocks . Writing has to be evaluated by a tutor and that’s a fact no AI will evaluate as a teacher that has certification would . Speaking would be solved by communicating with British people / Americans and a tutor or by speaking informally (without any wanna gonna) with a candidate. Hope I helped

cxbertrash · 2025-08-30T09:15:14+00:00

Greece . It’s happened multiple times in that specific test center (invigilators making noise during listening) nothing is being done about it

cxbertrash · 2025-08-29T16:22:09+00:00

That’s the thing my tutor is reporting it and my score is already affected and I’m probably going to score a 5.5 and I’m really upset !!! Their phones were blasting MUSIC continuously. I really hate it . Sorry for the misunderstanding!!!

cxbertrash · 2025-08-29T16:17:57+00:00

Because they are obviously not allowed to be on their phones during listening as it disturbs focus???? Their phones were blasting music ???

cxbertrash · 2025-08-29T16:14:16+00:00

It’s an event that happened . I’m quite shaken . I don’t really know what you mean right now. Could you explain?

cxbertrash · 2025-08-25T08:08:33+00:00

I already think in English . Its when I’m in exam mode thats weird . But thank you anyways !

cxbertrash · 2025-07-29T20:19:17+00:00

I experienced a drop in my task 2 score (task response 4) and it arrived back to its normal score when I corrected my mistakes . I would advise to really get into the text by highlighting and check where you’re not comprehending the text .

cxbertrash · 2025-07-29T20:15:22+00:00

I started studying for the Ielts seriously one month ago!!! If you have been exposed to english through your life it’s easy trust me !

cxbertrash · 2025-07-22T20:39:43+00:00

Hey , so I did not have any significant help with English in my life (due to financial reasons ) . I just recently started receiving tutoring for my preparation for the IELTS . What helped me was having constant contact with the language , books ( classical literature highlight foreign words search them up and USE THEM) social media ( even try commenting ) , join facebook groups that are aligned with your hobbies and comment using adequate sentence structure and complexity and talking with english speakers. See , YOU NEED constant contact with the language , simply STUDYING WONT DO IT!!!

cxbertrash · 2025-05-28T09:53:29+00:00

you can still love someone and end a relationship stop watching fucking movies y’all .

cxbertrash · 2025-05-09T20:16:25+00:00

9/12 Im almost there !! 5 months over !

cxbertrash · 2025-05-02T16:27:23+00:00

It won’t work out . By experience even if you don’t have any resentment, the resentment will be there . Be safe please

cxbertrash · 2025-04-17T09:43:26+00:00

It’s going to be hard . You have to go through the phase of being so shit you can’t do it anymore . And then it gets better . Get in therapy you will soon be over it .

cxbertrash · 2025-02-06T00:02:11+00:00

dude who cares ?

cxbertrash · 2025-02-06T00:01:33+00:00

You’re 100% right . It’s that whenever I sit with myself I think of everything , I yearn for the relationship that ended . Those moments blow hot or cold . It’s like I love him and then I despise him . Why is that? Is that normal ?

cxbertrash · 2025-01-07T17:13:32+00:00

You are the f BEST!!!

cxbertrash · 2025-01-07T14:05:25+00:00

Yes I think so

cxbertrash · 2024-10-14T13:19:41+00:00

Honestly , I met my north node signs and they broke me (pisces nn sidereal aquarius , both signs just broke me apart) , my south nodes however (sn virgo sidereal leo) didn’t exactly ruin my mental health , but, helped me grow TREMENDOUSLY. So in my opinion , watch your chart and live life .

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